PLEASE HELP!! Scorpio and Sag

Hi....I am a sagittarius girl who is deeply in love with Scorpio guy
Our story starts 3 years ago ... After having bad online relationships from the same country , I finally met this scorpio guy.... I was only 19 and I was depressed about my ex which i loved dearly ...he dumped me and i was chasing after him ...This scorpio guy was also depressed about his ex gf so we started good and actually we started to be best friends ...we laughed together cried together , shared everything about each other it was something special and touchable ...I was flirting with him as I am a sag , I am good at nice words and sweet talks ...I told him pretty things which i felt for him in that moment I liked him so much that i was texting him all the time on fbook ....but oneday when he was drunk , he told me he loved me and laughed then i got upset becoz next day when he was sober, he apologized that he said he loved me ...it put me off and changed my liking towards him and i started to think he is not serious ...it all happened online through skype ... then few months passed we were getting closer , he was falling in love with me and it was freaking me out ...i thought i ll end up getting hurt like i used to so i took it simple and didnt believe his feelings...he was honest all the time , he was telling about his ex gf and about his life his dreams ....he was sweeter than candy
Few month passed he said to me he is in love with me and i told him the same coz i felt smthing for him but didnt believe him completely i was just playing well his game and we were sort of online couple... meanwhile i met another guy online again and we were good friends this guy was cancer guy ... i had nothing with this guy just pure friendship and oneday he said he is visiting me and he came over ...we met up and we decided to be together ... i did smthing stupid i posted our pictures on facebook which scorpio guy seen it...oh god he got really hurt ....This scorpio guy gone crazy demanded me answers ...he logged on my all accounts hacking my passwords i didnt say anyhting i was keeping distance coz i was the guilty one ...once i turned 20 scorpio guy came to visit me he said he is going to ask me to give him a chance to be with him , so i did give him a chance i met him but i kept carry on my relationship with cancer guy ...I felt good with cancer guy I wasnt in love but i love him in some ways... scorpio guy was special for me he was not only couple but best friend as well and

and i was hurting him i couldnt help it i met him here we had a bad and good times in that 14 days he said he was madly in love with me i could see and feel it he was crazy about me ... he t00ok me places and stayed next to my bed which i felt sick ( i had flu for few days ) he took care of me and hugged me when i cried when i opened my eyes he was looking at me i never been loved so much .... i was falling for him but becoz i messed everything up i was scared to go back to him so i said goodbye even he begged me to give me a chance to be my boyfriend....deep in my heart i wanted but i knew i couldnt be with him becoz of my visa problems and i couldnt go visit him i had no job and nothing to give him in return so i carried on with my cancer boyfriend ...when i was 21 Scorpio guy and me stayed best friends and he knew all about me and my relationship we were good friends and he was honest with me with every way ...i can never trust anyone as much as i trusted or trust him now these days .... i kept living life pretending we were best friends and i wasnt in love with him ......he was trying to move on but he was having hard times to forget me ... we never lost contact entirely we fought a lot then make up and then again and then again ... but we never left each other in peace he was mostly sweet with me only the days he was grumpy we had arguments ...he always said he loved me and he cant forget me , he was treating me sweet and was jealous about my relationship with cancer guy he kept asking me when he is going to leave me or i m going to dump him and i used to take it like a joke and laugh it off
when i was 22 we had a argument , i got grumpy and stubborn and lost contacts for 3 -4months i didnt text him and call him at all ..then oneday i decided to call and here we go we started to talk again
he was very happy to talk to me again and told me he missed me he wanted me next to him and he would introduce me all as his gf ,,, i was falling out of love with cancer guy as my heart was always with scorpio guy and my visa problem was getting hopes up so i had a chance to visit him ....i told scorpio i m going to see him soon i ll do anything ... he was very very happy ... he said he still loved me ...then i kept texted him constantly coz i thought maybe he still feels the same i was falling for him like a first day ... he was tolerating few weeks then he started to look annoyed with me ...and the more i wrote how i felt for him the more he kept ignoring me

