Cap sun, aquarius venus love, insights?

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I am a Libra sun, moon and mercury, Cap rising with scorpio venus and sag mars. He is Cap sun with aquarius venus and cancer mars.

Can't tell you about his moon because it's either scorpio or Sagittarius...

He would be perfect if it wasn't for his elusiveness. Shy, ambitious, hardworking, friendly and funny in a cap way (dry humor and stuff)

I don't know what do to, if it's worth waiting for him or if it's just useless. Do you think our birth charts could match?
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I don't expect a lot. I've been very patient and understanding.
Agreed.
Tell us more about your guy. Do you see any red flags?
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He doesn't text. When I want to meet him, he always has something else to do, usually involving friends.

But when we do meet, he's everything I'd ever want...

I don't know if this is just their regular behaviour or they act like this when they only see you as a booty call
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I don't expect a lot. I've been very patient and understanding.
Agreed.
Tell us more about your guy. Do you see any red flags?
He doesn't text. When I want to meet him, he always has something else to do, usually involving friends.

But when we do meet, he's everything I'd ever want...

I don't know if this is just their regular behaviour or they act like this when they only see you as a booty call
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I can't relate about the booty call. We've only had sex once recently. He probably does like you though! But your needs should be met too. Talk to him about it now before it's too late.
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As a VIS you will not get the emotional stability you need from an aqua Venus.

An aqua in Venus needs space (and lots of it). These people are not good emotionally on a one to one basis. A sag moon is also always "on the go".. If he has a sag moon it will go well libra moon but if he has a scorp moon it will clash with your libra moon.

Also air and earth = sand... I would say don't "wait" keep all options open.
I see that we're on different levels when it comes to emotions... But what about his cancer mars?

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I don't expect a lot. I've been very patient and understanding.
Agreed.
Tell us more about your guy. Do you see any red flags?
He doesn't text. When I want to meet him, he always has something else to do, usually involving friends.

But when we do meet, he's everything I'd ever want...

I don't know if this is just their regular behaviour or they act like this when they only see you as a booty call
I can't relate about the booty call. We've only had sex once recently. He probably does like you though! But your needs should be met too. Talk to him about it now before it's too late.


We didn't have sex and it's already too late. He disappeared for 2 months and when he got back I didn't reply to his texts. And yea I am still very much into him but can't let him treat me like an idiot

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? You got the silent treatment... a lot of girls with cap problems talk about that and it has never ended good for them..
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As a VIS you will not get the emotional stability you need from an aqua Venus.

An aqua in Venus needs space (and lots of it). These people are not good emotionally on a one to one basis. A sag moon is also always "on the go".. If he has a sag moon it will go well libra moon but if he has a scorp moon it will clash with your libra moon.

Also air and earth = sand... I would say don't "wait" keep all options open.
I see that we're on different levels when it comes to emotions... But what about his cancer mars?


His cancer mars will make his actions like those of a sun cancer person which is square to your mars in sag.

The Venus is important as this is how we show love ie this is what we are attracted to in a relationship.

My ex hubby had a Venus in aqua and I have a Venus in Pisces... Never again will I want to be involved with a person with this Venus. Although I am attracted to aqua (my rising is Leo so therefore my descendent is aqua) and I am attracted to men with this placement (my present beau has a VIG and two placements in the 11th house) , I couldn't be attracted to a VIA again... They are way too aloof!

With a sag moon and a VIA good luck trying to pin down a person with those placements.

My Taurus beau has a sag moon and a VIG (that's hard enough) :-)) :-))
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So even if he had Scorpio moon and cancer mars, nothing would change?

I feel there has been a great lack of communication between us