Action speak louder than words or less?

So do you believe action speak louder than words?

Or

Do you think words speak louder than action?

State your Mercury and Mars

I have Taurus in both..

For me action is number one.
But aren't words just as powerful or harmful than action?

For example

1. Bullying.

2. Friendship- if you make a promise keep it..I swear? If you break it..then what? Can we be friends still.

3. Relationships- you hear sweet notions, but their actions aren't quite there. Kinda off actually..

Do you still give chances if one is left out.. either action or words..What about you see action but less words?

4. Verbal abuse- your words scary me, your actions may lead to physical abuse- how do you deal with actions and words together simultaneously?

Scare

I expect both. Actions back up the words, but actions weigh heavier.

actions definitely speak louder then words, I can't trust someone who doesn't stick by their words

What kind of actions do you like from someone?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What kind of actions do you like from someone?

Follow through. Do what you say you will do.

If you say you love me, then treat me like you love me.
If you say you'll do this, then either do it or let me know why you can't.
If you say you are active at the gym, then you best be gettin' after it at the gym..

You seriously need to go outside and learn about the real world instead of parking on DXP and bugging everyone here.

After seeing your comment of total obliviousness in the gender roles thread, these posts are now becoming stranger.

You had no idea that other women aren't independent? What planet are you on, dear? You should try opening a book or looking into legit sources for your questions because you're starting to show a level of naivete that's a tad disturbing and makes these masses of questions look a little strange at this point. :/


And in regard to your question, actions speak louder than words. The examples that you listed in regard to words having more meaning are also examples followed by actions that back up those words (aka bullying).

It sounds like you're just complicating a simple concept that most people should be following but don't.

You're assuming things about me that you know nothing about.

Nice try honey.

And just to add-

You were a bullied victim and made fun of for being too skinny. I could never tolerate that and would commit suicide over that.

Puhlease.

If that's the extent of your "hardships," then you'd shrivel up and die if you dealt with a quarter of what I've been dealt with in life.

Now go back to playing with your legos and stfu before you embarrass yourself further.

Aaand if this chick is indeed bullied irl, then that tells me all I need to know in regard to her incessant posting here.

I'd like to know why you think you KNOW I wasn't bullied in school. Go ahead, great oracle. Enlighten me. I'm sure it'll be more ridiculous drivel.

But keep on boohooing sweetie. I don't really care. I'm not about to get into some dipshit one upping contest about who's had it worse in life with some emo kid on the internets who thinks life's biggest hardship is being bullied in school. Either way, you're just stepping in unnecessarily and making hilarious assumptions on zero information. What are you, 12? You sound really young, tbh.

Keep on trying though. I really don't care. 🙂

Have fun with your "important business."

I am not a bully, SO what if you or I been bullied, it makes us stronger . I don't know but I just speak about experiences and throw random ass shit.. And see if it relates to anyone. So if they reply then maybe there is truth to it or it needs more understanding. I don't give a flying fuck about what you think, feel, or say. Your experiences in life are different from mine. Every deals with shit their own way. You can't break this bull..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I am not a bully, SO what if you or I been bullied, it makes us stronger . I don't know but I just speak about experiences and throw random ass shit.. And see if it relates to anyone. So if they reply then maybe there is truth to it or it needs more understanding. I don't give a flying fuck about what you think, feel, or say. Your experiences in life are different from mine. Every deals with shit their own way. You can't break this bull..

Stay strong girl.

No one has been through more than Rocky. I mean no one can compare you to anyone else in these forum or in life..right.

When you give advice it's never nice. It's always fuck him, ditch him, stand up for you, and don't take shit from no one. Yeah we all say and do that. It's harder than you may realize to some.

Especially good people experiencing bad shit, but some people need support, advice, and friends...because everyone has been through hell in back not just you.

Give credit dxp is better than reading a book and can get alot of personal insight.


Rocky I challenge you to say something nice to
The next person on dxp that might have been through negative shit..lol yes dig deep..and say something positive to them..

In return I will cut down on some postings. Haha.

I wasn't talking to you Airman, I was talking about Rocky, Lol You cool peeeps

I was being sacrastic how rocky is always being negative in every posts. I challenged her not you..

@OP: For me it depends on the nature of the relationship. If it's a business relationship actions speak louder than words but in a personal relationship words are more important. Not quite sure why. For example there are a few people that I am close to (friends and family) and although they may "show me they care" in various ways none ever tell me that they love me. Maybe they don't: maybe they just have a sense of "duty" towards me. I don't know.

*facepalm*

I never forget what someone tells me. I have a great memory..Their words are all I got to trust you..if you are inconsistent with your words then the actions better show then.