@Upheaval
18 YearsVirgo
Aries women are attracted to Libra men because of their balance, charm, and social nature. Libra men provide harmony and intellectual connection that complements Aries' energetic and adventurous spirit, creating a mutually engaging relationship based on attraction and understanding.
I'm personally never attracted to Libra men... all the ones I've met are immature.
Where are you getting that from?
I've got a very special LIbra lady in my life (BFF), but I've never seen a whole lot in the male form.
Xtina's right...the ones I've known have a whole lot of growing up to do from what I've seen.
Maybe in this case, opposites don't attract?
yeh i noticed aries and virgo getting along nicely
Oh , could you give examples of what makes libra's immature ?
I'm talking relationship wise. It seems that they are commitment phobes and have a hard time following through with what they say they want and are going to do. I find that immature.
I'm not judging all, but this is what I've noticed.
i haven't dated any libra males either. weird.
i see waaaaaaaaaay more libra female, aries male couples
Libra men are very very charming. There is a sexual chemistry with Virgo men that I can't explain. My guy has moon in virgo, I don't know if that has anything to do with it but I find him irresistible. Or he's just plain fuckin hot lol
I think you ladies are in denial. Aries women are crazy about libra men, the good and the bad. If you see just how small the bad things are, we will eventually experience a love that was worth the pain.
Posted by JOJOJO
I think you ladies are in denial. Aries women are crazy about libra men, the good and the bad. If you see just how small the bad things are, we will eventually experience a love that was worth the pain.
I was with a libra man for 10 years. We have two sons together. I admit it was very passionate and loved eachother deeply but we fought alot till finally I got tired of his inmaturity and psychoness lol it was not good for my progress in the long run.
Posted by Upheaval
Oh , could you give examples of what makes libra's immature ?
It's not commitment wise for me... lol it's as one might perceive it, the ones I've met have been loud, or obnoxious... really arrogant in a bad way, but those are just the ones I've met. Even if they are not immature there is just not much of a click with them ime.
I've dated a libra guy before and we had endless conversations everyday, and there was chemistry there.
But the thing that ended it for me was his shallowness (if that is a word, y'all know what i mean!)
If a hair was out of place, or i didn't wear make-up, he'd be like "omg, your hair is all curly, and why are you wearing those old nike's"
I can't stand that sh*t, i'ts not becuase he potentially "pointed out something bad", but i'ts becuase i'm more
interested on connecting with someone on a soul-level than what type of shoes they are wearing.
I'm sure all libras are NOT like this, but that was my experience...
Yeh we have a hungup on beauty but that doesn't mean we don't connect on soul level.
Some libra's can go to far with that though , i feel ya.
The question is why are you so attracted.... not what cause you to leave Libra. So come clean .... some of you had long term relationship with libra. Some of you wanted long term relationship with libra. So you're telling me you like them because they were ugly. So what made you attracted from the beginning, even after you saw some flaws or things that just pissed you off, you still couldn't get enough of CRAZY, SEXY, COOL ...... LIBRA!
Lol I have NEVER been attracted to a Libra nor have I wanted to be in a relationship with one 😛.
True I have attracted many in my days ... But never have I've been the one attracted. The only air sign I've been attracted to are Aquas.
well you shouldn't be answering the question. Its for Aries women that are attracted to Libras.
No, no, no ... Actually it makes a false general statement "Why are Aries women attracted to Libras?" It didn't specifically ask Aries that are attracted to Libras and why are they attracted to us 😛.
So I'm still game for this question and any thing else on this post.
Even if I shouldn't I still will 😛. That's what makes it fun.
Posted by xtina
Even if I shouldn't I still will 😛. That's what makes it fun.
quoted as proof that I don't give a shit 😛.
I do what I want 😛.
Hey you asked us Aries and there seems to be a consensus... If you can't handle the honesty of an Aries I suggest you ask the question in the libra boards where you'll get the answer you were looking for 😉.
Posted by LibScorp2210
sugarcoated sarcasm never works .. use less smileys for better impact ..
but thank you for trying ..
yeah and trite refurbished statements are tiresome 😛.
Like I said I do what I want, I don't really take into consideration whether others like it or NOT... I just do it 😄.
