TrulyScorpio
@TrulyScorpio
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Breakups, NC and Angry Scorpio
Hi. You don't necessarily need "help from Male Scorpios" as any human being can and will respond. Here is my response:
You seem to forget as a Scorpio yourself that you have a "stinger". He used it on you. He doesn't want anything to do with you anymore (sorry) and you won't get an apology from him as he feels he's done nothing wrong. As far as for you to go drinking, why? When you wake up you get a hangover and the problem is still facing you when you get sober. So I suggest you start working on yourself. He's gone to the gym. What about you? What do you like to do as a hobby? Build your self esteem back. Do not allow a man to "steal your thunder". I am a woman that listens to Country and Western music. Go to you tube and listen to this song by Keith Urban, "Blue ain't your color". You'll understand the words as you shouldn't allow a man (ANY man) to have you lose your self esteem. Why don't you see it this way? God has closed that door for you and he will blow one WIDE open for you! You mentioned at the beginning that you and he would fight all the time. Two Scorpios are like adding two boxers in the rink. Who's gonna win? Who really wins? If two Scorpios are in a relationship; there's give and take, there's communication, respect, love, empathy/sympathy; seems like BOTH of you were not successful in this relationship. Who likes to fight all the treetrunking time? I don't; he doesn't; you don't, but did. And about the family problems; this goes back to him not wanting (and didn't) want to support you in that department. Seems again to me he had no sympathy for you/your family. If a guy is a MAN, he will accept you as you are and will love your family, too. I lived with a Scorpio that did me wrong and I came out as the winner in this "fight". I am Piscean and a strong independent woman. Stay strong, focus on yourself, and love yourself, too! Why do you want to stay in a relationship where you're not wanted? He's already blocked you on FB and I don't understand how you sent him this message. Write this same message on a piece of paper and go burn it in the back yard (or bury it). You did a no, no when knocking on his door when drunk as a skunk. You scared him. Now you're labeled as a stalker (by him) and you just put the nails on your own coffin. Sorry to be so blunt, but I don't sugar coat my comments. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
You seem to forget as a Scorpio yourself that you have a "stinger". He used it on you. He doesn't want anything to do with you anymore (sorry) and you won't get an apology from him as he feels he's done nothing wrong. As far as for you to go drinking, why? When you wake up you get a hangover and the problem is still facing you when you get sober. So I suggest you start working on yourself. He's gone to the gym. What about you? What do you like to do as a hobby? Build your self esteem back. Do not allow a man to "steal your thunder". I am a woman that listens to Country and Western music. Go to you tube and listen to this song by Keith Urban, "Blue ain't your color". You'll understand the words as you shouldn't allow a man (ANY man) to have you lose your self esteem. Why don't you see it this way? God has closed that door for you and he will blow one WIDE open for you! You mentioned at the beginning that you and he would fight all the time. Two Scorpios are like adding two boxers in the rink. Who's gonna win? Who really wins? If two Scorpios are in a relationship; there's give and take, there's communication, respect, love, empathy/sympathy; seems like BOTH of you were not successful in this relationship. Who likes to fight all the treetrunking time? I don't; he doesn't; you don't, but did. And about the family problems; this goes back to him not wanting (and didn't) want to support you in that department. Seems again to me he had no sympathy for you/your family. If a guy is a MAN, he will accept you as you are and will love your family, too. I lived with a Scorpio that did me wrong and I came out as the winner in this "fight". I am Piscean and a strong independent woman. Stay strong, focus on yourself, and love yourself, too! Why do you want to stay in a relationship where you're not wanted? He's already blocked you on FB and I don't understand how you sent him this message. Write this same message on a piece of paper and go burn it in the back yard (or bury it). You did a no, no when knocking on his door when drunk as a skunk. You scared him. Now you're labeled as a stalker (by him) and you just put the nails on your own coffin. Sorry to be so blunt, but I don't sugar coat my comments. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
he's being spiteful and vengeful toward you put your chin up hun you will look back on this and laugh at his petty arse.
Posted by tizianiI didn't mean to guilt trip him but rather was trying to pour my heart out... Thanks
I think you're better off not playing the guilt trip card. It just makes people feel more relieved that they can avoid you. Your last message to him reads very false. Give it some time and maybe in the future you'll both know what you really want to say, if there is anything to say at all.
Posted by moongem11I hope I reach there soon
he's being spiteful and vengeful toward you put your chin up hun you will look back on this and laugh at his petty arse.
Posted by leowwwI am finding it difficult to stick to the no contact rule.. I am so angry and emotionally vulnerable because of the way he behaved.
You should always keep in mind how someone behaves towards you during a difficult time... That's how real it gets....& vice versa.
Unfortunately I think you shouldn't expect anything from him.
Continue the no contact, it's hard at first but it works... Trust... You just need time.
What seems so unbearable and hurtful right now won't be after some time.
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyI completely agree with that you shouldn't let someone get so close to you that they can hurt you this bad. I am somehow not being able to get over that particular day.
He's acting like a dick and feeding into your insecurities. He probably knows which buttons to push that make you vulnerable. If you're out there being crazy then he doesn't look like that bad guy. Don't ever love someone that could do that to you so easily.
