Mindless emotional behavior?

Hi.

pisces, woman who isnt sure of actions by a Taurean. Im separated from my scorpio husband and temporarily living in another state with family. Long story short Bull came to see me (a few days pasr from his breakup) and we spent time. He seemed nervous since we haven't seen each other in over 15 years (we dated in the past). He didn't keep eye contact as well as me but when he did it was pretty alluring. What threw me off was the kiss he planted on my lips and the i love you before we parted. What gives?

When he stood near me he left some distance between us sometimes. We have been in touch off and on over the past year.
Hes sun taurus, rising pisces, venus gem, moon libra, mars leo
Me sun pisces, rising cancer, venus aries, moon sag, mars aqua

Thanks ...

You haven't seen each other in 15 years ....

He tells you he loves you ....

You SAY this throws you off ... yet, you two have been talking, which obviously leads up to you and him both seperating from your spouses and you moving close to him.




I hate it when women do this. They say things like, "I'm confused" .. when in reality, they know exactly what is going on and even participated in the situation to come to this event.

Say what is real, and it's not being confused ........ you want him to move faster, and proclaim his undying love for you passionately .. like some herotic knight in shining armour, or some such fanatical bullshit.

By you saying you're confused (and when all women say it) ..... what you want of us here is to come in say and tell you he loves you and want you, so you can have support in the fantasy of being confused over him not acting out the part properly that you've designed in your head.

Um..not quite P. All i was saying was that actions didnt match verbage. It WAS unexpected and out of the blue. Just didn't want to become a real life "P" and jump to conclusions and make an ass of myself.

Thanks for the dose of hyperactive wisdom.

venus in aries...if she's not "in love" now and he keeps this up, she'll be head over heels in like 4 days.

Posted by caligula
venus in aries...if she's not "in love" now and he keeps this up, she'll be head over heels in like 4 days.

Amen. But with the other placements that will make her "fight" committing. (I see a Pisces who has the propensity for self-sabotage!)

Then he's a Taurus (ssssllllloooowwwwww moving until they're SURE).. throw in those Airy planets, he'll waffle back and forth before committing.

These two are either going to set their hooks into each other until there's no escape... or drive each other batshit crazy.

I'm leaning towards the insanity.

Capgirl- i agree. I backed off bc there's too much going on to be clear.
Caligula- normally ..lol.. yes. I would feel that way but my eyes are a little more open this time around.
Nefer- what did u mean by propensity for self -sabotage? Also,
I'm not sure on the latter part either no escape or driving each other apeshit!

Im aware of Venus in retro esp in his sign..so I'm not taking anything for true right now.

When in reality, what I said is completely accurate.



You want to know what gives by his kiss and the I love you part .... when the two of you have been talking for the past year, which lead to both of you breaking up with spouses and you moving closer to be near him.

There is no "out of the blue" that he came to see you, since you deliberately broke up with your spouse to move where you did, just after a year of talking to this guy.


Most people around you aren't ignorant, though, ignorant people don't have the brain capacity to realize it.



What is really bothering you is that he isn't moving faster, he didn't grab you up and proclaim you to be his .... or whatever fantasy you having running in your Fish-head.



And being that he's a Bull, it's only a matter of time before the sparkle dust in his eyes clears and he realizes you are the same person you were .... because clearly, you are attempting to bullshit us in here, certainly you are trying to bullshit him.

Posted by shortii

.... and jump to conclusions and make an ass of myself.

Like moving to be near him when you aren't even clear where you stand with him .... you mean that kind jumping to conclusions that might make an ass out of you.

What utter crap .... but, leave it to a Fish to actually be that stupid.

Posted by P-Angel
When in reality, what I said is completely accurate.



You want to know what gives by his kiss and the I love you part .... when the two of you have been talking for the past year, which lead to both of you breaking up with spouses and you moving closer to be near him.

There is no "out of the blue" that he came to see you, since you deliberately broke up with your spouse to move where you did, just after a year of talking to this guy.


Most people around you aren't ignorant, though, ignorant people don't have the brain capacity to realize it.



What is really bothering you is that he isn't moving faster, he didn't grab you up and proclaim you to be his .... or whatever fantasy you having running in your Fish-head.



And being that he's a Bull, it's only a matter of time before the sparkle dust in his eyes clears and he realizes you are the same person you were .... because clearly, you are attempting to bullshit us in here, certainly you are trying to bullshit him.

Honestly P, you really amuse me. Thank you. You make me laugh bc you take little things, twist and misconstrue them and then run a football field with your newly acquired information. LOL Thank you.

I can see where you are going with this and you may be sniffing around the dog but still very far from the asshole. Or in your case maybe you're in familiar territory.

I know that everything everyone says doesn't have to be PC and sugar coated words but so many times when you comment on things it either comes to one of two things a cry for attention or a cry for a bigger tool to work with in the bedroom. Im not sure what the doctor would prescribe but you need to find it stat. Way too much seething venom and loathing to be contained in one Im assuming alcohol and menopausal preserved body.

Anywho- in response to your misty perception of the situation.. no one said he came to see me out of the blue. I didn't deliberately break up with my spouse to move where he did after a YEAR of talking to him. I've know him many years over. It's not bothering me that he isn't moving faster- he moved MUCH faster then I expected esp for a Bull. and ESP for a Bull coming out of a relationship.

As far as the trying to bullshit comment, if you see a checkmate, its bc you have called bullshit upon yourself. I didn't come on to bullshit anyone. Isn't that right "Angel"?

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It always makes me laugh that you are so quick to tell others how slow minded/stupid/ignorant/asinine others are yet you repeat the same hated/egotistic crap board after board. It takes a braver person to say something different then get a new schtick. Maybe you didn't bob when you should have weaved, Rihanna? Or is that just how the UBER DXP BOARD elitist queen lives?