Virgo & Leo relationships

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Run262
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18 Years

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Well, my mom is a Leo and Step-dad is a Virgo - they've been married for some 20+ years. It's not a match made in heaven, they definitely have their ups and downs. He drives her nuts with his constant analyzing/over analyzing everything, she sees it at times as bitching - I'm sure she drives him nuts as well, but in the end they somehow balance eachother out. The older the couple the better the chance I always say.
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Yeah Im kinda struggling with my situation, not because I dont think it can work but there is another huge factor involved and that his wife died around 2&1/2 years ago and he's finding it hard to let go and Ive decided to just sit back and let him make his way through it in his way and at his pace. I understand his pain but having said that, I need to look after my own emotions by not getting too involved at this point.

Otherwise when we are together its amazing, we talk like we've known eachother forever, there are no long silences and laughing? he's so much fun. He's somewhat romantic and OMG genuine. I think Leo is good for Virgo as we're spontaneous and love life whereas Virgo seems to be more introverted (yet very sociable) and take their time with well EVERYTHING (much like Libra) and analyse stuff to the max whereas we just go with the flow...I think we do balance eachother out and I would say give it a go....what have you got to lose?

Im keen on seeing where mine goes, we get along so very well but as I mentioned, there's another factor, plus the one I have and thats being jaded from being screwed around by exes....Im working on that though (I dont let him know coz he has enough on his mind). The only thing to watch out for, and Im not sure if it is truly a Virgo trait, but when they have things on their mind, its best to just get on with what you need to do without getting upset. I know mine comes back and normally as if nothing happened and/or no time has passed.

We've not had a fight, we certainly dont agree on everything but we dont need to....he's very laid back which I love. I think we compliment eachother very well and although people say Leos arent anywhere near as intelligent as a Virgo or Libra, I think I hold my own very well and he's normally engaged in our conversation, he doesnt prefer the tv to talking to me so yeah give it a go 🙂

I have quite a few Virgo female friends and we really do get one another. Keep us posted 🙂

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16 Years

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I am a Cap, who met a virgo some time ago. i know we are compatible, but I dont rely on astrology. I admit it helps, I dont know that i can deal with a fire sign, me being earth. it all depends on the individual, all i can say the virgo can be confusing. but maybe to the virgo so am i. patience is the key when dealing with virgos, and leos dont hold back, and can be possessive at times, might scare a virgo. GO SLOW.
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veeeeerry slow LOL.

cold snapple...easy catches? It took mine the last year to pluck up the courage to ask me out....then when he did I said "no, I dont do the work thing" and I truly meant it, it gets too hard nor was I attracted. Then he spent the next few months getting to know me more and the guys he works with kept encouraging as he'd spoken to them about me yada yada (I know this because they told me). It took us quite some time to get to the going out and doing stuff together, i.e. dinners/lunches/hanging out at his or mine (no sex) and then one night we did cross that line (just before Xmas)...I really dont think at any point he has had it easy catching me.

Now that he has though? he doesnt know what to do with me but having read more about Virgos I now know that they have mood swings that can last quite some time (has nothing to do with the person they're seeing, etc).

I really doubt Ive been an easy catch, in fact Ive kept away from men since those awful Libra days...I took a year out for myself and know what I want...*shrugs*
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Virgo and Leo can work. Sometimes I do get my feelings hurt with his nit picking but I know he's only looking out for me. I have known my virgo since I was thirteen; he was twelve. We were both very shy when we were younger and did not actually date until I was seventeen; he sixteen. That summer was nice. Eventually I walked away though because he was into drugs and I just wasn't having it. After him I dated a libra and fell madly in love. That roller coaster lasted for about a year. He would call me though and keep in touch but I just wasn't having it because I was with the libra. Coincidentally after things ended really badly with the libra, he showed up at my house one day and wanted to go to the beach to talk. I thought it was out of the blue but agreed to go with him. There he asked me to be his girlfriend again and I laughed and immediately said no. I laughed because I thought it was so...out of the blue, like I said before. And because I was HURTING with what I had experienced with the libra yet again. Well after that he disappeared for a few weeks then showed up at my house again. He was drunk and very depressed. I knew he always cared about me but like I said I've been burned so many times. He ran out of gas driving to my house! Haha. From that time I was getting to know this cancer and dating him but I think that didn't work out because it was too soon. But yes, the cancer broke up with me and then I stayed single for like six months minding my own business. I was sick of being hurt like that. I contacted the virgo, June 2008 and we started talking and getting closer again. We've talked about the past and everything in between. I see a future with him and he does with me. When I was fourteen in one of my journals I wrote that he was my soul mate which I really do believe. There have been times where things have happened that showed me that. He moved away to Guam for two years. . . and one summer night I was with my friend and I decided to call his old cell phone to see if it still worked. Well that night that I called was the night he happened to be coming home from there. Just the little things. . . He means a lot to me and I'm glad we have gotten back together. Even though I've been "tested" by many men and they question why I'm with him I feel like I am in the right place. He truly has my heart and he makes me happy and I don't need to justify anything to anyone.