Commitment Issues

I want a relationship very much so but when I feel myself getting close enough to someone to possibility start a relationship, I tend to get scared... kinda like I want have my freedom
does anyone else but me have commitment issue and what's your sun, moon, Venus or all that would apply.
me
scorp sun
Taurus moon
scorp Venus
Sagg mars
Sagg rising....

Yea, you could add me to that list....im such a whore, I lust after all kinds of girls but I would love to have just that one "special" partner....people who know think im a pig but im really not, just scared to death......
scorp sun
taurus moon
scorp venus
sag mars
pisces rising

*im such a whore* is what I meant to write lol ignore that "im such a just like me part" long day at work

Definitely have commitment issues here. I find that I tend to want what I can't have and I will chase what I can't have endlessly but when I get it, I get bored and don't really want it anymore. It really sucks because when I'm doing the chasing I would SWEAR I want that person SOO BAD! Then I feel bad when I'm no longer into the person and I've made to person fall for me only to then break their heart by leaving them.

Honestly I'm terrified that I might be doing that right now. Terrified I'm going to wake up one morning having realized I fully got the guy and then become bored of him and leave. I don't want to do that but I'm not sure I know how to tell the difference. It sucks...so I'm just taking things extremely slow until I'm sure I want him and not the chase. HUGE ISSUES!!!

Virgo Sun
Taurus Moon
Virgo Venus
Cancer Mars
Gemini Rising

Posted by nov13thscorp
Yea, you could add me to that list....im such a whore, I lust after all kinds of girls but I would love to have just that one "special" partner....people who know think im a pig but im really not, just scared to death......
scorp sun
taurus moon
scorp venus
sag mars
pisces rising

lol, we have similar charts and thats also how I feel.

Posted by sugaries

Posted by sugaries
Mars in Sag unite!

but not every day...I need time apart

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that's my thing, I need a lot of time to myself... I need someone who can understand that.

Posted by neuroticvirgo
Definitely have commitment issues here. I find that I tend to want what I can't have and I will chase what I can't have endlessly but when I get it, I get bored and don't really want it anymore. It really sucks because when I'm doing the chasing I would SWEAR I want that person SOO BAD! Then I feel bad when I'm no longer into the person and I've made to person fall for me only to then break their heart by leaving them.

Honestly I'm terrified that I might be doing that right now. Terrified I'm going to wake up one morning having realized I fully got the guy and then become bored of him and leave. I don't want to do that but I'm not sure I know how to tell the difference. It sucks...so I'm just taking things extremely slow until I'm sure I want him and not the chase. HUGE ISSUES!!!

Virgo Sun
Taurus Moon
Virgo Venus
Cancer Mars
Gemini Rising

I have been guilty of that, I can really want someone then when I get them I get bored.... I can get bored with sex easily if my partner doesn't try to spice thing up

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by nov13thscorp
Yea, you could add me to that list....im such a whore, I lust after all kinds of girls but I would love to have just that one "special" partner....people who know think im a pig but im really not, just scared to death......
scorp sun
taurus moon
scorp venus
sag mars
pisces rising

lol, we have similar charts and thats also how I feel.

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yea our charts are very similiar...lol at least u know u arent the only sane/insane scorp out there....just curious but do u have any more scorp placements? I also have uranus in scorp, sun venus & uranus in the 8th house (scorpio ruled house). So proud of being a scorp hahaha and I have no idea why

I also have Uranus in scorp and my Venus was in reverse when I was born also do you think our sun/moon being opposite being an issue my bday is nov 14 by the way

Posted by scorpdiva
I also have Uranus in scorp and my Venus was in reverse when I was born also do you think our sun/moon being opposite being an issue my bday is nov 14 by the way

Posted by nov13thscorp

Posted by scorpdiva
I also have Uranus in scorp and my Venus was in reverse when I was born also do you think our sun/moon being opposite being an issue my bday is nov 14 by the way

Posted by harry99

Posted by scorpdiva

Sagg mars
Sagg rising....

You asked and answered your own question lol cute.

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lol, I did
its all the Sagg in my chart that make me love my freedom but my scorp in Venus needs partnerships...

i think i have underlying issues, since i seem to always sabotage my relationships 😢

Posted by LoversInLove3
I pine and lust after men until it turns into a real possibility, then all of the attraction disappears. I know it's fear, but it feels more blank...numb, and I have to get away from them. The feelings eventually resurface (after I have a good "what the hell LIL3...you know you like him" talk with myself), and the full feeling of fear creeps in. I really want a relationship, but I think a man is going to have to sneak it up on me.

THis is ME!! And its happening right now! I wanted him, have him, don't want him 😢

It seems like this is really common.. I read an article about this back in the day when I used to read Seventeen magazine. yep. You like a guy, then he likes you back, then you're all like 'hold on a sec is this what I want?!'

i am
sun Scorp
moon Scorp
venus Libra
aqua rising

some people think of it as the whole cliche 'we accept the love we think we deserve.' and I think that is slightly true. I used to have this issue, but then I remind myself that although it is a commitment... it isn't permanent, nothing is.
so why not give it a try..

Posted by Sutekh

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by harry99

Posted by scorpdiva

Sagg mars
Sagg rising....

You asked and answered your own question lol cute.

lol, I did
its all the Sagg in my chart that make me love my freedom but my scorp in Venus needs partnerships...

Never saw VENUS IN SCORPIO, as needing a partnership. Seems more of a Venus Cancer, Libra, Taurus thing

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good point, I guess not so much partnerships but I enjoy sex and I can't have it with just anyone so more so having a sexual partner that I can trust and be very one with sexually... so this would more so require a partner or relationship and not the typical booty. my scorp Venus does like the closeness I can have with one partner but I get nervous when shit gets serious.

/\ booty call.

Posted by ScorpioLaday
It seems like this is really common.. I read an article about this back in the day when I used to read Seventeen magazine. yep. You like a guy, then he likes you back, then you're all like 'hold on a sec is this what I want?!'

i am
sun Scorp
moon Scorp
venus Libra
aqua rising

some people think of it as the whole cliche 'we accept the love we think we deserve.' and I think that is slightly true. I used to have this issue, but then I remind myself that although it is a commitment... it isn't permanent, nothing is.
so why not give it a try..

good point

I thought I had commitment issues but after dating my Pisces for a few months now I'am slowly opening up to the possibility of love and relationship again. He makes it easy for me to relax and enjoy what we have. I'm in no rush to be in a committed relationship with him I am enjoying the dating process and I don't feel the need to be exclusive right now. I have a few things over his house and I only see him on the weekends (my choosing) mainly because I want to miss him. I've learned that I don't need to see a guy all the time. I like my space and as long as I can have my space and have time to process the time we spent together then I am more relaxed the next time I see him.

Not sure if that makes sense but that's how I feel.