sugarplumeow
joined February 18, 2015
  • Im a quadruple Pisces, I love with all my heart and currently Im hurting so bad. I need to go swim around my fish bowl lol
  • Even when I told him all the bad stuff she said about him, he still has his blinders on
  • I got kinda hurt that my ex was crying over a girl who kept playing him (even before me). its like come on dude, you had a good woman, youll find another good woman
  • Posted by sierra_
    how are you doing OP?

    @sugarplumeow


    @Sierra Omg its nice of you to ask. im pretty good, I got a job at UPS. My ex Virgo and I had sex which was great and now we are talking more. how are you?
  • Posted by gyrados
    Because they think they can cure everything, they're the Doctor & Nurse of zodiac remember that.

    Thats why Virgo love Cancer man & woman so much, simply because they are Incurable.


    My ex keeps telling me about this chick who was once his friend .she is a Scorpio. He is sad that she lied to him for two years. but i think he should just stop talking to her and drop her like a bad habit
  • Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.
  • Posted by Fadnav
    And what to do if you are the one who did the breakup?
    I am a leo and I have posted about my 6 month relanrelationship with this virgo guy on this forum, in detail.
    I am hurting and it's just two days since i broke up and I did it on fone. Told him it's our last talk but he did not take it seriously.He said why can't you keep in touch with me when you have to talk to this other guy (plz check my post for the whole story)
    I did get one morning msg from him yesterday but nothing today.
    I so want him back
    would he come back to me on his own ?
    The ending was as he was not ready to commit to me (The usual saying I am slow and I need time to decide I wanna marry to you or not)
    I am missing him so much but i don't wanna go back to him on my own.
    So guys your insight please


    Didnt i talk to you yesterday?
  • Posted by hazeofpixiedust
    Posted by sugarplumeow
    Posted by hazeofpixiedust
    Sugar... We talked in another post that we are going through similar situations..

    My Virguy has moon in Taurus as well.. He dropped me too over a smaller emotional display. I was feeling the same way you were afterward. How can we not be friends? etc. etc. We really loved each other!! ( or he is a fantastic liar schmoozy Virgos? I don't know?).

    I don't know if it has to do with their moon being in Taurus (mess with the bull, get the horns??? I have no idea I haven't researched that moon placement much) but it does seem they are dead serious when they say it's over. and pretty harsh about it. Mine took it a step further asking for clean break even though this was our first hiccup and it was miniscule.

    I'm still hurting right now but I'm feeling better everyday. Part of me realizes he is a huge jerk. Someone said it earlier too... He must not be in love with you anymore. I'm sorry I know that hurts. The one thing that multiple types of people told me after our break up was this: He must not love you if he dumped you. I



    couldn't believe what happened wasn't just a discussion and instead was a harsh TEXT MSG break up! It did make me realize his feelings must not have been that deep for me.

    Virgs from what I've read just move on (onward and upward mentality) not necessarily to a new love, but his mind is not on you or fixing you two right now--- believe that. He is very much looking forward. I also read that they have scouted the situation fully and realize you two will not work out at all. He put thought into dumping you, hun. It wasn't a willy nilly decision on his part. It's very much a deliberate action, not a mistake - so get that idea out of your head.. I'm sorry but he meant it.

    I would recommend NOT reaching out at all. Maybe months down the road if you are really feeling it. I've had to really pull myself back in from wanting to contact him. Don't do it! I did send texts a week later to him. He was nice but they trailed off, and I regret feeding his ego with contact in this way. You will regret reaching out right now, TRUST ME.

    I also looked up how to win a Virguy back - and that it is not easy. It said you need to plant yourself near the guy and SHOW him that you've changed. over and over. Words will not work, actions will. Be consistent. Don't stuff yourself into his life but be around and show him that you've changed your silly ways. I can't because we live 3 hours away, lolll, but maybe you have a chance to make things right down the road. This means you better be very sure of your feelings for him and awfully devoted. For me that's hard to do after the dude dumped me by text. Why would I do all this for someone who couldn't even give me the respect of a phone call? Why would you do this at all for someone who dropped you? If they still sense that you have these issues, even slightly, they will no longer pay attention to you.

    Take some time with yourself. So you've realized you need some anger help. This is not a quick fix, girl! Forget him and work on getting those nastier habits out of you. I would bet that by the time you have yourself level, you have attracted someone new and different. You should be looking forward, too, because your Virgo definitely is! I know it's painful! My relationship was half the time of yours but man it hurt. He also showed me off to everyone he cared about it. I know it means something to you, but like I said, he was willing to drop all of that and drop you. The sooner you admit that to yourself the better. For what it's worth, you're not alone - I'm going through the exact same thing and hurting pretty badly from it - but one thing I'm doing is not looking back and not considering how to fix us. He doesn't care? I shouldn't either is how I see it. Much love! Hang tough, you will see this through and come out stronger. Cliche, but true.



