Pisces: Commitment Issues.

Hey, guys. Just found dxp today and I just had to make an account.

Point of my post: I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for me. I'm a Pisces and for some reason, I always always shy away from relationships. I'm starting to realize what the reason is and I'm trying to power through it and be more willing but it's really hard for me. I start talking to these guys and one little thing they do just makes me stop and run away or it just turns me off from them automatically. It's so annoying because as I a Pisces I yearn for love but for some reason I can't get myself to be comfortable with it. Is it just the whole fickle thing or my need to feel free? Or do I just need to do some more growing up? It's just so confusing to me and I'd just like some others thoughts on my situation. Sorry, I ramble a lot. I'm not sure how easy it will be to give advice/opinions with all of this but please try 🙂

Nope. Venus in Aries, Mercury in Pisces.

Whats up with aquarius mercury?

I've always thought it may be that. Hopefully it is that simple. Thanks for your reply 🙂

Posted by sharkareteethmachines
Nvm. Pisces Merc. I was thinking Aqua Mars.

Lol, well good. Now you don't have to worry about defending an unfair rep.

So, is that it, you think? I'm just waiting for the right person? For me though, that's annoying. I feel as though this amazing guy in my mind doesn't exist and I am only using him as an excuse to run away from every other guy.

I have aqua in saturn. When it comes to what planet is in what sign I get so confused. Lol... So maybe that could be where my free spirited nature comes into play.

Oh, and I love the dream trance state. I embrace it fully, and I had always hoped I wouldn't grow out of it truthfully. It allows me time to escape for a bit so I don't always have to deal wit the realities of the world.

Thanks, Poisson. It seems like so far the winning argument of this discussion is my age. And as I said before, I hope it's that simple. I just feel so lost with all of this sometimes, but I guess everyone has been 20 and lost before or has yet to be.

Posted by LoveChild

I feel as though this amazing guy in my mind doesn't exist and I am only using him as an excuse to run away from every other guy.

Oh, and I love the dream trance state. I embrace it fully, and I had always hoped I wouldn't grow out of it truthfully. It allows me time to escape for a bit so I don't always have to deal wit the realities of the world.

It has nothing to do with age or planets ..... ^^^^^ the issue is that you are living in the bubble, viewing the real world, rather than the other way around.

You are suppose to be living in the real world, while viewing the bubble.

You have in your mind, a man of dreams .... and what is the real mind boggler here isn't that there is a man of dreams, it's that you can say the words, and still not realize it's a fantasy.


:::: shakes head ::::


The only thing you need is a reality check

Oh @ PiscVirgAqua Aquarius sign is not noncommitmental, this sign is rigid my moon & saturn are in Aquarius, I'm very very rigid & commitmental. even if I make any close friend for once then it is typically difficult for me to move on & to forget, (my venus is also Cancer) & I don't have any experience of this type of love, for this personality even I'm very careful to choose. anyway @ LoveChild reason of your this personality is specially Aries venus: as Aries sign know to very easy to move on & venus is relationship planet, in your birth chart venus is in Aries. also for Pisces moon. If you need solution of this then here it is for you: to stay in relationship you need, emotion, emotionally romance, your partner should be unpredictable or mysterious or that person should always make himself mysterious. Good Luck

Posted by FishyPisces
Lovechild, I've got an Aries venus too and I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm 2 years older than you but I went through the same thing only a few months ago. Although I'm personally not scared getting into relationships itself, I found out I had a fear of becoming so close with a person that they could see my soul so to speak. A few months ago me and my boyfriend moved in together after being together for nearly a year, but it was only when we lived together that I started to get very uncomfortable and anxious. I thought I would never get over it and my relationship was doomed to fail. But my bf was patient with me and it wasn't after that experience that I truly fell in love for the first time. I have a feeling you'll get over your fears too when you find the right guy, hopefully yo will. 🙂

That is sort of how it is for me, too. The person seeing your soul. I think in the end it's just going to have to be me truly becoming comfortable with myself so that I can be comfortable enough to be with another person instead of always running. And, yes. Finding a guy willing to be patient with me. Thanks for the advice. 🙂

P-Angel, I realize where you are coming from but I'd have to say that you'd need to know more about me to
Judge whether I needed a reality check or not. If you did know more about me you'd know I'm fully aware that some of the things I think about relationships are fantasies that won't ever happen. I'd say out of all of the problems I have regarding relationships that's the least of my worries. I'll get over it. So please don't tell me what I think and who I am based on one very short not so descriptive paragraph.

Posted by LoveChild

I'd say out of all of the problems I have regarding relationships that's the least of my worries.

Posted by LoveChild

I feel as though this amazing guy in my mind doesn't exist and I am only using him as an excuse to run away from every other guy.

It allows me time to escape for a bit so I don't always have to deal wit the realities of the world.

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Posted by LoveChild

If you did know more about me you'd know I'm fully aware .......

And again .....



The only thing you need is a reality check.


The truth hurts so bad, dunnit?

There's nothing wrong with you. What you're feeling at your age seems natural to me, especially given you're a water sign. Pisces can be easily spooked and Cancers can put up major walls to get thru to their heart. You've got you're work cut out for you LOL. Seriously, nothing wrong with you.