I want my Aquarius guy back! Is it still possible?

I met this guy couple months ago and it was like love at first sight from both sides.
We met on a holiday cruise and felt the chemistry right away and we both said it out loud.
We changed the number and started to date. We were both quite busy at the moment so we met only 1-2 times per week but it was fine cos we were texting all the time. Sometimes I thought it was a bit too much as we were doing it ALL THE TIME. Every morning he sent me "good morning" and so on. There was always something we could talk about.

I was so happy (I'm a Libra) and it felt like fairytale. Everything went like it should. There was no uncertainty on anything like that between us. I met his family and friends and he met mine. We had Really same kinds of interests and every moment felt like we had been friends for years!

Then couple weeks ago he went for a holiday with his friends and we spent the night together before that. Everything seemed normal and I told him that I want him to have a good time there! (His ex gf told him not to go to these trips so I wanted to show him that I'm not like that) He started to call me all the time and sent me a lot of messages even tho I told him to have a good time and not to worry about me. I had lots of things to do on that week!

We agreed that he should come to my place right as he comes back home but that's when it all started. He texted that he is too tired to come so I told him it's ok. Next day he was supposed to come to see me again but he had something to do with his friends. 3rd night the same thing and this was when I told him that I don't like the empty promises he makes!

He told me he was sorry but also that he wanted to talk later that evening face2face.

Well, he couldn't come to see me that night either cos there was something he had to do so he texted me the longest text ever. He told me that he was a mess and still having thought about his last relationship.
He told me that he didn't have feelings towards hiw ex anymore but that he felt like he was lost and maybe little bit depressed and that he wasn't ready for a new relationship. (he and the ex were together 6 years)

He wanted to make sure that I didn't feel like he had played me and that he really likes me anyway. He said many pretty things about me and believe him. I also by myself think he needs to "find himself" and being single for awhile would be a good thing for him. I said all these things for him and he really appreciated that I still understan

ah I lost the end of the message... but yeah, he started to regret but still wanted to stop seeing me cos he didn't want to hurt me as he a mess and couldn't give himself to our relationship.

And that I want him back.. Been crying so much.. I just want to send him a textmessage and tell him that I miss him but is it a good idea?

As he is aquarius he propably really needs some time but how much and will he come back to me? I really believe his feelings towards me were true.

I dont know how it is with the guys, but I know for me if I say I need space for whatever reason, I MEAN IT. The guy can still text me, but every text pushes me farther and farther away from him. I could be in love with someone, but if they can't help themselves in that manner then they become more unattractive to me, until I don't want them at all anymore. When I have gotten over myself and want to start something up again, I'll shoot them a text, reopening the lines for communication. This could take a long time for me, I'm not very good at dealing with emotions (in myself or in others). But if I really liked you in the first place and you left me alone, it is true that absence makes the heart grow fonder. I'll be quicker to come back!

The only Aqua that I ever was with that I know of left me high n dry; no closure just wants no part of me in his life anymore after our b/u. And I believe he set it up so if have to leave him. Like something he'd knew would upset me then it went all downhill. I asked him for another chance and he said no I hurt him to much and he could never be close to me again. It seems once an aqua man is done ime they're done for good. I wish u luck

When he was leaving me he still asked if we could go out as a friends some day in the near future but I told him I didn't want to see him as a friend cos I like him too much. But maybe if I'll send him a message that I changed my mind after thinking and I think it's ok to see each others as friends.
Maybe this way he will remember why he liked me?
We had the feelings right from the begin but we talked later that we also considered each other as friends...
What do you think? Could it work, being friends?
I really really want him back but it feels terrible just to wait and not knowing if he will ever really come back...

It'd be too hard for me to be friends personally, with my ex Aqua. Idk, maybe after awhile when feelings for down some. I'd give it some time maybe even months, and then start over as friends. But that's me; you do what your heart/mind tells you🙂