My ex dumped me about a year ago, we ended on good terms but I couldn't get over him and I kinda was too clingy even tho we weren't together I would still text him etc. well he told me he didn't want me in his life anymore and that I should move in. It's been about 6 months since that happened and it's been about a year since we broke up. He randomly just added me on snapchat about 4 weeks ago and he's been faithfully watching my stuff, he hadn't said anything to me yet but he's been watching. Do u guys think I still have a chance? Should I say something to him or just leave it alone. I honestly was gonna tell him that I don't feel comfortable with him watching my videos when he can't even talk to me ... And that I don't wanna see his stuff either if he's just going to watch my stuff without saying anything cud it's kinda driving me crazy , or should I not tell him all that ? What do I doooooo ? I kinda want him back
Scorpio/sag ex I'm a pisces
He was born in the cusp of Scorpio and sad btw on the 22nd
Posted by MiZLeo
I don't use snapchat but is there a way to block him?
Yes there's a way to block him , he had blocked me but then after 6 months he unblocked me and started watching my stuff so yea there's a way to block
I agree with YellowSubmarine, pay no mind to him checking your snaps (but don't block him either because then it seems like you care too much.) Just let him see you living your life! He obviously unblocked you for a reason, I don't ever block anyone off anything but if I do, I tend to forget I blocked them, so that shows he remembered your block and put some effort to unblock you which means he thought about you (maybe not thinking, but THOUGHT.) So just do not do anything, if he wants to approach you he can, or he can just be curious to see what you're doing cause we all are a little curious.

don't be flattered. if he was interested in getting back with you, he would straight up tell you.
block him because you are reading too much into his "curiousity". It's all in your head -- they love head games.
Why you would want to get back with someone who dumped you and blocked you?
Move on. You're better off.
block him because you are reading too much into his "curiousity". It's all in your head -- they love head games.
Why you would want to get back with someone who dumped you and blocked you?
Move on. You're better off.

He dumped you, and a year ago at that. Maybe it's been long enough that he forgot what he didn't like about the relationship - in which case he would likely soon remember after a bit of contact with you. Or, he could be confused/wants attention and looking to fuck, or simply looking to fuck.
People don't take a year to realize that they fucked up. If what he wanted was YOU back in a faithful, long term RELATIONSHIP, he would have taken action a lot sooner. At least that's my opinion.
My advice is block him and move on. I personally believe there'd be more heartbreak in your future if you decided to pursue or even just let yourself believe that things could go somewhere.
People don't take a year to realize that they fucked up. If what he wanted was YOU back in a faithful, long term RELATIONSHIP, he would have taken action a lot sooner. At least that's my opinion.
My advice is block him and move on. I personally believe there'd be more heartbreak in your future if you decided to pursue or even just let yourself believe that things could go somewhere.

Posted by pathfinderThis all the way. I know it's hard, and you probably really care about him but he treated you like shit. You need to think about that before you let them back into your life.
don't be flattered. if he was interested in getting back with you, he would straight up tell you.
block him because you are reading too much into his "curiousity". It's all in your head -- they love head games.
Why you would want to get back with someone who dumped you and blocked you?
Move on. You're better off.
Block him maybe have a cry about it and move on.
Was that sarcastic or serious ? Lol serious question tho , Is wondering forever really better?
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →


