Mars In Sagittarius And Sex...

I'm just curious about something. I've always had an abnormally high sex drive. At first I put it down to me being a guy and the testotorone.

When I looked up my astrological chart I found I had a Mars In Sagittarius. All of a sudden things seemed to click. The fact I like to cut to the chase in dating, never judging any girl about sex on the first date cause like one astrology site says it's a nice icebreaker 😉

Don't get me wrong I am cautious, I wont have sex if there is no element of birth control (condoms of either male or female variety, Spermicidal Inserts - what women insert in their vag's to kill the sperm).

So my question is for any girl who has Mars In Sagittarius. I want to see if my experience having this mars is common or more a "guy" thing.

So for the mars in sagittarius gals here goes...

Is your sex drive high to the point where you need it at least 3 maybe 4 times a day if you're not sick or on a period?

Do you like me, have no hangups about first date sex and dont judge your companion and use it more as an evaluation tool so to speak for a potential relationship? Meaning you want to see if there is sexual chemistry first before going further and if the guy (or girl in my case) can meet or even exceed your sex drive?

And last question taken from an astrology website - Is sex almost like an exercise or sport for you?

Mars in Sag gal here...

My sex drive has 100% always been higher than any guy I have ever dated.
Any guy at all.

But, I only sex peepz I am in committed relationships with. No sleeping around/ one night stands etc for moi =)
not that there's anything wrong with that, just not for me.

But yes, it would be nice to be out-libido'd once in a while...

@RichardParker -

Haha, that is f---ing hilarious. I'm a Sag moon too so I normally dont take things very seriously. And welcome the levity especially when it's a cheesy post like this.

@Wagtail - Do you have a water sign moon? If you do I can see why there's no flings. For myself it takes more than sex to make me fall for someone. Don't get me wrong a high libido plus bedroom skills is a major attraction builder. But I take after my mother's venus in virgo. Meaning personality and good character are the things which make me fall for someone.

I dont have any inhibitions towards casual sex provided the banging is safe.

I keep attracting a lot of air gals so I've never met someone who was a match or superior in the libido department. I screwed it up with a hot sun cancer/leo moon mars in aries girl. My nervousness killed it which was a tragedy cause the girl just gave a very sexual vibe.

It's kind of weird though cause if I date just a genuine (not a bad girl in sheep's clothing) cute nice girl the need for sex drops.

But... if the girl I date happens to be highly attractive then a strong libido from her is a requirement. When the visual stimulation is always there you cant run away from the libido.

Can someone either swap my mars for an air one or give me some antidepressants? Those are always genuine sex drive killers..

@Wagtail - "Do you have a water sign moon? If you do I can see why there's no flings. For myself it takes more than sex to make me fall for someone. Don't get me wrong a high libido plus bedroom skills is a major attraction builder. But I take after my mother's venus in virgo. Meaning personality and good character are the things which make me fall for someone."

Cancer Moon, Venus Virgo also =) Indeed, I highly rate work ethic and good manners- almost old fashioned...
Looks are not important. I mean that. Sexually or otherwise.

@Wagtail, I figured I was right. When you have as much sag in my chart as I do, emotional attachments dont come easy.

I dont have venus in virgo, but I do take after my mother for looks not being everything. Which is ironic since I have Venus In Libra.

@Juke - Good for you. Just because I have no hangups about instant sex doesnt mean I'm not cautious. Pregnancy scares the life out of me enough to deflate so to speak when my balloon is fully floating. Getting off without spermicide isnt worth a possible pregnancy.

One day when I can afford it, I will research the right doctor and get a vasectomy. The problem with a lot of vasectomies is A) Guys dont get the right doctor to do it b) They dont wait the six month to a year period you are supposed to before having unprotected sex and C) Not getting a checkup six months later to make sure the sperm isnt potent before doing the deed.

I'm going to move in 2 months so you know I'm gonna make sure not to make any lasting romantic attachments. It's never good to stay for someone if they're the only thing keeping you. Love doesn't work out a lot of the time, it's better to be safe than sorry. Also having a crap economy in the place you live doesn't serve to help any relationships.

