Fidelity: Which placement reigns supreme?

Okay... I think I've been watching too much Iron Chef from the title of this thread, haha.


I was just wondering which placements are best considered when checking out the potential fidelity of a mate. Would it be the sun? the moon? the mars? the venus?

What would be the best combo do you think of all placements (sun, moon, venus, mars) would assure a mate that would not stray and cheat?

Strong saturn,
weak or no uranus aspects

The focus primarily is on venus, especially with men but I am a bit sceptical - I am Gemini with Gemini venus (and a triple gem overall) yet I loathe infidelity...could be my emotional mars in cancer and fixed taurus moon that makes up for it though...
So maybe its not so much specific planets BUT the signs in planets generally (more planets in water? earth?) AND the connections between them.

If planets like moon and venus are afflicted, that could be a bad sign. ditto for saturn, as well...and connections with venus-uranus could show unpredictability, longing for freedom and difficulty of commitment

AND dont forget the houses...generally, its how a chart FEELS to you - saggie, aqua placements in venus, afflictions, house placements...could be the culprits, possibly when 2 or more of these are combined

* Sun is our basic nature...of course you read the whole chart bearing this in mind...

it might take a lot of time and effort, but if you get a virgo to fall in love with you, then you probably won't ever have to worry about any of this cheating nonsense.

^ psh. that's the problem. virgos either love you or they don't. time and effort are irrelevant. all you can do with them is fuck up a good thing.

it's more about having the luck to catch their creepy virgo stare in the first place.

Virgo.. virgo... virgo... i don't know if I've had enough of them or what.

My mom is a virgo with a gemini moon so we get on really well (I'm Gemini). My best friend, I just found out last night is a quadruple virgo -- virgo sun, moon, rising and venus. Well, at least I know that my immediate support group is going to be there for a while.

My boyfriend right now is virgo also with a capricorn moon. Since I get along with virgos famously, I think it is his cappy moon that makes us butt heads with each other.

Posted by curious visitor

it's more about having the luck to catch their creepy virgo stare in the first place.

you know you like it. besides, it's not creepy if he's devilishly handsome.

Posted by spica
Strong saturn,
weak or no uranus aspects

I'm not so clear about the uranus aspects. I got both our natal charts and we both have a Uranus but whether it's a weak one or not, I'm not sure. His Uranus is in Sag, mine is in Libra. What does this mean?

And what would be a strong Saturn?

Cheating has to do with how you were raised. Your role models, values are dictated by your environment not astrology. I have aspects that make me less willing to commit but not cheat. There's a difference.

Look at planets but most importantly, aspects to the person's moon & venus. It will tell you what they want & how they behave in relationships.

Morals are taught ... not happenstance of date of birth

Posted by Midgetbull

Posted by Lilith
The focus primarily is on venus, especially with men but I am a bit sceptical - I am Gemini with Gemini venus (and a triple gem overall) yet I loathe infidelity...could be my emotional mars in cancer and fixed taurus moon that makes up for it though...
So maybe its not so much specific planets BUT the signs in planets generally (more planets in water? earth?) AND the connections between them.

If planets like moon and venus are afflicted, that could be a bad sign. ditto for saturn, as well...and connections with venus-uranus could show unpredictability, longing for freedom and difficulty of commitment

AND dont forget the houses...generally, its how a chart FEELS to you - saggie, aqua placements in venus, afflictions, house placements...could be the culprits, possibly when 2 or more of these are combined

* Sun is our basic nature...of course you read the whole chart bearing this in mind...

My venus is in gemini and I also hate infidelity. I will never look back at a cheater, and if I know someone who is cheating I tend to avoid being around them.

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Same here re infidelity. I'm Gem Sun which means it will take a bitch of a time to get me to commit but once I do, cheat on me once and I'm gone. I won't even ask him why he did it.

Posted by VitasXisto
No sign is loyal and that is the cold truth.

Right now, I am jaded enough to actually believe that .... and even prove that right.