    It was all my fault


    Sugar I know how you feel. I am stumped whether my situation was really my fault or not? There were so many factors, but I tend to blame myself. I feel like I royally messed up with mine in being a cranky cigarette quitter..... I was getting pissy and I think he didn't like it. Mine is a little bit more of a jerk though because he said he would be there no matter what. And my crankiness wasn't that bad...

    But I have been blaming myself all my month. Sometimes I get clarity in my sleep, during dreams. The past few days I have been really working it out in sleep and I realize that this is noone's "fault." We are not supposed to be together. You know what else my dreams showed me? That I gave a lot more in ways that he never did for me. I woke up relearning the lesson that "love is blind." I wasn't looking at the pitfalls of things he was doing to me, because I've been wrapped up in blaming myself. I had him on a pedestal he didn't belong on.

    I would just really do some soul searching... How good of a match was he, TRULY.

    I see your next steps going one of two ways - you realize you lost a good thing and take these next months to make YOU your focus. You admit fully that you have some anger issues. You and him will never work until these are gone from you. You can take the time to work on it and come back around to show him that you've changed! But these traits need to be gone from you or he will not accept you. That's deep and it will take hard work on yourself. Maybe by the time you fix the issues you won't want him anymore.

    The other way is you find someone who knows how to meddle with that side of you. I had anger issues when I was younger 20's. I met people who knew how to snap me out of it, make me laugh and move on. I also met people who couldn't stand it. I didn't care about the ones who didn't like it, because that was just where I was at with myself at the time. The people who didn't like it had no place in my life right then and vice versa.

    Anyway, someone said to keep checking in as an acquaintance. This is a great idea further down the road for you two. Still, immediately, now --- take some time over the holidays to just be you, and work on that stuff that you don't like. In a couple months - pop back in and say hi to your guy. Or you can now, but really really lightly (I wouldn't at all right now).

    I know the grieving is rough (I'm right there with you) but your focus shouldn't be him. It should be you, the things you think scared him off, and how to make them better. You need a rest from him, dear!

    Have you tried classes or a hobby that gets you calm and centered? Painting, yoga, swimming laps, meditation... You might wanna consider some anger management or simply counseling too. Do SOMETHING over the next few months!

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    You give the greatest advice smile Im glad we talked

  • They can really be cookiemonstery.I agree
  • Virgo men tend to want to stay on good terms with people they cared about (or atleast I see it that way). How long was this relationship going on for? Also Virgos hate to lose and will try to get you back. i THINK its nice that he wants to be your friend, its better than " what happned will always be there (cause of breakup) If this this and this happens then we can be friends " trust me, that hurts.
  • Posted by hazeofpixiedust
    Sugar... We talked in another post that we are going through similar situations..

    My Virguy has moon in Taurus as well.. He dropped me too over a smaller emotional display. I was feeling the same way you were afterward. How can we not be friends? etc. etc. We really loved each other!! ( or he is a fantastic liar schmoozy Virgos? I don't know?).

    I don't know if it has to do with their moon being in Taurus (mess with the bull, get the horns??? I have no idea I haven't researched that moon placement much) but it does seem they are dead serious when they say it's over. and pretty harsh about it. Mine took it a step further asking for clean break even though this was our first hiccup and it was miniscule.

    I'm still hurting right now but I'm feeling better everyday. Part of me realizes he is a huge jerk. Someone said it earlier too... He must not be in love with you anymore. I'm sorry I know that hurts. The one thing that multiple types of people told me after our break up was this: He must not love you if he dumped you. I couldn't believe what happened wasn't just a discussion and instead was a harsh TEXT MSG break up! It did make me realize his feelings must not have been that deep for me.

    Virgs from what I've read just move on (onward and upward mentality) not necessarily to a new love, but his mind is not on you or fixing you two right now--- believe that. He is very much looking forward. I also read that they have scouted the situation fully and realize you two will not work out at all. He put thought into dumping you, hun. It wasn't a willy nilly decision on his part. It's very much a deliberate action, not a mistake - so get that idea out of your head.. I'm sorry but he meant it.

    I would recommend NOT reaching out at all. Maybe months down the road if you are really feeling it. I've had to really pull myself back in from wanting to contact him. Don't do it! I did send texts a week later to him. He was nice but they trailed off, and I regret feeding his ego with contact in this way. You will regret reaching out right now, TRUST ME.

    I also looked up how to win a Virguy back - and that it is not easy. It said you need to plant yourself near the guy and SHOW him that you've changed. over and over. Words will not work, actions will. Be consistent. Don't stuff yourself into his life but be around and show him that you've changed your silly ways. I can't because we live 3 hours away, lolll, but maybe you have a chance to make things right down the road. This means you better be very sure of your feelings for him and awfully devoted. For me that's hard to do after the dude dumped me by text. Why would I do all this for someone who couldn't even give me the respect of a phone call? Why would you do this at all for someone who dropped you? If they still sense that you have these issues, even slightly, they will no longer pay attention to you.