I was always convinced anyway that if I ever decided I wasnt too messed up in the head to seek out Ms Right, it sure as hell wouldn't be the place I live which is nothing but Ms. Wrongs

I have sun, mercury, mars, and venus in sagittarius, & I'd say I'm a pretty sexual person, slighty above average, but not as much as you describe yourself to be. I like sex very much, but I only have sex when on a comitted relationship. That maybe has to do with my scorpio moon, but I doubt it. I like to have sex daily, maybe once or twice. And I definitely see it as an exercise, but I do like to maintain that emotional, romantic vibe once in a while, but not always.

I've got Venus in Sag and have rather a high libido also Merc in Sag and I can talk a good line 😉, then again I am in my early 40's and have Mars in Scorp 😛

Well I'll tell ya.

I have Mars in Sagittarius... and there has really only been one woman that I thought might put me in the hospital... we were young, in a relationship, living together, three to four times per day, for an entire year. Chemically, we were compatible... BUT... her Mars was in Aquarius.

I will agree that sex should happen early for interview's sake... but casual sex sucks... so it should really only be the final interview... not everyone should have one. Are you sure that you are not just seeking sexual frequency versus chemical compatibility ? Because chemistry... for ME anyway... can be determined well before taking it this far... and I will assure you... frequency, technique, duration, et cetera... none of it matters if the chemicals between you are as oil to vineger. Choose wisely.

Posted by wagtail
Mars in Sag gal here...

My sex drive has 100% always been higher than any guy I have ever dated.
Any guy at all.

But, I only sex peepz I am in committed relationships with. No sleeping around/ one night stands etc for moi =)
not that there's anything wrong with that, just not for me.

But yes, it would be nice to be out-libido'd once in a while...

I think wagtail and I are the same person😉

Mars in Sag, checking in!
I like it at least twice a time, have gone up to 4times in one day.
Outlast most men I've been with. Check!
The Scorp says I'm insatiable.

I like to cut to the chase too but I have a 3 date rule. Sun/Venus in Cap. Hehe.

Posted by David13
Well I'll tell ya.

I have Mars in Sagittarius... and there has really only been one woman that I thought might put me in the hospital... we were young, in a relationship, living together, three to four times per day, for an entire year. Chemically, we were compatible... BUT... her Mars was in Aquarius.

I will agree that sex should happen early for interview's sake... but casual sex sucks... so it should really only be the final interview... not everyone should have one. Are you sure that you are not just seeking sexual frequency versus chemical compatibility ? Because chemistry... for ME anyway... can be determined well before taking it this far... and I will assure you... frequency, technique, duration, et cetera... none of it matters if the chemicals between you are as oil to vineger. Choose wisely.

My bf has mars in aqua! Best ever.

@David -

I'm not going on chemistry alone like I said. If it's a cute nice girl type that is sincere in wanting a long-term relationship (basically a girl who is not repressed and has already sown her oats so to speak) sex isnt really important to me. But if I happen to meet a very attractive woman with weird taste in guys like me then it is important. I cant turn off wanting to boink constantly if there is something there to visually keep me "on" so to speak.

As far as mars in aqua, I bet she either had a sun or moon in a fire or water sign. I've had experiences dating air signs and if their sun, moon, and mars are in air you can bet they are not really into sex at all.

Part of my preocupation with sex lately is the lack of. I've havent dated since my accident three years ago. It took me a year to fully recover with operations and physical therapy. Add on to that a family member's health getting worse making me look after them almost full-time. It's hard to date when there's not much personal time between working and looking after my relative.

The most I can do with any girl now is FWB. Problem is most of the women in my town are 20ish. Hence more likely to get attached. Women my age (30's) are wiser and more understanding to my situation. I mean not all but more than a twentysomething.

And the other problem is most women my age in the city I live in are married or single moms with kids. Those single moms are looking for relationships. When my relative passes away in a few months, the last place I want to be is here. This city has too many bad memories for me. Plus the economy here is a joke. I'm going out of a state for a fresh start to recover from my traumas over the years. And maybe if I do ever feel "recovered" psychologically, I'll try to find ms right. But at least it will be in a city that has more single 30's gals with no kids.

