Please Help with Cancer Male

I am still trying to figure out this Cancer guy I've been seeing for a month. Do they usually say things they don't mean? He told me he wasn't wanting anything serious, but my gosh, he contacts me every weekend and we spend 3 - 4 days together and he just really seems like he's into me. He also has made many "I love you," "I'm falling into you" statements when drunk (which I know he doesn't mean literally being drunk and all, but maybe there's something to it?). He actually accused ME of pushing/pulling him and told me that I'm hard to figure out. Whenever we are together he is VERY attentive to my wants/needs and is constantly affectionate. Any advice? Just forget him and move on or keep seeing him and see what happens? I have definitely tried to put a hault on any feelings bc I know I'm just asking to be hurt. Help please!

What is your sunsign if you don't mind telling?

Thanks starfish :-) Yeah, he is definitely sending mixed messages, though he claimed that's what I was doing. I don't want him to confuse me any further, but there is this attraction I can't seem to get past. lol I am certain he feels it too bc that is something he's been consistent on. We can't keep our hands off each other. lol I do make my own plans and am going about my life as usual, but we still have been seeing quite a bit of each other. I know I should probably just walk away, but it is going to be hard turning him down when he calls.

SRG - I am a sag - could you tell? LOL Is that bad? LOL I am pisces rising though, and I think we are supposed to be good w/Cancer. Also, his moon is either in sag or scorpio (no birth time). Any advice for me?

No, being a sag isn't bad. I get along incredibly well with all sags. My best friend is one. Could be because I have a leo rising. If I could choose to date a fire sign, i'd pick a sag hands down.. but being a cancer the only sign i'm completely nuts about (no surprise here) are Scorps.

I can't say for sure whats going on with your cancer friend. The concensus on Cancers is that they're inconsistent, confusing, misleading and they play with peoples heads in many relationships. If you feel thats how your relationship is going, maybe it's not worth the effort. However, even if drunk, I don't think cancers are known to just throw words up in the air. It's true that drinking causes people to speak the truth. I think maybe you guys both really like each other but just have trouble explaining it.

Yeah, he definitely has the confusing thing down pat. The weird thing is, he's not really that inconsistent. He seems to want to spend a lot of time with me and is always kissing on me, holding my hand, and just generally giving and caring. What I don't get is ACTING like that but SAYING he doesn't want anything. One drunk time he was saying he loved me and the second he was saying he was falling into me. I just don't get him! I hope you are right and he likes me bc I have definitely been liking him. Thanks SRG!

Anymore advice from anyone?

I also am falling for a Cancer man and find it all rather fusterating. I don't get them!! Any Cancer Men around here want to try and shed some light on this?

ahhhh Cancer men...so hard to figure out!..I've sorta fallen for one already....lol....but can't get nothing from him...although there are mixed signals all the time....geez!

I'm sick of all the mixed signals and the Me giving/Him taking scenario. DRIVING ME INSANE!

He's giving this mixed signals.......so that you would make a first move and make him all the more secure.......Dont forget tht Cancerians have the biggest fear of REJECTION among all zodiac signs.......too bad very few people would understand a cancerian behaviour......

Yes - this is exactly why this man NEEDS an emotionally STRONG woman!

all this, and to be honest these lovely cancer guys do not even realize that they are giving mixed signals...honestly they ahve no idea!!!
they behave like that because they are too busy protecting themselves of their feelings and they go crazy twisting and turning every single word and gesture that you say or make....they need reasurance, but then they need to be left alone to analize and then they'll come out and chase you but don't give in too easily because they need to test you first and see how strong you are.........the stronger you are the stronger their feelings will get and the more they will want you but they will not tell you that they will only show it.........and don't forget they don't say thingsjust for the sake of saying them, they are either testing you(to see your reaction) or they feel rejected......
i am addicted to a cancer guy, cancers rock......they have everything you can ever want

"gemmini I have been dealing with a cancerian man online off and on for the past year and let me tell ya, it has been one of the most intense and confusing relationships I've ever had.. LOL, he's driving me nuts. I'm heading right over to the Cancer board to vent, lol"

HAHAHA!!! I'm in the same boat...even though we are just friends....

Glad to hear I'm not alone - I'm involved with a male Cancer as well and it is enough to drive a girl completely crazy. 🙂

I find it a bit weird coz i always think women drive me crazy through their mix signals.......lol!!!!

These cancer males are something huh...no surprise I'm going through the same frustrations with my cancer guy! tsk tsk tsk

These cancer males are something huh...no surprise I'm going through the same frustrations with my cancer guy! tsk tsk tsk