libra can't forget aries from whistler!!!

ok so here's the story.
i'm a libra (sept 26 '91) and he's an aries (mar 22 '91).

january of this year, i went to whistler blackcomb (a huge ski & snowboard resort in bc, canada) with my two best friends who are good snowboarders. I'm an intermediate snowboarder (not a beginner but definitely not advanced) the green slopes are too easy for me and I can go down the blue slopes without any help but i am in no way shape or form a pro. (btw green slopes mean beginner, blue slopes mean intermediate, and black diamond slopes mean advanced/pro.)

so on our last day, one of my best friends dared me to go down a black diamond slope and of course I said no way because i knew i wasn't THAT good. but she kept on whining and insisting and she even threatened to stay mad at me for the rest of her life if i didn't go with her (she was saying it half jokingly but i kinda took it seriously) so i said fine i'll go but just this once!

about a quarter of the way down that slope, i seriously thought i was gonna die. it was so terrifying. at one point, i even started crying because I couldn't move my board for fear that it might slide all the way down and i'll crash into a tree and break my neck.

my friends were like give me your arm. we'll slowly guide you down the slope but i was soooo pissed at the whole situation that i told them to go fetch me the entire rescue team instead.

so the three of us sat there in the snow for like 15 minutes unable to do anything when a bunch of guys on their snowboards swooshed past us with blazing fast speed and we caught the eyes of one of them which later turned out to be the aries.

he stopped several meters down from where we were sitting and asked us if we needed any help. my friends explained to him the situation we were in and he felt sorry for us and wanted to help.

he assured me that i was in good hands and that he would do his very best to guide me down the slope safely in one piece so i took his hands and the rest was history. he delivered on his promise and i swore to never go down the black slopes again.....or at least until my skills improve.

so anyway when we got down to the bottom, my flirty friends came up with a clever idea to invite him and his buddies for dinner that night. so he gave us his phone number and email.
and of course we all had fun at dinner but we knew we weren't gonna see eachother again since they live in canada and we live in europe.

..continued....

but yeah that's how i got hold of his contact info.

it's been a few months now.....he hasn't emailed me or phoned me or anything....not even once. and i haven't either.

but there wasn't a day that went by that i didn't think about him. i can't seem to get him out of my mind. i tried to forget and move on but i can never follow through with it. i always go back to thinking about him.

he probably doesn't even remember me yet here i am in europe fantasizing about him like a silly, lovesick school girl. i feel silly and i don't wanna feel silly anymore so guess what? i am going to send this guy an email

if i don't pursue him, then some other girl will and i really don't want to imagine him with another girl.

so i'm pretty big on analyzing cuspers and their bahaviors. i wanna ask the following questions to pisces/aries cuspers.


(1) Do you give up pursuing someone if they're too far away?? Are you shy? Do you ever make the first move??(like contact someone you haven't talked to in awhile out of the blue).

(2) Would you be willing to enter into a steady relationship with someone who lives in a different country and can you stay faithful to that person?

(3) How would you feel if someone you've only met once or twice told you that they liked you? or even loved you? what about someone you've known for a very short while like a month or two? i really wanna tell him how i feel as soon as possible 'cause if i don't hurry, some other girl will take him.

i know some of you are thinking 'you've only met him once. what the hell do you know about him?'
well, i already know he's not a jerk because he helped me get out of that crisis and he didn't try to pull anything off at dinner. he was really polite and shy and wasn't sleazy at all which is a good sign that he's not a player.

am i naive? yesssssss!!! tell me about it!!!!!!


I looked at his myspace and it says that he is single so i'm thinking this is my chance.


(4) Do you avoid situaions where you might get hurt? on a scale of 1 to 10, how emotional/sensitive would you say you are?

thanks for reading my unbelievably long post. i'm going crazy 'cause i feel like this guy could be my soulmate. i have this gut feeling.

funny story lol
i'm not laughing at the part where you thought you were gonna die but the other parts were kinda funny lol

1.) no, i wouldn't give up pursuing someone just because they lived in a different country or region. yes, i am shy. no, i normally don't make moves on anybody unless i'm at least 80% sure that the feeling is mutual. i'd prefer to avoid looking like one of those narcissistic asssholes who thinks every girl who crosses his path must be interested in him lol

2.) yes, i'd be fine with that and yes, i will be faithful. i don't cheat in general.

3.) no, don't do this. i'd most likely get the impression that you were trying to play me. i'd be like wtf you don't know me.


4.) yes, i do avoid situations where there's a significant possibility that i will get my heart broken. i won't lie.
on a scale of 1 to 10, i'd say i'm a 7 as far as sensitivity. i can be pretty emotional but i act as if i'm not because i'm aware that there are people in this world who wouldn't think twice about exploiting my weaknesses.


i think if you feel this strongly about him, then you should contact him.
just because he hasn't contacted you since that time, it doesn't mean he doesn't remember you or doesn't ever want to get in touch with you.

by the way my birthday is also march 22 1991 lol

thanks so much guys!!!!!!!!!!! and holy crap same birthday!!! LOLz
so i emailed him and got a reply in like a few hours!! i did not expect to get a reply THAT fast!!!

i wrote something dorky like ''hey this is melanie. i don't know if you remember me but we met in whistler back in january and you helped me get down from that black diamond slope. i hope you didn't have to rescue any more girls after that lolz but since then i've gotten so much better at turning down stupid dares lol"

and his reply was so sympathetic and cute. not only did he remember me but he even remembered how angry i was at my friend for making me go down that slope and how i told her ''i hate you'' several times infront of him while he was helping us.

so his reply was, "lol yeah i remember you. i hope you and your friend worked things out. you seemed really angry at her but i don't think she meant any harm."

well that's actually it for now but i'm gonna talk to him some more and find out what he's like! i'll report back in a few weeks haha

thanks amethyst! and i hate to admit it but i think you may be super right 😢

i have this overflowing enthusiasm to wanna get to know him but i don't sense the same enthusiasm coming from him....
he does reply to my emails but he never initiates contact on his own (like he never sends me emails out of the blue to initiate random conversation like an enthusiastic person might).

he's still nice and everything but he only answers the BASIC questions. he won't go into much detail about his life like i want him to.
i found out that he has a little sister and that he's studying to become a youth councelor (someone who helps out troubled teens).

why is he so darn secretive? why won't he open up to me?

is he maybe starting to feel like this is all a chore?? does he find me boring??

i'm pretty sure i'm not THAT boring. 😢

but yeah like you said, i do have this emotional attachment to him because he rescued me from danger and i've never had a boy do that before.

i feel so rejected even though he's being totally subtle about it.

should i keep trying or should i just quit bothering him altogether?

but you know it's only been a few days.....i wanna keep trying...i really do. 😢

maybe he's just shy— i feel like it's too early to give up.