Taurus with Leo moon and venus in Pisces how to get back?

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"I woke him up at 6am told him to leave because I panicked."



Ouch.. I'm not a guy.. But if I was and you asked me if we were together and I finally say yes, and then you kick me out at 6am..I'd do the sammmmeee thing. Silence and then a "this isn't going to work" conversation.

You rejected him and then literally threw him out of your life. I mean you can try talking to him.. But don't be surprised if he can't get over that for a while.
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Maybe he knows you need more time? Since you just recently divorced..
I should restate- divorce went through about 6 months ago, seperated a year before that. The worry more comes from my ex being a sag who was a teen trapped in mans body and total asshat, all of which he is aware of. But I have no clue how to act or date someone who actually treats me awesome and is activly present.
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My sun is cancer moon libra venus taurus
I knew you were a cancer!
Haha how? The over-wordyness?
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Hmm not the over-wordyness, I tend to do that as an air sign. More like the panick part.. Extreme emotions...sounded very cancer like

Have you noticed though how cancers are drawn to Taurus people so much.. I mean like they find each other so much?

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Maybe he knows you need more time? Since you just recently divorced..
I should restate- divorce went through about 6 months ago, seperated a year before that. The worry more comes from my ex being a sag who was a teen trapped in mans body and total asshat, all of which he is aware of. But I have no clue how to act or date someone who actually treats me awesome and is activly present.
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lol Girl my ex Taurus turned into a big kid or a man going through a mid life crisis (we are young still) who I needed to pay all the bills for and take care of because he wouldn't lift a finger and hung out with 23 year olds who just wanted to party. So it's a not a sign thing, it's an immature thing. Sorry you went through that.

I get (the separation and divorce thing) now.. I think he just was starting to fall for you and your panick made him lose that secure feeling he had in you. Try talking to him and see how he reacts, but don't expect this long drawn out emotional discussion. You'll see it in his actions if he wants to go any further with you.

Also be sure that YOU are ready for this. After my divorce it took me a while and even when people wanted me to start dating I declined. You are the only one who can say if you're ready though. (So if you are, more power to you.) I promised myself I wouldn't put anyone through the pain I was going through, because it had nothing to do with them. Divorce isn't this easy thing...on anyone.

But hey if you like this guy, you're going to have to initiate the next move...
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Thank you for your input. I did make contact this morning, i texted him told him not to answer the phone so i could leave my voicemail, it was kind of a throw back to the first time i asked him out (taurus can be slow on uptake as we all know). He knows that I have anxiety and get very nervous so words don't always come out right. So he said ok I left my voicemail; apologizing for my actions putting him off, offending, disrespecting (i tried to use words men understand instead of feely ones) told him I never intended to, also threw in that dating is foreign soil to me especailly someone good and dependable, (just like it is with him) then told him that the situation did hurt, that just goodbye wasn't what either of us deserved, I included that even in a relatively short time he became someone I appreciated and valued in my life someone I actually trusted and wanted to reciprocate all of that sre him happy, and successful etc that maybe things did move to fast maybe communications were not clear on expectations etc, but I did not see why we should throw away what could potentially my a great friendship at least, then asked him for that. Asked him to consider it, and if not thanked him for everything and his support the last couple months, wished him the best and happiness and finding a great girl who would respect and appreciate him the way he deserves.

Haven't heard back yet, hoping he is pondering, or maybe he is smart enough to wait to listen to it until after work. Guess we shall see!
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And yes haha when I read the description of taurus, and leo moons I was hooked, I have an ex leo sun, which worried me but Leo moons are great, and Taurus sun, they have this calm pragmatic way that us crazy emotional cancers need so we don't depend and overthink ourselves into a hole. We both work alot, and even when I am stressed and start talking talking, he has this way of just calming me, wrapping me in his arms and it all seems so small and easily handled. I have never ever had that, like the world is actually off my shoulders for once. Damn cancers and our fluid emotions haha paired with a libra moon no wonder I am all over the place 🙂
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Posted by jane84
"I woke him up at 6am told him to leave because I panicked."



Ouch.. I'm not a guy.. But if I was and you asked me if we were together and I finally say yes, and then you kick me out at 6am..I'd do the sammmmeee thing. Silence and then a "this isn't going to work" conversation.

You rejected him and then literally threw him out of your life. I mean you can try talking to him.. But don't be surprised if he can't get over that for a while.


He's a Leo moon and we forgive but he won't forget that. And I think his pride might be wounded so HE WILL SHUT YOU OUT.