    Take some time with yourself. So you've realized you need some anger help. This is not a quick fix, girl! Forget him and work on getting those nastier habits out of you. I would bet that by the time you have yourself level, you have attracted someone new and different. You should be looking forward, too, because your Virgo definitely is! I know it's painful! My relationship was half the time of yours but man it hurt. He also showed me off to everyone he cared about it. I know it means something to you, but like I said, he was willing to drop all of that and drop you. The sooner you admit that to yourself the better. For what it's worth, you're not alone - I'm going through the exact same thing and hurting pretty badly from it - but one thing I'm doing is not looking back and not considering how to fix us. He doesn't care? I shouldn't either is how I see it. Much love! Hang tough, you will see this through and come out stronger. Cliche, but true.



    It was all my fault
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
    You don't stop loving someone because of a fight lol.

    I am still friends with my Virgo ex, but we are parents so we worked on our friendship for the sake of our son and his welfare

    It works very well, once we both put away our egos 😊


    Well I'm not telling you guys the full story. I'm over it. I'm just really ashamed a lost someone like him.
  • Lets stop this little fight shall we?
  • Yeah 96 percent of the time i am happy.

    Pisces Sun
    Pisces rising
    Pisces Moon
    Venus Aries
  • Posted by pisceanloves
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    Posted by Earthgoddess
    Wut the hell going on here 👀


    Lots of chemistry between caramizedcoffee and ixion. Confusing and unamusing banter between ixion and pisceanlove. Damn, I hate it when team pisces takes the L.


    I don't know where @Pisceanloves is but she had best be running regressions right tf now lol.


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    STATS!


    I gave you stats but you refuse to look up. Now I demand your Wikipedia page


    Me having a wiki isn't relevant, I never made a single credible claim of being famous, ever so you even floating that treetrunkery is mystifying and paints you as woefully out of touch.

    Now far as I am concerned you're making an unfounded assertion, that's unfortunate...because the burden of proof is entirely on you. These are your assertions, and though I have enough care to troll you I don't have enough care to bother to work to validate a claim you are making lol.

    Thoughts of me doing so are delusions of grandeur, lol just high comedy.

    Far as I am concerned If you want people to believe you provide the facts. If you don't care then let it rock cuz I certainly am unaffected and no one else really cares about either of our opinions about me.

    So since you really are only talking to me...which if you are not then kindly stfu lol you bes be presenting me with the statistics you claim you have, its essential to your argument lol.

    So...

    STATS BISH STATS!


    This really gets boring, I'm done talking to you, unfortunately you can't provide any credible reason why do you think you are better than anyone else. Sorry to say but your intellectual capability is way below average. Your ego and anger won't let you think straight, not saying you could do miracles either way but still.I gave you numbers and you demand stats, NUMBERS are STATS itself. I'm done, find someone else to treetrunk with. I'm unimpressed by your ego, quit much disgusted. Your existence doesn't have worldwide value, so you might as well want to reevaluate lot's of things. Good luck.
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    Virgo's really have bad ego sometimes
  • Posted by Jules-ll
    Posted by sugarplumeow
    Posted by Jules-ll
    Posted by sugarplumeow
    Posted by Jules-ll
    I've done this so no, why would I lose respect? I was single at the time and the sex was great, no brainer. People can't get enough of us virgos, just saying.


    Thats true! I really cant get over Virgos ( I've only had one ).You guys are so sexy inside and out . I just dont want him to think im cheap and what not.


    It's all about the approach, be subtle but not too subtle and not slutty. We like confidence...


    Good point. He asked me first ..soo .. but i'll play it cool


    The door is open, all you have to do is walk in gurl! Why is he your ex? What sign are you?
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    I'm a quadruple Pisces with a venus in Aries. He is a Virgo, Libra rising with a Taurus moon. we broke up because we had a really bad fight (i have anger problems) and we couldnt get past it. he told me he did not feel the same passion anymore so we broke up two weeks after the fight.

  • Posted by Jules-ll
    Posted by sugarplumeow
    Posted by Jules-ll
    I've done this so no, why would I lose respect? I was single at the time and the sex was great, no brainer. People can't get enough of us virgos, just saying.


    Thats true! I really cant get over Virgos ( I've only had one ).You guys are so sexy inside and out . I just dont want him to think im cheap and what not.


    It's all about the approach, be subtle but not too subtle and not slutty. We like confidence...
    click to expand


    Good point. He asked me first ..soo .. but i'll play it cool
  • Posted by Jules-ll
    I've done this so no, why would I lose respect? I was single at the time and the sex was great, no brainer. People can't get enough of us virgos, just saying.


    Thats true! I really cant get over Virgos ( I've only had one ).You guys are so sexy inside and out . I just dont want him to think im cheap and what not.