He started to dissapear and try to avoid and whenever i seen him online he went offline he kept running away from me ...I said to him i m travelling long distance for him he should stop being ignorant ...he spoke to me and said he doesnt love me anymore and he only looks at me like friends ...he loves and cares for me just for friends.. he said he moved on and he doesnt feel anything for me ... he said he tried with another girl to have the same thing we had and it didnt work out as what we had was special for him he admitted he was crazy about me and loved me like he never love any women like that... he said it was very hard for him to move on and he did finally so he is not ever going back to it ...he said if he moved on thats forever whatever i do wont change his mind... he is not interested in me like a woman but he was to be friends ...he ignores me becoz i talk to him about feelings and he doesnt like it ... i asked him if i be better and move to his country for him he said no way he doesnt want me there he wants me away ...and he said dont make any effort or sacrifise for me coz i wont do anything for u ...he is not interested in me as a couple or girlfriend ... he is done for good
but he also said he wants me to visit him as much as i want he is happy to see me and he said even though we will have a great time together we wont be more than friends he also said i broken his heart and trust...i betrayed him and tried another man and now i want to go back to him its too late
i dont have any other choice but act like a friends i m madly in love with him and i dont know what to do to win his trust back and make him fall in love with me again and i know i wont ever hurt him again
i trust him so much as he always was honest and truthful with me
please help me give me advise how to win his heart again and make him to believe in me
is there any chance i can change his mind ?
HE IS SCORPIO SUN , CAPRICORN MOON AND SCORPIO VENUS
ME SAGITTARIUS SUN , CANCER MOON AND LIBRA VENUS

online, online, cancer, fb, online, visa, argument, grumpy, gf, visit...
Sorry, I don't support relationships which root in an online communication. They are pure mess, to me.


Hopefully someone from your generation will read this story and give you valuabel advice.



Generally in life, sometimes we have to learn that we have missed an opportunity. And must let go of it. No obsession. No hard tries. Simply hope for better opportunities in future. Eyes open.

Growing up and growing old happens just when you have to pass such an uncomfortable ravine.

DwellingOnMove ...if u cant advise anything better don't comment here at all ... i need a help not criticism i love this guy and i cant move on easy if i could i wouldn't be wasting time here trying to find solution

exoskeleton i know i done wrong ...i know i was a b**** i f***ed all up and maybe i should forget and move on but i want to try before i do another wrong step .. i think i was too young to understand what love was and now my concept about love and relationship has changed maybe thats why i try so hard

Posted by sexylady2015
DwellingOnMove ...if u cant advise anything better don't comment here at all ... i need a help not criticism ...

1. I gave you advise. Regarding general lessens in life.

2. no critism from me. online is not my area of competency.

3. this is a public place. I can write whatever I want. It was not even far from the subject.

i appreciate it but sometimes online stuff can really get serious and mess up ur life like what happened to me ... thank u for reply

Here is a thread with much pain for a sagy and it all started online:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/getting-over-a-scorpio-woman-long-story-4413592/

you can read it if you like. That guy (lostatsea) has had another thread with the title "Being a Scorpio vs having a mental disorder" which he has deleted later. I don't know him, his story or his case. I was just lurking the scorpio board and ran into it.

ooooh Scorp Venus... I wouldn't recommend playing with us, he's probably not moved on but keeps his feelings inside while giving you nothing.

Once you betray us and we FINALLY move on we never go back.


sorry but you lost him.

DwellingOnMove thank you for sharing ur findings , it was hard touching for me I could sort of relate it to my own story 🙂

AgentP911: Do you think he still has some sort of feelings for me ? Sometimes , I believe he is chasing after another girl , thats why he is not interested with me anymore or maybe I m being too jealous I know I have no rights... Why does he still want me as a friend , instead of hating me ? I always wonder that

Impulsv I know I broke the trust and maybe he will never forgive me even he says he did ...but I still want to try to make him happy for real this time ...I feel so desperate

Octoberbaby91 I know I lost him but I cannot just accept it and move on without pushing the boundries ... I am hoping maybe by time he will see my good side and he would be able to give me last chance ...In the end we never had a chance for real relationship ...all was in distance

Can anyone guide what to do in order to meet up with him I m going there very soon I don't want to give up now What shall I do

Posted by sexylady2015
Can anyone guide what to do in order to meet up with him I m going there very soon I don't want to give up now What shall I do

regularly jogging + no worries. The more you have confused thoughts the more deadly confused you get with a Scorpio. Be robust and simple.

(yet I assume he has not changed his opinion. did you say he has a new gf?)

