Buddy Needs Help

So a buddy of hours used to date this girl who we didn't like. He would ditch us all the time to spend time with this girl and we got really pissed off at him at one point and it ended in a confrontation. Finally he saw how much she brought him down and they ultimately ended because of different interests. Lately he's been dodging hanging out again and we suspect he's shacking up with this chick again. So I took the liberty to draw a 3 card tarot spread just for giggles and asked the question, "are they shacking up again?" I'm a novice reader and thought I'd ask a for input before I go any further. Anyone have some insight into the cards I pulled?



1) Reversed 2 of Cups
2) 2 of Wands
3) Reversed Queen of Pentacles

If this guy's your friend, you'll give him the freedom to be who he wants to be with and decide for himself if/when he's had enough. What he does in his love life is simply none of your business. If he really is your friend, you would respect his freedom more than your own expectations of what a friendship is supposed to look like. He's hiding out b/c he knows his friends aren't respecting his freedom or right to choose. And friendships like these don't last.

Well, when having a relationship with her gets him into grey areas with the law and alienates his friends and family... We're a little concerned.

Posted by Dsepe
Well, when having a relationship with her gets him into grey areas with the law and alienates his friends and family... We're a little concerned.

Okay and I can appreciate the concern but generally speaking it's not the woman getting the man in trouble with the law. Even so, you can't these kinds of circumstances. It's still his life and if he's rebelling he will resent your efforts to save him. If you're truly a friend, you'll be there for him when he gets his act together and comes to you for help. Otherwise your concerns will fall upon death ears.

"cant control these kinds of circumstances." typo queen here.

All I'm asking for is insight into the cards I pulled - for my own development of card reading and to help him.

Posted by Dsepe
So a buddy of hours used to date this girl who we didn't like. He would ditch us all the time to spend time with this girl and we got really pissed off at him at one point and it ended in a confrontation. Finally he saw how much she brought him down and they ultimately ended because of different interests. Lately he's been dodging hanging out again and we suspect he's shacking up with this chick again. So I took the liberty to draw a 3 card tarot spread just for giggles and asked the question, "are they shacking up again?" I'm a novice reader and thought I'd ask a for input before I go any further. Anyone have some insight into the cards I pulled?



1) Reversed 2 of Cups
2) 2 of Wands
3) Reversed Queen of Pentacles

NO..because it's none of my business, and it definitely is NONE of yours. Get your nose out of his ass.

Posted by Este8
If this guy's your friend, you'll give him the freedom to be who he wants to be with and decide for himself if/when he's had enough. What he does in his love life is simply none of your business. If he really is your friend, you would respect his freedom more than your own expectations of what a friendship is supposed to look like. He's hiding out b/c he knows his friends aren't respecting his freedom or right to choose. And friendships like these don't last.

^^and that too in more words.

Posted by Dsepe
All I'm asking for is insight into the cards I pulled - for my own development of card reading and to help him.

Since you are a novice, do some research. You can do general readings on the energy of what's going on around you, and you should never do readings for yourself. Never do readings on people who didn't ASK, the negative energy of it will come back onto you. smh

Are you a guy?

Posted by Dsepe
All I'm asking for is insight into the cards I pulled - for my own development of card reading and to help him.

Those cards mean nothing and LetitB is right, you really need to get out of this guy's business. Friends really don't have the right to interfere in each other's lives no matter what the motivation. If you can't hang with the choices your friend is making then you need to get out of the friendship. Bottom line: stay out of the private lives of your friends b/c no good will come of that. And you wouldn't want your friends sticking their nose in your biz.