Never been married!!!!!

why do women say a man is afraid of committment when he is in his forties and never been married?

Posted by Sugarfoot
Maybe they are just repeating something they've heard other people say. I've definetly heard that before. For me, not being married is not the red flag. But, if a person has never been in a serious relationship by the time they're in their forties, I start to wonder what's up with that.

Yep..Damn society groups assume they know and then try to dictate. Ridiculous. There is a positive about that though, any intelligent logical man can weed through the women who can't think for themselves verses the women who give him the benefit of the doubt that just maybe, this is a guy who worked for and achieved stability in his life and until he attained that, did not want to settle down. The other positive of that is a man at the age of 40 can now identify the gold diggers from the women who are secure enough in their lives (financially & mentally) to respect his position whether he is ready to marry or not.

Amen to all of those responses. LetItBe, that is exactely what women claim they want. They want to feel stability and security with tat man, but when they get this type of man they flip script and say there is something wrong. This is too good to be true. Now they have to find something wrong with that man and of course i have to let her go because she has taken away the bennefit of the doubt she has granted to me in the beginning of our relationship. so now i am back in the same boat of not being able to commite, because i dont want to put of with the drama that is brewed up for unknown reasons. I just dont understand what the woman wants when she pushes the man away for being what she is looking for.

Posted by jugotitman
Amen to all of those responses. LetItBe, that is exactely what women claim they want. They want to feel stability and security with tat man, but when they get this type of man they flip script and say there is something wrong. This is too good to be true. Now they have to find something wrong with that man and of course i have to let her go because she has taken away the bennefit of the doubt she has granted to me in the beginning of our relationship. so now i am back in the same boat of not being able to commite, because i dont want to put of with the drama that is brewed up for unknown reasons. I just dont understand what the woman wants when she pushes the man away for being what she is looking for.

Another scenario I witness a lot..
It's usually the stable guy women keep on a shelf while at the same time trying to figure out the player guy and for some stupid reason thinking the player can be reformed. When they turn their full attention to the stable guy after being burned by the player, another player will catch their attention..rinse, repeat. The lack of common sense and maturity is rampant among women until they end up alone which is when typically they figure things out. (well some do anyway) It goes back to what I said, stable men see more of these type of women more often than not unfortunately, and when they do finally meet the real deal it takes them awhile to feel it out then habitually rub their eyes, tilt their head and say damn...FINALLY a woman 😉 So don't fret, you'll find a woman that's pulling you in because you are exactly what she wants. It will be a treat not to have deal with that drama. She's out there..I have a feeling you know this though.😉