Also the first heartbreak is really hard on a Scorp. I don't know one that didn't just about lose it their first time. Don't let it define you though. Everyone acts crazy and has their shit spilled out in the open at some point. Take notes and learn for next time and apply yourself to a healthier and more worthwhile relationship.
Posted by EvatheDiva
Hi. You don't necessarily need "help from Male Scorpios" as any human being can and will respond. Here is my response:
You seem to forget as a Scorpio yourself that you have a "stinger". He used it on you. He doesn't want anything to do with you anymore (sorry) and you won't get an apology from him as he feels he's done nothing wrong. As far as for you to go drinking, why? When you wake up you get a hangover and the problem is still facing you when you get sober. So I suggest you start working on yourself. He's gone to the gym. What about you? What do you like to do as a hobby? Build your self esteem back. Do not allow a man to "steal your thunder". I am a woman that listens to Country and Western music. Go to you tube and listen to this song by Keith Urban, "Blue ain't your color". You'll understand the words as you shouldn't allow a man (ANY man) to have you lose your self esteem. Why don't you see it this way? God has closed that door for you and he will blow one WIDE open for you! You mentioned at the beginning that you and he would fight all the time. Two Scorpios are like adding two boxers in the rink. Who's gonna win? Who really wins? If two Scorpios are in a relationship; there's give and take, there's communication, respect, love, empathy/sympathy; seems like BOTH of you were not successful in this relationship. Who likes to fight all the treetrunking time? I don't; he doesn't; you don't, but did. And about the family problems; this goes back to him not wanting (and didn't) want to support you in that department. Seems again to me he had no sympathy for you/your family. If a guy is a MAN, he will accept you as you are and will love your family, too. I lived with a Scorpio that did me wrong and I came out as the winner in this "fight". I am Piscean and a strong independent woman. Stay strong, focus on yourself, and love yourself, too! Why do you want to stay in a relationship where you're not wanted? He's already blocked you on FB and I don't understand how you sent him this message. Write this same message on a piece of paper and go burn it in the back yard (or bury it). You did a no, no when knocking on his door when drunk as a skunk. You scared him. Now you're labeled as a stalker (by him) and you just put the nails on your own coffin. Sorry to be so blunt, but I don't sugar coat my comments. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thank you Eva.
I am trying to stay strong but I am having mixed emotions right now. I am furious at him for doing what he did but also I kind of miss the friend that I had. As for drinking, I found it as a quick fix but now I have completely stopped it. Also the song Blue ain't your color is lovely! Thanks for recommending it hun xx
Posted by TrulyScorpioPosted by EvatheDiva
Hi. You don't necessarily need "help from Male Scorpios" as any human being can and will respond. Here is my response:
You seem to forget as a Scorpio yourself that you have a "stinger". He used it on you. He doesn't want anything to do with you anymore (sorry) and you won't get an apology from him as he feels he's done nothing wrong. As far as for you to go drinking, why? When you wake up you get a hangover and the problem is still facing you when you get sober. So I suggest you start working on yourself. He's gone to the gym. What about you? What do you like to do as a hobby? Build your self esteem back. Do not allow a man to "steal your thunder". I am a woman that listens to Country and Western music. Go to you tube and listen to this song by Keith Urban, "Blue ain't your color". You'll understand the words as you shouldn't allow a man (ANY man) to have you lose your self esteem. Why don't you see it this way? God has closed that door for you and he will blow one WIDE open for you! You mentioned at the beginning that you and he would fight all the time. Two Scorpios are like adding two boxers in the rink. Who's gonna win? Who really wins? If two Scorpios are in a relationship; there's give and take, there's communication, respect, love, empathy/sympathy; seems like BOTH of you were not successful in this relationship. Who likes to fight all the treetrunking time? I don't; he doesn't; you don't, but did. And about the family problems; this goes back to him not wanting (and didn't) want to support you in that department. Seems again to me he had no sympathy for you/your family. If a guy is a MAN, he will accept you as you are and will love your family, too. I lived with a Scorpio that did me wrong and I came out as the winner in this "fight". I am Piscean and a strong independent woman. Stay strong, focus on yourself, and love yourself, too! Why do you want to stay in a relationship where you're not wanted? He's already blocked you on FB and I don't understand how you sent him this message. Write this same message on a piece of paper and go burn it in the back yard (or bury it). You did a no, no when knocking on his door when drunk as a skunk. You scared him. Now you're labeled as a stalker (by him) and you just put the nails on your own coffin. Sorry to be so blunt, but I don't sugar coat my comments. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Thank you Eva.
I am trying to stay strong but I am having mixed emotions right now. I am furious at him for doing what he did but also I kind of miss the friend that I had. As for drinking, I found it as a quick fix but now I have completely stopped it. Also the song Blue ain't your color is lovely! Thanks for recommending it hun xx
YW! Good for you that you've stopped drinking. And is that a "friend?" You miss your "friend". Can you imagine how he treats his enemies if this is how he treats his friend(s)? Isn't it a beautiful song!? 😄
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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