Crush dilemma

So there's this guy I'm friends with on Facebook. We have a lot of mutual friends and stuff and he's really popular so I'm nervous about that alone. I dated one popular guy and it didn't end too well, and in my opinion popular knows popular I??ve never seen them in pictures together or even hanging out or spoken of one another, it's only an assumption but that's one reason I'm nervous to approach him.
Secondly guys that like me know his best friend. I don't know if they technically know him though.
Also approaching a guy is simply not my style. I hate it. But this one is really pushing my limits. Lol. He's so cute. It started out as —Oh he's cute. I like his pictures.?? When I would see him on his bestfriend page on Instagram. I didn't develop an actual crush until we became friends on Facebook and he started liking my pictures. Here's the real deal, he could just be liking my pictures because I like his. It's like tit-for-tat. If I like 3 of his pictures he will like 3 of mines. Sometimes he likes them on his own, but he??ll definitely like them.
I tried poking him on Facebook but it didn't work. Mainly because most people don't even know what the heck —poking?? means on facebook. I had this other guy I think is cute poke me, I thought maybe he wants my attention but I didn't respond because I felt he's going to have to be a little more clear.lol
Anyway, I'm rambling, long story short I??ve seen my crush twice in person and it could all be in my mind but the second time we were at a party it seems everytime I turned around there he was. My friends kept pointing it out that it seemed like he made it his business to be where ever I was at the party.
Anyway, I'm wondering what I should do? Should I wait until we are at another party and approach him or should I just write him on facebook? if so what should I say? Or should I just let it flow? Letting it flow is my specialty lol. Its?? safe. If he comes to me I know he likes me for sure right?

What's his sign? You posted this in Relationships & Astrology so I assume you'd like an astrology-related perspective.

LOL. Hi Rowan, you'd think that but that is incorrect. I just want a general response. I had no choice but to post it here because it's the only tab that offers relationship advice sadly. lol
But he's a Leo, I'm a Libra

Here's what you do.

It's a very carefully crafted, written message-



"Hi."




Hell, even do it after he likes a pic of yours to help get convo starting.

Libras... always complicating shit with that indecisive monologue in their heads haha.

@VIVACIOUS SCORPIO
Knock it off. You just got @Kodak very excited. Lol.
@Kodak this is how I think. I have a bit of an ego problem and I have a serious fear of rejection because it doesn't happen to me often so when it does I don't know how to respond or act about it, so I try to avoid it at all cost. Each time I came out of my comfort zone and approach a guy or let him know I was interested before being absolutely sure he was interested I didn't get the response I wanted. I mean sure they??d give me their number, but I??ve found the best outcomes are when you allow a man to do what they born to do, HUNT! LOL

@Rocky, HEY girl Hey! You know your response had me cracking up. Leave us alone. Darn right, I complicate things at times I??ve accepted it as part of my personality at age 26. I have grounded friends in my circle like you though, that have no problem bringing me back down to earth when needed, and giving things to me in black and white. Lol.

To everyone else, turns out my cousin knows him from high school which was about 4 years ago. And he didn't know much except the fact that girls are always all over him, and he feeds into it a lot. And judging from his page and the two times I??ve seen him in person, not much has changed and women are still falling at his feet; which tells me my best bet is to wait until I see him in person again and let him come to me. Going to him would put me in the pact with the rest of the women, because that's what it seems he's used to. If I ask for his number or write him on facebook he??ll respond and give it to me because I'm easy on the eyes, but I??ll be just another cute girl in his phone that came onto —him?? not the other way around for a change.

LOL

When he posts a pic next, look and see if he's online. Send him an instant message asking a question about his pic, like 'hey, I was wondering where that pic was taken' or ;was that taken xyz?'. It's friendly and not too forward.

Posted by truecap
When he posts a pic next, look and see if he's online. Send him an instant message asking a question about his pic, like 'hey, I was wondering where that pic was taken' or ;was that taken xyz?'. It's friendly and not too forward.

Seems kind of creepy that i would ask where he took the picture considering i dont know him from a can of paint.lol.

He just liked my picture. It was a quote that said "I hate him. Wait. He just texted back. False alrm". It was in reference to how girls are when the guy they like dont text back fast
enough.

I just commented on his new picture of a plate of food. It looked all fancy and
had the nerve to have some little twig coming out of the macNcheese, so i poked
a little fun saying "With yo lil fancy plant coming out of the macNcheese" lol.
He hasn't responded yet. I'm silly when i like someone. I figure the quickest way
to their heart is to get them to laugh, or at least get them comfortable talking
to me. What better way than to show off my sense of humor right?

LOL. Thank you. I thought it was funny, but apparently he didn't he didn't respond 😢

Posted by pinklibra

Posted by truecap
When he posts a pic next, look and see if he's online. Send him an instant message asking a question about his pic, like 'hey, I was wondering where that pic was taken' or ;was that taken xyz?'. It's friendly and not too forward.

Seems kind of creepy that i would ask where he took the picture considering i dont know him from a can of paint.lol.

He just liked my picture. It was a quote that said "I hate him. Wait. He just texted back. False alrm". It was in reference to how girls are when the guy they like dont text back fast
enough.

I just commented on his new picture of a plate of food. It looked all fancy and
had the nerve to have some little twig coming out of the macNcheese, so i poked
a little fun saying "With yo lil fancy plant coming out of the macNcheese" lol.
He hasn't responded yet. I'm silly when i like someone. I figure the quickest way
to their heart is to get them to laugh, or at least get them comfortable talking
to me. What better way than to show off my sense of humor right?

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Oh, I thought you knew him. I guess I didn't catch that you didn't. lol!

The humor is good! I agree with that.

🙂 lol. Funny you would mention that. I just said in another post how libra's
fall and get up easily. If someone leaves me up in the air or dont get it together,
I dip and move on with life.

I honestly hate the poke feature -- if you want my attention say something, don't poke me. Leos love the chase, so because you have already sent him several pokes, I would just wait until you bump into him at the next party.