BTW I meant if their Sun, Moon, and Mars are ALL in Air, they're not sexual sorry for the mistype.

@Sugararies- Is great if you're just looking for an F-buddy. They dont get easily attached through sex alone. They're not very relationship material though.

They require too much space in a relationship, and always has the one foot out the door mentality. I hate to generalize but any person I've seen with that mars either dumps or cheats on their SO once a promising prospect comes along. But to be fair it can depend on the way a person was raised plus their age.

I have not had a full, enjoyable experience with this placement, but I've come close with a Mars in Sag guy.
It appears Sag Mars is very playful and does really cute things in the foreplay area and very funny.
But my energy levels are higher. I did see great potential in this area and so did he but it was over and that was the only thing we both missed.

I imagine fire mars placements are very compatible. 😉

@Lunar - I had another Cancer with a lot of fire in their chart that showed interest. If I recollect she was a sag moon like me and had a sag mars too. That would have been sexual nirvana for me. Problem was she was a friend of mine's ex girlfriend. She started chasing me really hard. But I had to nicely decline out of respect for my friend at the time.

I kind of regret it not dating her now since me and the friend went in different directions and lost touch after high school.

When he told me he broke up with her cause she wanted sex 4 times a day when they had time together, I just wanted to die then and there. A girl as attractive as her with that kind of libido would have been a great match for me. Oh well, there will be other girls with fire in their charts.

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Posted by wagtail
Mars in Sag gal here...

My sex drive has 100% always been higher than any guy I have ever dated.
Any guy at all.

But, I only sex peepz I am in committed relationships with. No sleeping around/ one night stands etc for moi =)
not that there's anything wrong with that, just not for me.

But yes, it would be nice to be out-libido'd once in a while...

I think wagtail and I are the same person😉

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Heyhey! Twinsies! Niccccceee =P

maybe your 'chicken' IS the joke =P
Something liiiike... "why did the chicken cross the road..."?

Hi Sag mars here and sag moon too but I'm a full blown Virgo sun and Venus...
At first I didn't understand why they're are describing Virgo as the cold one coz I'm not and I just can't connect with that...
So here I go, fire here fire their and everywhere...
When I'm in a committed relationship, I can be the fire to keep you warm and even your fireplace will burn with me...
It's one requirement for me to stay in the relationship and I expect the same from my partner.
I can do it the whole day and night so I don't wanna count how many that will be (that was with my ex cap coz we don't see each other that often)
But when I'm solo, I can totally forget about it and just go on as if I'm a virgin and does not need worldy thing like sex...
and oh by the way, I DON'T DO SEX, I ONLY MAKE LOVE!

I was just pullin' ya leg hahaha

Posted by s4nd
see mars in sag! like your trying to put a finger in my ass and laugh because me no likey! yeah they did that often! 😢

mars in sags like me tho. i think it's coz my uranus is in sag. or they fall into my 2nd house idk... it's a singleton. people confuse me for a sag. but it's really my sun trine jupiter. ima taurus.

oh man that is funny shiz, "finger in my ass" lol
"uranus is in sag" Uranus! In sag! You.are.killing.me! =)))
But, seriously.
Not cool, Taurus are awesome by the way.

heya sand, I assume you are asking me? Leo or Virgo?
UUUmmmm I've been told it's a cusp, I have been told I am a Leo and I identify mostly Virgo...
If Im a leo Im the most anti social, anally retentive, introverted, unfriendly leo I have ever come across!
and that chair is perfect! Here, sit on down!
*poke poke*

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Posted by wagtail
heya sand, I assume you are asking me? Leo or Virgo?
UUUmmmm I've been told it's a cusp, I have been told I am a Leo and I identify mostly Virgo...
If Im a leo Im the most anti social, anally retentive, introverted, unfriendly leo I have ever come across!
and that chair is perfect! Here, sit on down!
*poke poke*

let's go with leo mmkay? iv sworn off virgos!:p

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Whatever floats your boat, tugs your rug, sells your shells...
=)

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