Whaeva you say is cool, but I know some Aries head over heels for Libra. So there are some that know why they are sooooo attracted to us. There are some that just can't let go and vice versa for libra... me being one of them. My Aries feels the same for me even though we drive each other crazy. Guess I like that old saying that states if you don't have something good to say then don't say nothing at all. So I think Aries women that are crazy for Libras should have answered. I think the poster wanted to know that information and why.... not the why not. He didn't ask what sign are you most attracted to? What's the importance of knowing what sign you are attracted to if it's not Libra... according to the posted question and since the poster is a Libra.
Come on you are an Aries you wouldn't want to know about someone else if you asked a question pertaining to yourself.
IMHO, the question was an incorrect assumption that us Aries that don't agree with it feel a need to correct.
What if the posting was "Why are all Libra mean so attracted to ______ women—"
If you disagree, you are going to speak up.
"Guess I like that old saying that states if you don't have something good to say then don't say nothing at all."
You are too cute JOJOJO!! You like this saying, yet you are with an Aries— LOL
You are too cute JOJOJO!! You like this saying, yet you are with an Aries— LOL
I love her STANKY RAMMY DRAWS!!!!! I'm actually thinking about popping the question. 😛
OH BTW ..... I am really FFUUCCKKNN CUTE!!!
Wowz...
Ok, what attracted me to my ex libran...
Hmmm, ok he was cute.
we had a degree of sexual tension
he stimulated me....mentally..(ha ha!)
those were the main biggies
Thank you sweetheart .... Now that's how you answer a question!
Your welcome... thought you'd like that!
But really, i really tried to make our relationship work, i think he was my first, serious love. We just clashed in alot of areas... i wished he had a little more drive
Sorry we are some lazy bastards.... big procrastinators
Posted by JOJOJO
You are too cute JOJOJO!! You like this saying, yet you are with an Aries— LOLI love her STANKY RAMMY DRAWS!!!!! I'm actually thinking about popping the question. 😛
We are pretty damn irresistible!!
Popping the question?? Wowzers!! How long you been with this fine Aries?
Anyway it's still a question , not a statement !
Thx for all your reply's arians
That's the funny part we are not together. We dated 2 months last year now we are the best of friends. What got me to thinking was she wanted us to travel to Rio. She started telling me she loves me and misses me and that's something very hard for her to do. She stop dating, she stop going out and she tells me everything. So one day I said I'm going to marry you and she said you always say that but you never got me a ring(ouch the truth hurts). So I texted her one only trying to test her because I'm Libra and didn't want to over think this. My text "I still think we are getting married" her text: Put it out there My text: it's out there, what's your ring size and do you like gold, silver or plat, Her text: 6 1/2 or 7 n silver or plat. Still blown away and not believing her I text: I hope you know I'm serious she text: Rite
So on yesterday I went out and bought a ring ....BUT there's a twist. She's in a relationship and we are talking about marriage. I actually read on DXP that Aries will have someone waiting when ready to move on. I don't think she will do that to me again, plus we have grown so much closer as friends. She said that she thinks of me more and more sexually. I believe she's ready to settle down.
Posted by Upheaval
Just curious 🙂
Opposite attracts.. bleh! give me something better :p
Because and Aries is looking for the same thing the Libra is. No emotional blackmail!! Libras don't show emotion. They suppress them by becoming hermits. Then beat themselves up about why. Aries (Women at least) get bored with this quickly and come runnin to the Gem. Never fails. 😉
GM
My Aries will never date Gem again. she likes Aries, Sags and Libra of course.
I know my opinion is not wanted here but... I would choose a Gem over a Libra any day 😛.
Posted by JOJOJO
That's the funny part we are not together. We dated 2 months last year now we are the best of friends. What got me to thinking was she wanted us to travel to Rio. She started telling me she loves me and misses me and that's something very hard for her to do. She stop dating, she stop going out and she tells me everything. So one day I said I'm going to marry you and she said you always say that but you never got me a ring(ouch the truth hurts). So I texted her one only trying to test her because I'm Libra and didn't want to over think this. My text "I still think we are getting married" her text: Put it out there My text: it's out there, what's your ring size and do you like gold, silver or plat, Her text: 6 1/2 or 7 n silver or plat. Still blown away and not believing her I text: I hope you know I'm serious she text: RiteSo on yesterday I went out and bought a ring ....BUT there's a twist. She's in a relationship and we are talking about marriage. I actually read on DXP that Aries will have someone waiting when ready to move on. I don't think she will do that to me again, plus we have grown so much closer as friends. She said that she thinks of me more and more sexually. I believe she's ready to settle down.
