Taurus infringing on another's territory

It feels weird that no one has posted on the Taurus board in hours. So maybe I can get help with a dilemma. My best friend (Taurus sun, Libra moon) is starting to act a bit shady over our mutual friend's(Taurus sun, Leo moon) boyfriend. My spidey senses are telling me her fixation isn't headed anywhere good. She brings up this guy constantly and she tries to subtly pull information about him from our mutual friend. I blame her libra moon. I think she has romanticized him and thinks they'd be perfect for each other. She's usually not a disloyal person, but she's recently been sabotaging our mutual friend and talking shit about her behind her back. I'm not really sure what to make of this. Have any bulls on here wanted what didn't belong to you? What was the outcome?

I have experienced attraction to someone elses partner before sure. That's where it ended. I wouldn't act on it. For more than one reason. One being I don't want what isn't mine. I refuse to be 'the other woman' and take scraps and pieces of someone. I want everything about someone. Two, the sense to know it's a fruitless endeavor. And another is if it's someone elses hands the fuck off.
There again, if he's any sort of grown up man he'll see it for exactly what it is. Her being more than a bit of a twat and bad-mouthing his lady. That never makes someone else look 'better'. It exposes them for what they are.

Ew, I'd lose all respect for a guy who would try to go for me when he is married or with someone. Even if I felt incredible attraction towards him, as soon as he makes it known that there is a possibility...*poof✨ attraction gone. Maybe its cause I find it a huge turn off?

Bullettes are rather possessive, I'm kind of surprised your friend is trying to go for it. Just tell her how nasty she is being and/or dishonorable, or even remind her that it means he won't be faithful to her, it'll wake her up.

We both have cancer mars, so I know nothing productive will come from directly confronting her about. I was thinking of setting her up with someone else. And also I'll make a chore of pointing out this dude's existent or non existent flaws. I really just think she's lonely and maybe a bit jealous. Our mutual friend has been boasting about how great this guy is and how well he treats her...

Never seen a Bull touch what's not there's I could see it happening though as I've seen them flirt.

Still needing to make squillions Bling. Squillions. *Dr. Evil pinky up to mouth* 😄

Cancer male here...and I would never make a move on my friends girl, I wouldnt trt to get at any women if she is in a relationship...thats just shady. Anyway, the reason I really posted here was to tell Rose how gorgeous I think she is.... :-) .so..yea....is that your pic Rose?

I agree with what VB said. Sometimes people ARE human and have mad chemistry, but that's when you have to be a mature adult and extricate yourself from that person and/or compromising situations. Nothing good will come from it, and unfortunately, sometimes people have to find out things the hard way. Rarely have I been attracted any of my friends men, but there has been that rare occasion, and that's when you have to just stay away from them. It sounds like you are trying to do well by both of your friends, but there is very little you can likely do about this situation, because even if you try to set her up with someone else, it's no guarantee she and that other person will hit it off, and the harder you try to keep her from that guy, the harder she may fight to get close to him. I'm not saying that's going to happen, but it may be one of those instances where it will turn into, "Let the chips fall where they may." I hope it doesn't come to that, but you just never know.
That's why you will hear old school women (my aunts and older cousins would always say this to me back in the day), "Don't go telling your girlfriends how good your man is, cause the next think you know they'll be sniffing under him." and, "Don't let another woman live in your house with you and your man for longer than a week, because you never know what's going to happen." I am not like them, and I don't necessarily agree with that, as I trust my friends and my man (when I'm dating), but sometimes...s $ % t happens! Life is weird like that!

Forgot to add, at the end of the day, if she approaches the guy in a way she shouldn't, HE should be the one to politely (or not so politely) let her know that her advances, while flattering,they are not welcomed, and leave it at that.

Posted by USCTaurusGal
Sometimes people ARE human

Agreed.

Posted by Joshmoe
Cancer male here...and I would never make a move on my friends girl, I wouldnt trt to get at any women if she is in a relationship...thats just shady. Anyway, the reason I really posted here was to tell Rose how gorgeous I think she is.... :-) .so..yea....is that your pic Rose?

*blush* shucks thank you 🙂

Your welcome :-)