Tiziani what do u mean by he's been very dishonest? is there anything I should know? please tell me what means I m on shaky ground

DwellingOnMove thank u for ur reply no he had tried with somebody online she was from his country but was living in us and he told me that without a problem as we used to share our problems with each other he was asking how to approach her as a woman maybe I can give him tips That's it... This days he said to me once that he tried similar thing with her but it didn't work So as far as I know he is single

Tiziani Maybe u re right i m overlooking things and thinking more emotional than logical.But I felt so much care and passion from him He was always there for me and he could have hurt me by sending our pictures to my boyfriend in that time. But he prefers seeing me happy than his revenge that's why I still think he was honest
Also he broke on my accounts becoz he was jealous and suspicious U know how Scorpios re when it comes to jealousy They like to investigate everything and he was like that but still maybe I m looking things too sensitive

1. In the following when I talk about Scorpio, I mean what I've read in Linda Goodmann's book, what I've seen from my ex and what I've seen from a gf of mine.

2. You can chase a Scorpio if you want but don't expect 1 $ service from him against 1 $ investment from you.

3. In principle when you are interested in a Scorp you are first suspected of being a bad guy who has to prove he is good. As if you have done a crime and are on probation for a while.

4. How can you show him you are a good mate for him?
a) showing affection
b) showing backbone, common sense, success in your own life projects
c) accepting his leadership
d) always remembering that his ways are not normal but horrific. First time I asked my ex to go together and eat ice cream (it was summer), he said no. I was sad but had to accep it. Once I was cool with that rejection, he asked me "is your offer still valid?". I don't remember if we went to eat ice. But I know at that point I saw his behavior was 100% matching the Linda Goodmann's descriptions.
e) if you have wishes and interests, you tell him why you need what you think you need. He says that is nonsense and forget about it. Now you say, you're right, that is not so important, I bet I can find another solution. Then look!!!!!! He gives you what you want. So what did help? First your reasoning. Second that you were flexible to follow him and not your own stomatch.

5. Scorpio can forgive you if you made mistakes based on information lack, uncertain circumstances and such. Or if you were too inexperienced. In that case you get a second Chance.

6. The bigger problem with Scorpio is actually if you'd like to live with him, should you get the chance. Let all your feeling aside and check if you can get along with his life style. Can you live with a moody man? What would be your reaction if you have planed a romantic weekend and he has runied it by a bitter fight? I recommond this this forethought. Unfortunately often a girl is so lost in her feelings (obsession, ambition, inferiority) that she does not check the long term issues.

7. Regarding point 4: Scorpio is like an eagle who wants to transport you. He needs to make sure you are robust for the flight on his back. Thus the rollercoaster.

8. Once again. Don't apply for a job because the application process is so difficult and the challenge turns you on. Apply for the job because it is your best match.

DwellingOnMove oh wow thank you so much for writing all this It actually sort of way describing him. He is like that up and down hot and called
Right now these days the situation is i m going to see this guy and he wanted us to stay together he suggested to rent a flat for 3 weeks then I thought it's a hint I start calling him texting opening my heart and he became colder and colder Now he is giving me silence treatment Last time I missed him I called him he said he misses me and his voice was sad like he meant it then i answered how much i miss him he hanged up his phone Later next day I phoned him becoz I m terrible missing him he didn't answer me i kept calling he wrote me to leave him alone he doesn't care anymore about anything and he doesn't love me he is bipolar then he blocked me and threatened me to change his number Next morning he unblocked me but he doesn't text me even i see him online on whassup all the time I don't know what he feels or he thinks Just before trip he is giving up on me It's just not fair I feel emotionally tortured He is so moody moo

"he is bipolar "

you must see that he is under pressure cause emotional issues are too serious for them. so he prefers not to do the big talk and wait until you are there.

Let me tell you. if you are lost now by his behavior, you'll open your eyes one day and see that you cannot afford it all anymore.

you'll be wasting your and his time if you keep wanting him. this rollercoaster is meant for pliant Pisces and clingy Cancer.

what is in your chart? what do you have there which makes you profiled for a scorp? what does he have?

I m Sag sun,Cancer moon and Cancer raising and my venus is Libra
He is Scorpio sun, Capricorn moon and Scorpio venus
I think we re quite a match and i feel we have that special bond
Maybe that's my cancer moon attached on this scorpio. I m very Clingy and i cannot let go on past I really feel deep when I care for someone

Ps ; his raising is also cancer