Help My Taurus is being ODD!! :(

Lots of history, about 4-5 yrs worth. Ups, downs hell and back. Not ever claiming our "relationship" as a real relationship. Lots of fun together, lots of dinners and movies out, lots of walks hand in hand and window shopping or shopping. LOTS of intimacy and contacting each other daily, but NEVER an official relationship till 2 days ago! Not only did he get on his knees in front of me, told me he was in love with me and said he wants to marry me. THEN we made love and he made sure he stayed in me ( yes unprotected) and tilted up my pelvis and kept my legs up for 10 mins after he finished in me! HE WANTS A KID...
Problem is all of the above. I'm a Cancer, I LOVE HIM!! I have a 12 yr old, and I'm a single mom, I do everything for my son and I'm very responsible- my own place, car, good job. He's never left my side, even thru our most terrible fights, so what does this mean?? You can't make a Taurus do ANYTHING, so why now? WHy no "commitment" but the need to make a baby?? Help?!?

Cancergurl - That's extremely odd and very very sudden. Has anything big happened lately in his life that you know of? Have you been able to sit him down and confront him about this yet? His behavior seems quite drastic given your history with him. Do you know if he's diagnosed bipolar or prone to impulsive behavior?

Well TaureanGoddess, thank you for responding.
I have NEVER known him to be spontaneous or cumplusive. We argue, but we are right back in each other's good graces in a matter of mins or days.
He did lose his brother about 3 years ago. A younger brother that had 3-5 kids. I'm not sure if he's gettig pressured by family or friends? He and I both are 37. He lives with family. He's been there about 7yrs ( maybe longer) after a devastating breakup that was UGLY to say the least.

IDK, I'm thinking it FINALLY hit him how great we are together. When we are good, WE ARE GREAT ( Taurus & Cancer- match made in Heaven). I heard its poss due to that Saturn is in Taurus righ't now and will do a 180 degree opposition - it creates a "seriousness" about life, love and the future...
Maybe he's finally seeing what I've known all along? But after making the baby and HIM being SURE I didnt get up or go pee for 5-6 hrs, I think he's VERY serious about procreating!? What do you make of this?

Cancergurl1 - I do understand your Taurus man. Going through something similar. Not in any relationship but in that age that I would want to be a father. The urge is unbelievable at times. Your Taurus is in that stage of his life. Would be similar to women who want to have a baby who don't have.
My opinion is that if he does not get it from you eventhough he loves you, he may go and find someone who does.

im very open to having children with him! I've waited all these years for him! You Taurus love a woman that is dedicated and devoted to only you! I haven't left his side b/c i've been in love with him since the day we met.

As TaurenGoddess stated, have a heart to heart talk with him. Maybe pressure as you said from family. Maybe he learned something about his previous relationship that has made him upset/confused.
Just a idea about my first writing.
Most Taurus's are very loyal and there would need to be a lot of ugliness in a relationship for him to leave.
Best bet is to talk to him directly. As direct questions. This may make him uncomfortable but he should answer.

cbseawind, yes thank you. I will talk to him in person. But right now I need no stress. If our baby was conceieved 3 nights ago, then I'm over the Moon right now!!!!

All the best Cancergurl1. If you need more insight, don't hesitate to ask and I will do my best to help.

Are you okay with being his baby mama? I'm so not judging you negatively, I just think you already know what it's like to have a child without a full-time dad and now here's another guy who was wrapped up in the moment that hasn't married you and attempting to make a baby. What's up with that?

As long as you're okay with the reality of taking care of this child alone then I say go for it, just make sure you're able and prepared to do this alone if it comes down to that.

You cry about him not wanting/making a commitment .. yet, become a doormat at his will. You actually had a choice in the propping up of your pelvis after him ejaculating inside of you.


You choose to be a douchebag in letting him decide your fate ... then cry about it how isn't according to what needs to happen so your little feelings won't get hurt about your future with him.



seriously .. grow up

In the Relationship & Astrology forum, which is this exact one, on a thread called: can you trust Cancer men .... you posted the below.

Posted by Cancergurl1
My ex of 5 years has been in my ( and son's) life for now 11 yrs. We dated for 6 years, and 5 yrs ago we broke up due to his never ending drunkiness. He has been around all these past 5yrs bringing bday gifts, xmas gifts and just hanging out. he's been to 2 of my son's bdays ( 1 at Disneyland for 4-5 hrs) and we have been intimate a few dozen times, recently 2 months ago- he's been trying to be back with me for the past year. All this to say, I JUST found out about his GF of 4 years on FB. I did a lil investigating and found alllllllllllll the pics taken of them over the years, all the posts ( past and present) of them thanking each other for the party or fun time. MAN, he's been lying to her and me these past 4-5 yrs. Funny thing is, he NEVER once mentioned her to me or when I asked was he with someone or seeing anyone he told me flat out NO every single time. Even after I downloaded all their pics, BEFORE I sent them to him, I asked him one last time, DO YOU HAVE A GF, he told me no, so I sent him the pics and he still tried to tell me she was insignificant and had cheated on him 6 months ago and he's trying to find a way "out"...UM, NO! All these years they looked happy in the pics ( about 200 pics of diff events, diff times over the yrs) so Yeah, CANCER MEN LIE! what's the motive, well he finally admitted out of GREED he wanted to keep us both close! WHAT EVER! Worse thing is, about 2 wks ago he took my son and I out to lunch and ice cream and bought him a video game, then told my son, " if your !!! 😢

So, I would like to know why you are fucking your ex, and acting jealous of your ex .. if you love another man.

I would like to know why you call the ex a liar while fucking him, then laying in bed with the Taurus.

It now becomes obvious that you aren't being a doormat, or douchebag .. rather manipulator.

It becomes obvious now ..... you are leading the Taurus to believe you are mother material for his child

P-angel. Did you read what I wrote? Also compare the time lines. The cancer ex has been in my life 11yrs. The past 5yrs we haven't been a couple but he's been still hanging around. I'm not tree trunking anyone. As for the Bull, same thing, no official relationship for 4+ yrs. If you're gonna play detective & special agent Snoopy, I suggest you read everything in its entirety before you speak upon it. I don't need to grow up sweetie, I am grown. Part of my maturity also has a huge dose of respect, so I will be sure to keep this PG. you are entitled to your own opinion, so bark away Love. You don't know the whole story nor do I think you really care, Ur out for blood Honey Boo Boo!