Should I stay friends with this virgo (womanizer) crush?

Should I stay friends with this virgo (womanizer) crush? This jerk is so sweet to me. We met at my gym. He always comes over to say hi and asks about my day. There so much gazing into each others eyes almost as if we're falling for each other type feeling, it gets pretty intense.

But being the smart older woman that I am, I knew it was too good to be true. Because I followed up on his request to hang out one weekend, he replied that he was going to call me. Never did. I was devastated. But I didn't want him to know that. So when I saw him next time, I jokenly said "still waiting for that call!" as if it didn't bother me.

Also, social media ruins everything. I noticed he's got many female followers, and he follows many of those "insta-hoes". I try not to pay attention to that, but being human I couldn't help but feel a bit jealous.

So I come here in need of advice.. Should I just stay friends with this guy, or cut him out of my life completely? He's still a really nice, which makes it hard. Younger me would have thrown a tantrum and blocked him. But if I do that I'll just look like an immature a-hole.

help?

He's Virgo sun, Cancer Moon, Libra Venus btw.

He sounds like trouble 😄 But sometimes we need trouble. So is really up to you. Knowing how he is will help you not going deeper than you need hopefully

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I’m kinda thinking he likes flirting with you and that’s it. His cancer moon and libra Venus doesn’t like hurting people’s people’s feeling so he won’t reject you outright.

Kinda wish he would. Just rip that bandage off, make it easy for me to block him out of my life lol.

Posted by TomSawyer
Depends how much you bench and how much he benches.

Hahahaha he spots me.

Posted by pisceswoman123
He sounds like trouble 😄 But sometimes we need trouble. So is really up to you. Knowing how he is will help you not going deeper than you need hopefully

This is so tempting! I have to think long and hard about it.

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by pisceswoman123
He sounds like trouble 😄 But sometimes we need trouble. So is really up to you. Knowing how he is will help you not going deeper than you need hopefully

This is so tempting! I have to think long and hard about it.

click to expand

I don’t get emotionally attached to womanizers. So if you do you really have to be careful

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by TomSawyer
Depends how much you bench and how much he benches.

Hahahaha he spots me.

Ok.

Look for an erection next time he spots you.

If he's looking at your breasts, he might be interested.

Then again, IG-thots can ruin a young man.

click to expand

I was totally kidding, tho he has offered.

also caught him staring as I was fixing my boobage.

Posted by Leo188881
Blocking him is probably going to make the gym awkward. Can you detach from your feelings and just be friends with him or have you gone too far into crush mode?

I do find myself thinking about him a lot. But lately I've been holding myself back when I'm around him. Less flirty, less eye contact.

Posted by Leo188881

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Leo188881
Blocking him is probably going to make the gym awkward. Can you detach from your feelings and just be friends with him or have you gone too far into crush mode?

I do find myself thinking about him a lot. But lately I've been holding myself back when I'm around him. Less flirty, less eye contact.

Ok... so here's what you want and what you deserve... a guy who calls when he says he will, a guy that is considerate of your feelings and that doesn't make you feel insecure. This guy is none of those things. Don't block him and don't care. Play i will survive on repeat and remember there's 4 billion other guys out there 😘

click to expand

So stay friends with him, just don't catch any feels. got it.

Thanks!

Posted by sierra_

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I’m kinda thinking he likes flirting with you and that’s it. His cancer moon and libra Venus doesn’t like hurting people’s people’s feeling so he won’t reject you outright.

This.

click to expand

I know. I see it. and it makes me mad because it totally messes with your head.