I pray this is not how it ends

I pray this is not how this ends......I was dating a Aries for three years on and off. for those who know the story I posted before on this situation. The situation has been pretty stagnant..just to brief you....I'm pregnant about 6 months....we went our seperate ways before this happen and started dating again and I ended up pregnant this time.....We had a argument and fell apart again...we were doing fine and was happy about the baby and all......then I became distant due to I thought he was trying to go back to his other baby's mother....which was the reason we broke up the first time.....I love this man and wish things could work out.....we started up again hot and heavy and either I said or did something or he got distant......I admit to saying some hurtful things that he has reminded me of when I called him the other day..... I called him after three months of no communication...not even to talk about my pregnancy. Of course he was cold and said why was I calling after three months and he reminded me of the things I said and the way I acted.....Now I am afraid I have lost him for good or he has went back to her due to me pushing him away from being scared and confused......I love him even though they say Aries and virgo's aren't compatible and want us to raise our child together. He is a good father because I've seen how he is to his other daughter but he acts as if he's mad at me and don't want to be bothered by me and don't want to be apart of the child's life at this point.....He did say he would do what he can to help....I told him I knew he was intentionally being cold and after that he calm down some ......I also opened up to him let him know how afraid I was to do this alone and why I acted the way I did....... he said he was scared also of having another child too, but never spoke on us and what he felt we should do.....my heart is broken because this is not how it started and I dont understand why its ending this way....are Aries really so cold hearted that they will walk away without a thought?.....before I never worried because I knew he would always be back but this time I dont' know...I asked how he felt about me or us and he wouldnt even give me straight answer he just said you cool....

Girl,

I am going through the same thing. Not as deep as your situation. Just said something to hurt my Aries really bad and now he is shutting me out. I can't stand it. He will not talk to me at all....

Entice

I feel you....they can be stubborn...its like they feel they are putting in time out...

wow truevirgo, I really feel your pain, I have been with my aries for 21 years, and and has been a searious roller coaster ride. The sad part, I cant believe i can let any man have that kind of control over my heart. And he has and he does and he still does the same shit, and I keep thinking he cant hurt me anymore, and everytime i let him in, he does it again. Just crush your heart to no return. And I love the ground that man walks on. I will pray for you and your aries, and the baby. I know my aries just walk in and out just like its a play ground. And im a idiot to keep letting it happen. Sad part with us virgos when we love we go the 100 miles, and it takes a lot for us to open up to anyone.

aloha,

I am an ARIES male. If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.
There aren't many Virgo/Aries relationships out there & am always curious of learning & helping more.

How did your Aries manage to capture your hearts?

Aloha.

My Aries won me over by basically being the man in white shining armor. He rescued me from my own pending doom and does not let a day go by without doing something nice for me like bringing my coffee to me in the morning, making my meals for me, doing my laundry, remodeling my home, showering me with tons of affection, allowing me my own time, space, freedom, just always supporting me on a deep emotional level and you name it, he does it. He is my best friend and it is so easy for the both of us and we enjoy each other and the time we spend together immensely.

He did something to one of my daughters, she is older, not living with me and came over very late drunk and he did not respond in a very nice way. I found his actions highly objectionable and made him leave and he just seemed like the saddest man in the world away from me so I had to forgive him. Now I really know what it is like for a man to truly love a woman and embrace that love with all of his being and anything else would be pure frustration now that I have had a taste of the real thing. I've been loved before but never has a man used so much action to prove it. He does not have to say a word, his actions tell all but he tells me too because he knows I like to hear him open up so when I hear about what these men are doing, it really seems like it sucks to have that kind of relationship.

My guy was married for 14 years. He does not like to discuss his marriage but every so often he will talk about it and how he describes himself and the manner that he had communicated to her, well I told him if he ever were to talk to me like that then we would be history. He told me that he talked to her like that because of how she treated him. I think an Aries man will become very difficult when things are not right and I do not believe there is anything we can do to hold them to us when they really want to go. I do not believe there is anything halfway about them. When they are in love they are the most wonderful person, but I know they can hate as deep as they can love, females included.

Well I am keeping my fingers crossed that my own little ideal relationship stays good for the long term too. He has already presented the subject of marriage with me and we have only known each other for 10 months. He wanted to know how I felt about getting married and I said it may be something to consider in about 8 years and he said well we will visit this subject again in two years and see how you f

Honey, after 3 years of marraige to an Aries who sounds like he could be yours, I say you decide what is best for the baby and yourself. He can still be a great daddy, like my son's is, but if he's already running to other women, you need to run away quickly.

Sorry if it seems cold, but experience speaks and most Aries are not known for their commitment to one woman.

Honey, after 3 years of marraige to an Aries who sounds like he could be yours, I say you decide what is best for the baby and yourself. He can still be a great daddy, like my son's is, but if he's already running to other women, you need to run away quickly.

Sorry if it seems cold, but experience speaks and most Aries are not known for their commitment to one woman.

"are Aries really so cold hearted that they will walk away without a thought?"

I'm afraid so - they want what they want and don't care who they hurt.
I've always had bad experiences with aries - but recently went through SERIOUS hell because of them. My last boyfriend was with an aries when we met, they had been together for years and she left him a couple times - the last time she came back they got engaged - but he was MISERABLE with her, he just kept taking her back because she kept saying how she couldn't live with out him and she was in her thirties getting too old to get married and have kids, etc - he felt guilty....but the last time she left he and I started dating [let me say NOW that neither of us made a move on the other while they were together] and even though SHE left - she would call him in the middle of the night asking him to drive out to her - she lives like 30 miles away - and he would always go, she'd show up at his place whenever she felt like it....and yes, she knew he was seeing someone. THEN, he met another aries at his new job, who ALSO knew he had a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend [who she lived with] and she would run around the office in tiny tank tops pushing her breasts in his face, follow him around, and hit on him..... he eventually broke up with me to be with her - and she had the nerve to tell him he wasn't allowed to talk to me anymore ! couldn't even be friends. after about 6 months he started contacting me again telling me how much he missed me - when she found out he was talking to me she made him threaten to get a restraining order against me ! and guess what happened NEXT - a couple months later she broke up with him !
Aries insists on being number one - and they don't care if they actually want you - they want you to want THEM. So yeah - they have no problem walking away without a single thought - as long as they know you're still hanging on, and if they sense you're losing interest they come back - but only until you're hooked again.
Actually had an aries man do that to ME in high school. Wasn't interested in me [and said so] until I had a boyfriend - then he wanted me - then when my boyfriend and I broke up, he changed his mind and wasn't interested again.
Aries is the "baby" of the zodiac - and boy does it show ! me me me.......

yes GF - but the thing to remember is not every woman can take it as lightly as that. For the kind of woman who gets attached [I admit I am one] an aries is a VERY bad choice, because they have no problem being cold and walking away...now in your case you just shrug and say "it is what it is" - but in reality not everyone has the capacity to do that.