Venus in Scorpio n a need to b secretive

Why?

Because they're crazy.

Perhaps there has been too much intimacy or sharing and they are feeling like their privacy is invaded. Whatever the reason is it's none of your business, it's their business. If they want you to know they'll tell you.

It doesn't mean that there is anything wrong or anything going on. I could be as simple as hiding what they ate for lunch that day. You don't need to know everything. It's just that they need, crave, want and demand privacy.

Push for answers and they will be more secretive.

Posted by Lene
I have very bad experience with Venus in Scorpio.Usually they have someone they lust after on the side. The secrecy is fear of failure. It is that simple.

Not one single bit of that is true for me.

Posted by truecap
Perhaps there has been too much intimacy or sharing and they are feeling like their privacy is invaded. Whatever the reason is it's none of your business, it's their business. If they want you to know they'll tell you.

It doesn't mean that there is anything wrong or anything going on. I could be as simple as hiding what they ate for lunch that day. You don't need to know everything. It's just that they need, crave, want and demand privacy.

Push for answers and they will be more secretive.

Wow I think u have explained it very clearly. It happens normally after an intense time together then boom then silence and give it a few days and he will be recharged or something.. I let it be.. Normally I never touched his stuff I respect his need for privacy I know it's a very very big thing for him... He will only tell certain things and not full details.. Where im sure he would be able to read 99.9 percents of what goes in my head which is totally unfair lol.... can't live with can't live without... I just hope u r right about hiding secrets but they r hot harmful secrets.... I think it's also a power thing.. Always needing the upper hand .

It may be a way to prove that he is still his own person. Maybe.

Try not to ask questions. Let him volunteer information to you. When I feel someone is prying, I will bust a gut not to tell them anything and will make a stubborn point to let them know I'm not telling them. Like, if they've asked too many questions lately, I may be texting my mom and if they ask, who ya texting, I'll say 'nobody'. Had they been quiet, I'd probably just keep texting then after I'm done, I'll say mom says hi.

Of course, there could also be something that he doesn't want you to know. He may have big hot secrets and may not trust you with them or may not be ready to tell you what they are.

Either way, he'll let you know when and if he's ready.

normally I just keep myself very quiet . My moon in Aquarius helps a lot. Deep inside I want to know things but I know he doesn't really like that so I keep myeelf very quiet.. yesterday he sent me a photo of himself with this really wired crazy face. It made me laugh yet he says he hates that photo so much n that he's getting old. Pleass don't ask me why he chooses to share that information.... lol sometimes I ask him how his night was he won't asnwee n it ended up he didn't go out so I don't push for any more answers.. I just leave it and suffer in silence by myself for a couple of days with this wired negative thoughts then I'm over it and we all fine lol.. It's not very easy with them... But u have explained it well... I don't ask more than what I need to know. I think if they can steer the ship it won't crash... 🙂 in person it's perfectly fine... I feel like I trust him fully.. In distance is another story lol...

My venus in vem n moon in Aquarius * I can share a lot of information more than needed and maybe that's why we r very very difference that way. Opposite attracts I guess..! It keeps me guessing n keeps annoying him hahaha...nah he's cool... _—

Posted by saweetz1988
normally I just keep myself very quiet . My moon in Aquarius helps a lot. Deep inside I want to know things but I know he doesn't really like that so I keep myeelf very quiet.. yesterday he sent me a photo of himself with this really wired crazy face. It made me laugh yet he says he hates that photo so much n that he's getting old. Pleass don't ask me why he chooses to share that information.... lol sometimes I ask him how his night was he won't asnwee n it ended up he didn't go out so I don't push for any more answers.. I just leave it and suffer in silence by myself for a couple of days with this wired negative thoughts then I'm over it and we all fine lol.. It's not very easy with them... But u have explained it well... I don't ask more than what I need to know. I think if they can steer the ship it won't crash... 🙂 in person it's perfectly fine... I feel like I trust him fully.. In distance is another story lol...

I have the feeling you're a very insecure person in this relationship, based on all your threads previously.

Figure out exactly why you're insecure and what triggers those things and address it with him. Just do it calmly and maturely. He's a big boy, he can handle it.

Because we don't like spilling our guts.

I have my venus and sun in scorpio, so the reason i am secretive is because of my sensitivety.... we dont want people to know us, because we dont like to be judged .

I can be intense, so I tone it down and cool it off so as not to overwhelm them.

Don't think that what OPs guys is doing, though.

This is interesting. A Venus in Scorpio demanding privacy? All the ones I've met are extremely invasive.