Taurus man needs help with beautiful Virgo woman.

I am wondering if anyone could help me with a beautiful virgo who has switched to reverse.

She was a girl i dated about 15 years ago and two months ago we ran into each
other. We talked and it went well, she took my number and called me. (although
it was a month 1/2 later)

The first time we dated we were both young and being a guy I was playing the
field and made a huge mistake of letting her go. (by blowing her off. What an
idiot)

Anyway I've gotten older and my outlook has changed over the years. I realized
what a mistake it was to let her go way back when.

The relationship has gone well so far (two months). She couldn't get enough of me up until the last couple weeks. She told her friends (who told me) that
I was such a nice guy and that I almost seemed too good to be true. I let her
know how i feel. I tell her I miss her when I haven't seen her for a few days.
Let her know that I would like a very long future with her. I have always been
like that with a woman I really liked very much. It is important to me that
they don't have any questions about where they stand in my head and heart.
(maybe too much at times)

Like I said before, it seems like she has taken a big step back and is almost not
as enthusiastic or put as much effort to get together. (we have conflicting
schedules) She does still call (which have become a little less frequent) and we will talk for quite a while on the phone,
so I know there is something there.

I don't know what to do and am very much afraid of losing her due to me being
too aggressive or for some other Taurus reason. I don't want to blow up (which we Taurus' tend to do when getting mad. Sorry.), but the confusion is killing me. Could someone please give me some
advice to help me not chase the woman that I probably made the biggest mistake
with (probably of my life) 15 years ago.

Stop thinking about what happened in the past! Look at your relationship as how it is now, you're both different now, more mature and should know more about what you want. Don't make this into holding onto someone who you 'let go before'. That turns what you have now into some kind of a game. I find that if someone you are seeing pull back, you should pull back even more and see what happens. Let her come to you again. Only then will you know she truly wants you. Plus, the above advice is good, take things slow. The past is just that, look at how things are now and act accordingly. There is no hurry, fulfill your ego through other means than through your relationships.

Geminifox is right, breathe Bweekzzz you are definitely earth sign, got that panicky analytical thing down. 😄

Misery is also right, when someone pulls back the best thing to do (So Virgo too) is to pull back more. Knowing that when a person comes back to you on their own is the real deal feels much better than wondering if your persistence brought them back. If it's meant to be it will be. You two are definitely different people at this point. So, know that whatever relationship(s) she has had helped to mold (same as you) into who she is today.

The two month mark seems to be something serious in the 2008. I would say put her on blast. Send her an email asking what's the deal (not like that though lol) and make her feel compelled to respond. Give her a week to respond to you. Don't panick and don't piggyback on your communication with more communication. Let it flow. If you don't hear back within 7 days move on. She either has something else going on or she isn't feeling the old magic that she probably was hoping for. If the new you doesn't float her boat, it's good you know now than later.

Best,

MsA

My apologies, it's Mistery not Misery. Keen illusion. 😉

Just ask her if you are pushing too hard.

You may be reading her completely wrong or maybe you are reading her completely right. Just ask her. Virgo's are communicative and analytical and i am sure she has been assessing the potential of this relationship - she will tell you if you are pushing too much or not.

I am also a virgo woman..i recommend you don't hold on on anything just be straight forward with her and tell her the truth. A man needs to know what he wants because remember we are very analitical! This seems like a beautul love story found in movies 🙂 I wish u the best of luck. (my phianse is also a taurus)..PERFECT MATCH!

I would like to know how everything turned out hehe

good luck