May,20th birth. How to get him to warm up?

Friend's love is a 54 y/old dude born on May, 20th.

They had been together in college. Part their ways.

She got married. He got married.

Both divorced and in decade found eachother on FB.

Living on opposite coasts.

She is trying to get him back. He is not against it but

being reserved.

What is the man of his sign has for a weak spot?

Posted by Redbull
After all that time especially I dont think that is a reckless or needy type. His birthday is close to mine. Thats Jimmy Stewart's (its a wonderful life) birthday if im not mistaken.

No, he is not needy at all and not reckless as I understood.

However he is driving her up-a-wall with always responding but short and sometimes mindless.

Like yeas or no and nothing else. Relationships are 30 y/old. Common! Like why?

I hope someone else will chime in.

I insist. Thanks

I have a friend with his birthdate but he is 30 so his mindstate might be less seasoned or as mature as a 54 year old.

I'm thinking the opposite coasts thing has him so laid back. It seems storybook nice but not practical.

What sign is your friend? Tell her not to chase him. Be a dignified, patient, but no nonsense woman of her age

Posted by Aries_Luminary
I have a friend with his birthdate but he is 30 so his mindstate might be less seasoned or as mature as a 54 year old.

I'm thinking the opposite coasts thing has him so laid back. It seems storybook nice but not practical.

What sign is your friend? Tell her not to chase him. Be a dignified, patient, but no nonsense woman of her age

She is an. Aries

Posted by Aries_Luminary
I have a friend with his birthdate but he is 30 so his mindstate might be less seasoned or as mature as a 54 year old.

I'm thinking the opposite coasts thing has him so laid back. It seems storybook nice but not practical.

What sign is your friend? Tell her not to chase him. Be a dignified, patient, but no nonsense woman of her age

She feels like if they were still in college. Its hard to see it all in a different way I supposed...