Ah yeah...that's a HUGE twist! I would be a little worried that she's seriously talking marriage when she's with another dude. I'm kind of confused that you guys are even talking marriage when you are not officially together. Why don't you try it the old fashioned way and date (again) before you get married!! I know it's an odd concept, but it usually turns out o.k...well for 50% of us anyway 😛
And it can sometimes be the case regarding having another guy waiting in the wings...makes us feel better and more secure about the big decision we are making. Sounds like she's confused...if she's serious about you and ready to take it to the next step, ah yeah...she needs to get out of her relationship.
Well we talked, she said that she loves me with tears but I'm the only friend she got and she doesn't want to mess that up. Another one of my Aries friends said it sounds like she's not attracted to you. So I'm salty now and I have decided to end everything between us. I had some personal things at her house that she's refusing to give me back. She said I can get them when we are on good terms. Well I don't work that way, so she can keep it. I don't think this is the end for us because we've been doing this for a year now. But for now it's time to end her confusion. I still love her because we have some good times together.
We are not a couple. I'm ending the friendship, she said some pretty bad things. I can't keep making excuses for her immature ways. So we need a break, still love her but can't continue after what she said. She said she didn't mean it the way I'm taking it but I don't see it any other way.
Dude she's messing with your head , she just doesn't want to loose your attention THATS ALL , fish enough in the sea
give her the boot
Trust me, it doesn't matter how many times I run away from her and this is not the first. We always reconnect and continue loving each other and having fun together. It's so true when they say if you love someone let them go, and if they truly love you then they will come back. So we are just taking a love break, unless this time she is really hurt by this then I know she won't return. We love each other deeply, we just can't find that middle ground to consider something long term. I still have hope that maybe one day we will
Yep, My one and only. And you know this man .....
Well being that I dated 6 Aries women, i know this one has a geniune love for me. She's not ready to commit and i have to respect her wishes. Now i have decided to end the friendship between us, not only for things she's done to me but things she does to others. Being a Libra, you know actions like that will not go far with me. I'm glad to say we had some fun times and I will never forget her. I will always always love her.
You are overlooking that I said we are not together. We are only friends, I never said I was in a relationship with her. Well it was last year that we dated for a couple on months. It was the friendship we develop that brought us closer. But now that some of her actions against me and others she has dated, has rubbed me the wrong way. I've ended the friendship as well.
It's time for us to move on. Oh, it hurts like hell. But I just have to bear it.
Sometimes you have to move on to better yourself. Love isn't the only answer, in this case it's maturity. When she's mad, the way she comes at me is like I'm her worst enemy. Feel it's a bit dramatic and can be really nasty towards me. I have overlooked it, continue to love her, support her and be there anyway I can. It's wearing me out now, trust me, you don't know the whole story. If you knew the history, you as an Aries women would probably not like her at all. You would be telling me, she doesn't deserve you. That's pretty much the story I'm getting from my friends right now. That help me make my decision and this time I've got to see it through.
Well Sweets, that plan has been shot to hell. We twice talked today, we didn't come to a complete agreement but we did get some understanding. So for now the friendship I know will be on hold, and I guess it's back to the drawing board. Only time will tell from here, I just don't understand her fear of commitment.
She wouldn't dare call first not this soon. I called her expecting to leave a voice message but she answered. it's too complicated to explain the conversation but I think we will be okay. We both shared our views which were completely opposite but understood by us both. The talk was peaceful but we didn't really come to any conclusion, said talk to you later. I think once she replays the conversation in her head she will start back calling me. But that all about me attitude sometimes just burns my ass! I can say that I know we won't be talking soon but since we cleared the air today, it doesn't hurt as much. So thanks to you Sweets.
No....i actually I was calling to be an Ass-hole but she answered and the conversation began. But we still are not speaking because I'm not calling her or texting and I think she will but it will be awhile. That's how we do, I don't know if it will ever get old.
Because Libra is an air sign & air gives more life to
fire!!! Simple as that. Libra's are more polite &
more laid back.Sometimes Libra can go well with Aries
because Libra has close to 80% of what Aries likes in
a mate,but you know Aries,they usually want the whole
100% !!!
A more mature Aries and a more mature Libra can
make a very good relationship & when an Aries
understands that they are unlikely going to find
a perfect 100% match,they will usually appreciate
a Libra mate much more.
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Just curious 🙂
Opposite attracts.. bleh! give me something better :p