Capricorn guy trying to express something—

Is he hinting at me??
Me and this guy have been friends for a couple of years, but thats all it's ever been, however he's always talked to me like we are more than friends. Recently he has said indirect things like i want a relationship now, i want to find a girl and settle down etc etc.. but its all indirect nothing where he has said with you etc etc.

Anyway in the last couple of weeks he has tried calling me but i havn't had the time to speak to him or anything, i havn't returned his calls, i'v been quite busy.. so after a few times of ringing me he text messaged me (this is very unusual for him he NEVER messages me), but i assumed its because i hadn't called him back or nothing.

He messaged asking me to listen to a song and tell him what i think, so i was thinking thats unusual again..because he's never bothered enough to message me normall about music lol.. so then i listened to the song and i was like :O.. is he trying to tell me something. to me the words practically described our situation.

the words are : baby i've known you for a long long time, i never thought that we would find, what we are holding in our hands, lately i've been thinking i should make you mine, been thinking that we should define what we are, you know i like to be in control but recently i don't know what to do i'm losing it over you,

we both feel the same, and i can't play this game any longer

girl i think about you all of the time, wondering how im going to make you mine,so many things ive been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today, i want to hold you till the light fades away..


thats the basic jist of the song...

so after he messaged me asking me to tell him what i think... i said i would listen to it later.... and then that very same day he did ring me again... before i'd even messaged him anything back about it..because i was confusedd.. as to whether he was trying to tell me something... or whether i was thinking to much in to it

so i rang him back a few days later.... and he didnt mention it again ... so i thought i would... i said yes so about that song... its not your normal type of song that you like (i didn't wanna be too obvious).. i was just trying to find out his reasons for asking me to listen to it.. and he said not really...BUT I REALLY LIKE THE WORDS....i said ok kool.. and that was it end of.... he didnt even ask me my opinion of it or anything more...

so it could either be that he didnt mean anything by it...

Looks like he's interested and wants to know if you are. Are you? Cap men need reassurance before asking you out especially if you've just been friends.

Posted by Mistery
Looks like he's interested and wants to know if you are. Are you? Cap men need reassurance before asking you out especially if you've just been friends.

not interested in the way that i want a relationship...nothing like that... but i like him generally...if that makes sense

but i don't understand how he could think i would give him reassurance after talking about a new girl every other day

example: my neighbour...shes so hot.. blonde and blue eyes... all my mates say i should hook up with her... i can't control myself around her.

my doctor is too pretty... and soo caring..and noone else cares about me like she does... i feel like proposing to her

this girl down my block.... she seems sweet and is so pretty... and i think she likes me

me and my friend flirt with each other all the time... i find her so funny..

TO NAME BUT A FEW

and it makes it harder to believe when he says things to me which imply that hes interested :/

Posted by 25thDecan
I feel for the guy. He has ZERO idea where he stands with you.

fair enough i understand.. but if you take a look at all the examples i gave... where he mentions other women... do you still feel for him? yes fair enough i havn't told him where he stand... but at the same time i havn't bragged about other guys that i like... or think are attractive... just out of respect... how am i supposed to believe him when hes trying to tell me he likes me

Posted by 25thDecan
I still feel for him because I'm a guy and I know all too well about overcompensating, priming a chick(no offense) and the sting/fear of rejection. He's been fishing for awhile on you. In fact, I think he's been doing it for a long while, it seems.

He talks about other chicks in his midst to see if you show some feeling for him, jealousy, reaction, etc. It's easier(well not really "easy") on the ego to prime a chick instead of asking her and setting yourself up for rejection AND potential embarassment.

you think thats all it is? as opposed to actually having interest in other people? and just simply telling me about them?
how can you tell that im the one on his mind? or that he's been fishing for me as you said?

i don't actually show any kind of reaction... just the kind of reaction his male friends may have if he told any of them...like koool man..go ahead lol... its not in ma character to show jealousy and be a drama queen.. so he won't get anything out of me that way. im sorry to say :/

Posted by 25thDecan
I can tell because he's known you a long time and has yet to change his behavior. On the one hand...a friiend. On the other...probably wants you. Please don't confront the poor nadless fellow...that'\\crack the ego down for sure

that interesting, change his behaviour as in move on to another girl? as opposed to getting to know me for a good few years? is that what you mean? and what was your last statement? confront him how?

Posted by 25thDecan
Yes...as in talk to another girl romantically and stop bs'ing with you...just be a friend. Don't confront him: as in don't go "I've figured out that you want me".

damn i read this message too late...
i kinda messaged him today...about the song again.. even though it was three weeks later..let me know what you think of his responses and whether they fit your theories about him

so i messaged part of the song lyrics again...and then said listening to that song it actually makes sense now. im sorry it took three weeks tho 🙂

then he texted back and said lol i thought you might like it ( clearly not giving too much away about himself)

n then i said i do thanks... 🙂
and he messaged me the rest of the lyrics which are : so many things i'v been wanting to say, held in my heart for a day like today , i wanna hold you till the light fades away, i wanna hold you till the light fades away..and then lol i love this song 🙂

and then i messaged saying.. it's like this song was written for certain people...
and he said im sure it was 🙂 and i just ended it with a 😛

Posted by 25thDecan
He needs to have a convo with libra sid or wg...cuz i'd just curse him out. Give him time...idk...he's weird. I know caps can be very slow movers but usually they have ZERO problem making a real stand.

llool im sure you would... unless we got it all wrong...and his interest is limited ..haha... im sure im not exactly the easiest person to deal with either.. im extremely standoffish most of the time... todays texting i'v never been that straightfoward ever.. maybe about a year ago

for example he did ask to meet me a couple of times.. and i am guilty of brushing his suggestions off.. or sayin im not in to that stuff lik that :/.. i dnt mean to do it. it jst comes out.. so i dunno if the problem is me

another thing could b that.. his ex was unfaithful... and he really liked/loved her apparently... and she obv screwed him over..he said it was the first time he had given his trust to anyone...and after tht he stopped for a long time... n obviously i cme in to the picture about a year or so after the ex...