@saweetz1988
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Any taurus sun dating/ seeing a venus in Scorpio?
My Taurus has calmed me down to nothing. I find that when I'd talk to him often, I couldn't handle it. Now we barely communicate and I'm better than I use to be. The more contact, the more anxiety for me, so I'm not sure if that's the kind of calm the Taurus would want. He has a Gemini venus though.
He said his ex was always suspicious of him, and she had a scorpio venus too. I don't know, but I feel nothing calm.
my taurus hasn't calmed me down (well, maybe a little bit) i still am impatient though but i guess i am just better at hiding it though.
but things i still contend with
nervousness - check
intense overwhelming feelings - check
obsessional thoughts - check
a pure loss of my senses and reason - check
a sleeping jealousy that i never knew i had but that he has somehow managed to stir - check
Posted by beautifuldiaster
Sag with Venus in scorp is truly the best, @busy!!! 😛 WE will always disagree on that however. One day I hope you see it my way, perhaps there is a huge misunderstanding?I find Taurus or earth ruled indivuals do create stability and trust which helps my ViS feel secure.
Very peaceful.
Very stable.
A lot of trust.
A lot of sensuality.Hope ya find some good replies on this one, I can only speak from the Venus in scorp side.
Nice ! I like it.. Yes I believe I create those things when im around here or when distant... I'm just trying my best to put my venus in gemini aside and master my taurus sun and Aqua moon... It helps with both his venus in Scorpio energy and his cap moon... offer him consistency, stability sensuality and lots and lots of support.... the only thing that hasn't changed much but slowly is his need of having a mystery... I lesrnt that through time to not bug n just let him be.. It works much better with us.. his need of space and silence im getting used to... I find though the stability and calmness n peace is very rare for him and I think it keeps him coming back many times..... thank you... What is the best taurus trait you love to most?....
Posted by lnana04
My Taurus has calmed me down to nothing. I find that when I'd talk to him often, I couldn't handle it. Now we barely communicate and I'm better than I use to be. The more contact, the more anxiety for me, so I'm not sure if that's the kind of calm the Taurus would want. He has a Gemini venus though.He said his ex was always suspicious of him, and she had a scorpio venus too. I don't know, but I feel nothing calm.
It's that venus in Gemini that's messing things up. I know too well! It takes s lot of work from my part to master it. When ur with him physically though... Does he offer u calmness and sensuality and stability? I find my venus calms down a lot with him... He brings out a lot of my taurus sun side which is very tricky to find someone that can do that.. I understand your point of view completely.. Trust needs to be built over time and the venus in gemini sometimes does nothing but ruin it.... However the venus in Scorpio can be a little intense and thin things through very deeply and forget to express those feelings so we r aware of what is going on... Communication is key! I wish u luck
Posted by jeane
my taurus hasn't calmed me down (well, maybe a little bit) i still am impatient though but i guess i am just better at hiding it though.but things i still contend with
nervousness - check
intense overwhelming feelings - check
obsessional thoughts - check
a pure loss of my senses and reason - check
a sleeping jealousy that i never knew i had but that he has somehow managed to stir - check
Nthat is very interesting ... What is his placements? What are the main reasons why he has cause u to feel such feelings— When u do feel them, how do you react? Do you retreat to silence? I know you wouldn't tell that person.... how do one know you are feeling secure and loved?... do you feel this way with other sun signs?
Posted by saweetz1988Nthat is very interesting ... What is his placements? What are the main reasons why he has cause u to feel such feelings— When u do feel them, how do you react? Do you retreat to silence? I know you wouldn't tell that person.... how do one know you are feeling secure and loved?... do you feel this way with other sun signs?
taurus sun, sag moon, taurus venus, cancer mars, gemini merc. i don't know why he causes me to feel this way. no one else has managed to create such an intense reaction over such a long period of time. i normally flit and float away as soon as the cracks begin to show.
do i retreat to silence? no, i would have to become a mute! i feel it all the time and more so when i in his presence. i just deal with it. and i tell him. in obvious and less obvious ways.
how do i feel loved and secure? oooh, that's a tough question. i swing back and forth. constantly. there is often the sense that i love more. it's not true but my intensity is so great and i am never satisfied i have enough of him, his calm (and stoicism) doesn't immediately reflect his feelings. but i remind myself of the other ways he shows it (and the little things he says) and i am ok.
i don't feel this way with anyone else.
Well if VIS is opposite of VIT in this placement just alone. I could see it helping Taurus get out of a rut, and VIG for fun time, but I am still deciding if VIG is a deal breaker for me. Because I am upfront, an open book and honest will just tell you everything, the VIG will always have me in doubts because I believe they aren't as loyal or single as they claim. Trust me on this one. I have been in this situation recently..
Because I am VIT and I can't change that. I am a Taurus with Aquarius moon and VIT.. I am still stable and consistent always compared to the air signs. So that right there I will have to let my guard down, alot becausee the are free flowing types even if there sun sign is Gemini. Which G/T dont really go well together..
Posted by busyeyes88
@Jeane. Out of curiosity, what sun sign are you?
i'm a libra sun with a sag moon.
and yes busyeyes you're on the money! he is a regular chatty cathy but when it comes to matters of the heart, he is slow to reveal himself verbally. i don't mind, i'm getting it now and i love it!! 🙂
Posted by busyeyes88
@Jeane. Awww that's great! Your placements are good together though. You share the same moon and although your venus are opposite (I am assuming you are a VIS so correct me if I am wrong?!) at least your venues are in earth and water which are two elements which naturally work unlike a VIG and a VIP!! _—
thank you for the nice words. yep, scorp venus. as far as the sun signs go, we are both ruled by venus! (silver lining and all that...lol)
don't worry too much about vig and vip, maybe your other placements will have their presence felt.
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Are you getting used to calming down the intensity of the venus in Scorpio with your calm and peaceful attitudes towards relationships? How do you feel about them and what are your thoughts on this paring. I read somewhere a venus in Scorpio needs a taurus sun to show them a peaceful loving side of a relationship. We are grounded and they need that stability to feel trust and feel secure.... thoughts?