Arrrgh.....my Aqua is so unpredictable!

Hey there everyone 🙂
Am a Cancer female seeing an Aqua since 5 months. Thing is its an LDR. Now we were in the same class in college, but kinda "met" again via a social networking site. Oh and he told me (a lil later after we started chatting) that he had a crush on me since the 2nd yr of college but was so scared to come up and talk. Well we have been chatting/phoning since past 5 months now though we started "dating" maybe some 3 months back. He is expected to visit by this yr end.
That was for the intro. Now the real bug. Everything was great. He is one of the Sweetest things I have ever met. Sweet, Gentle man kinds. So, in the beginning 3 months he was too into me, like stayed up long nights to chat, talk to me etc. Call more often. But since last 2 months he is high and dry. Its also cz he has been travelling for work, but still he gives me the impression that i need to take an INITIATIVE to keep communication on. Oh, yeah well all the long hrs are gone btw. He did tell me its gonna happen till he is thru his travel. But c'on i mean is it such a BIG deal to just e-mail or whatever? I mean he took me up there and now he's acting like this. Though when I do initiate, he replies back sweetly. He's having a rough time too. His visa approval has issues so he is low. But isn't it natural that when he is stressed out I would like to be the one who he shared his things with? Darn! And he disappears! Like anything! He hasnt really chatted/e-mailed in 2 days now. I mailed him yesterday night (my night) asking him to take things easy and gave some updates from my end and asked him to come online if he gets the time (his night) so we can chat or something for the next day. Guess what? He did come online now for 10 min or so, didnt buzz me! And logged off!
What do I do...? My aqua, is he acting like he should be being one? Arrgghhh....

Hey unsualcancer!
Yeah...you guessed it right...Am a Cancerian...Actually I've been reading (and loving) a lot of your's and moonchild8's posts in other forums 🙂 And am glad that you replied back to me! 🙂
Umm, you just mentioned that with an aqua love may take a back seat, but the competition is more often than not from stuff like buddies,work et al...Are you saying that chaeting is not his cup of tea...? I mean I am dead scared though I know its not something very good to say, but I am thinking on the terms of him back in my country since a week and being in the hiding 😢 All this cz we haven't really spoken in umm, say, 4 days? And, since his work-tour's started like 14 days back, he hasnt really made attempts to contact me much, he replies to emails thats it. I know weird of me , but c'on, his darned fone aint working and i havent asked for another contact no. neither has he given me one on his own. He acts like he is "too busy" and shit. But Idk what to do!! I know he is someone who takes his work too seriously, like always fussing about how much he has achieved in life et al. Which seems kinda hyper to be. What do you think unsualcancer?

I have loads of doubts as to how should I deal with him...
Ignore? Care? Loads? Less? How....
Also, did I tell you its an LDR?

LOL true.
Yeah elena90, he's been so in the past. But this time is the limit. Actually he's acting quite weird and really irritatingly. Well idk if you wont even REPLY back to your beau's email asking about your contact number while you are traveling...It really gets too much sometimes ya know...

Is being so okay too?
A few days back he seemed fine! Talk about unpredictability....

My experience plus from what I've read here, Aqua men tend to be more aloof towards those they really care about. It's actually a sign that they really like you. (?) I don't get it but some women have endured through the aloofness and have attained a happy relationship. If it's worth it to you.

If an Aquarius says: "I don't want a commitment. Is that okay?" just as/before we're getting physical/just kissing/touching right now, does that mean that he doesn't want a commitment because he's seeing other people or that he wants to get to know me better before committing?

Tell him that he cant see you/kiss you touch you because you're maybe onto someone else already, because what's good for the goose is good for the gander!!

So next time you're getting into whatever, tell him to back off a bit, and then he's all yours 🙂 Works a treat!!

whatever you do, don't contact him. let him contact you. otherwise if you keep pursuing it, he will go in the other direction. he just needs to be in his head right now. that's how those darn aquas like it. he'll be back. be patient. i have lived and breathed this for over a year now.