A Potential Relationship (Yikes!)

There is a relationship forming between a virgo man (Aug. 24 -- maybe he's a leo, I don't know) and me. However, it seems to be a stop and go, stop and go kind of thing.

One minute, he seems like he wants to ask me out. However, the next minute he acts so darn bashful, I don't know what to say to him.

LOL, I remember too days ago, I was doing my homework in the lobby. He and I had aleady spoke to each other, but he needed to go back to the gym so he couldn't stay long. Afterward practiced, he had to rush to class. However, just before he went to class, I looked up and I saw him looking at me. Then he looks away without saying a word LOL!!!

Yesterday, I saw him walking with his friends (they are going to a club tonight). He didn't know I was around because he doesn't know my work schedule. Haha, I guess he heard me talking and gestured goodbye as he was walking out with his friends.

My manager and supervisor seem to think the guy likes me or has a crush on me. I have no idea what's going on but he is interesting.

Now, here's my question -- how do I approach this situation? I mean, clearly I don't know what's really going on in his head but I don't want to assume anything either.

If a virgo guy is *honestly* interested, does he behave in a sheepish manner?

Last, a scorpio girl really liked him but he seemed to be turned off my her eagerness LOL!!! I'm very laid-back and I'm not the one to make the first move anyway -- I'm a capricorn afterall

So what can I do to nurture any potential happens without scaring him away?

Be lady like,have great manners,be polite & don't let gossip ever roll
out of your mouth cause they hate gosip! Dress nice & feminine but don't
show too much skin,lol!!!

Really? But I'm a tom-boy 😢 I really need to dress up more ... but, I'm trying to lose a few extra pounds before I but anymore clothes.

Plus, I'm a college student so I can't afford all those fancy clothes LOL

Thank you for all the info GeminiFox!

You are so cool 🙂 🙂

"If a virgo guy is *honestly* interested, does he behave in a sheepish manner?"


Yep. He'll be very subtle until he senses mutual interest.

virgolovesaries?? hmmmmmmmmmm...

nope. not what you think

lol .. sorry, VLS, I know it isn't funny 🙂

Perhaps, your best bet is to go to Virgo board and identify yourself with them .. for it's likely that most people who see this name will have a reaction of some kind. Probably not as repugnant as mine, but, a reaction just the same.

Once it's been established who you are among your fellow Virgins, people will look at you for who you are, rather than what looks suspicious.

No, PA, it actually is funny. Even the irony of the name VLA 😄

for now, it's off to find the virgins

Well I just say be yourself..........I think this is most important than anything else and just be honest and direct with your feelings....but yeah don't come on too strong this is a guaranteed way to scare him off.....but him a Leo/Virgo cusp and you a Sag/Cap Cusp ......it might take a while for something to happen.....

but actually I have a friend who is also a Sag/Cap Cusp friend and well we clicked right away....so you too might just naturally just gravitate to eachother