Taurus Male Pisces Female Help Im heartbroken :(

Can someone help Please? I'm a 38yr old Taurus, Cancer Rising Male. I'm very Romantic Sensitive and Caring. Not afraid to cry or show emotion love hugs and affection giving and getting more then just sex. My Ex 24yr old(She likes older guys) Pisces, Pisces Rising GF broke my heart. She would always say "Why are you so good to me" (Shes been in a lot of shit relationships) Like she didn't deserve to be treated good and respected like my Mermaid princess. She even had me meet her mom. Which she never does with like anyone. Sure there were problems in our relationship that she didn't tell me till after the fact easy things to fix. I keep pursuing her trying to win her back. She now has a new BF. Ive told her "If you don't love me if we will never be together just say so and I will leave you alone not be mad" But she wont say it. What am I to do? What am I to think? If someone see this please tell me should I just move on from the girl I wanted to Hold protect and love for the rest of our lives?

Posted by DonJohnson
that 14 year saturn attraction. it's real.


but where ur saturn and where's her saturn?



i'm in a very similar situation with my girl. but i don't treat her that well. i love her very much but i control myself. it's very very easy for young girls to take you for granted. and they are more primitive like animals. they will leave you once they detect your beta servitude which you are showcasing here. i'd say this one is pretty much finished. but there's a chance she could come back. but you must cut all contact with her. go no contact.

one day she may miss you to check up on you.

My Saturn is in Leo Her's is in Aquarius. I dont know what all that means but im grasping at straws here.

Hmmm... Interesting. Honestly you don't need someone who doesn't recognize the gentle and sweet bull that you are. Grieve this relationship and open yourself up to someone who doesn't take you for granted.

Posted by mswaim4
Hmmm... Interesting. Honestly you don't need someone who doesn't recognize the gentle and sweet bull that you are. Grieve this relationship and open yourself up to someone who doesn't take you for granted.

I wish i could do that but she wont say "It will never be" Im a Taurus I have to win her back and I wont stop till she tells me to stop. When I do talk to her I say that sometimes but then she just clams up and stops the text till I text her a couple weeks later to see how things are. I have stepped back some but im still trying. Thing is this Girl found me on a Dating Site just after My 4yr relationship with a Virgo Female ended. I thought I loved her but Looking at it I really didn't. Virgo Women are cold and sexless ive found. Well I was in a real low point and she just started messaging me and kinda just Picked me up out of the dust and darkness and said "you deserve to be loved" She was so caring twords me I just don't know how I can move on.

Posted by AphroditeCursedMe

1. I'm very Romantic Sensitive and Caring. Not afraid to cry or show emotion love hugs and affection giving and getting more then just sex.

2. She would always say "Why are you so good to me" Like she didn't deserve to be treated good and respected like my Mermaid princess.

3. Sure there were problems in our relationship that she didn't tell me till after the fact easy things to fix. I keep pursuing her trying to win her back.

4. She now has a new BF. Ive told her "If you don't love me if we will never be together just say so and I will leave you alone not be mad" But she wont say it. What am I to do?

5. .... the girl I wanted to Hold protect and love for the rest of our lives?

1. I'm unclear why you wanted to showcase some of your attributes here. Are you implying that because you are all of those things that it wins you brownie points? Perhaps with a different woman, it would matter .. but, things like that turn Pisces off.

2. You treat her like a Princess? *** puke *** Stop saying those things if you want a Pisces to take you seriously for who you are. By saying that and treating her that way, you are showing her how superficial you are. That's not to say that you don't have depth, I'm sure you do ... but, Pisces people cannot tolerate a shallow person on any level. And to spoil a person who isn't deserving will drive a Fish the opposite direction.

3. This is for all women: When a woman tells you things that are messed up with them .. they are NOT asking you to fix anything. It's common for men to want to try and fix a problem, rather than actually listen to the problem. The woman wants you to just feel it with her. She doesn't want you to mend it. don't fucking touch it/topic .... just be that sensitive person you purposely highlighted and give her a hug.

Stop chasing her, stop trying to win her back. By doing something like that with a person, the signal you are giving is that you want to play attention games. If a person does come back to you because you chased the hardest, then the only thing you've gained is a meat suit of egotism.

4. she has a boyfriend ... leave her the fuck alone. she's not available. It's very disturbing that you are trying to put a wedge between her and her boyfriend.

5. It sounds to me like you have a fantasy of being a knight in shining armor, to hold and protect, and this girl(?) was fulfilling this fantasy for you ... because what other reason could there be for you to have such strong emotions to a person you don't even really have all the way yet? I mean, obviously, shit was there or you two wouldn't be broken up .. so why would you want to be a savior to a person who isn't even asking for a hero?

Thanks for being an Asshole about it P-Angel

You sound very egotistical and appear to have a strong desire to stroke yourself and to want other people to recognize how much you adore yourself. To the Piscean perspective, you sound very superficial.


The typical Pisces isn't plugged into people on individual levels unless the person has moved them, and awed them.

If a person attempts to do various things like ... control them, manipulate them, seduce them, virtually any kind of maneuvering .. then the Fish's fins go up and we become suspicious of your motives.

Here, with you .... it seems like you are trying to score her as a possession by 1. upstaging yourself so you (appear) to be special more special than you probably are, and 2. smother her in adoration when no human beings should be put on a pedestal as a prize.

You need to peel yourself away from her. A Pisces person is capable of showing back up ... but, that doesn't mean it's because she wants to then be a Princess. she will be showing back up because she likes you, and wants to see if you've changed. If you're the same, then she'll keep it moving.

You're not going to catch a Fish like that, period. So, you either change yourself, or move along.

those are the only two choices,

Taurus male here, my honest opinion: Once they start messing around with someone else reconciling is not an option.