Are there any successful Leo/Virgo combinations?

Hi there,

After a year of being with a wishy washy using libra Ive taken a year out and done a bit of dating and suddenly find myself seeing a Virgo that Ive known for 5 years (through work)....didnt really take much notice but now? cant get him off my mind.

Im a Leo female and have always wondered if the combination would work...he's got it all together, doesnt seem to have much baggage and apparantly he's had this secret crush on me for the past year or so.....we get along well but Ive only seen him outside of work 2 times and he hasnt made a move although I know he's keen LOL.....

Has any Virgos had a successful story on Leo and Virgo? If not? what were the problems....if so? well again, Id love to know what made it work, what to watch out for.

I was very jaded after the Libra so its nice to find a man who is balanced and KNOWS what he wants and has his life together 🙂

Hi Chatz! OK, I am a virgo (female) and my husband is a Leo, so this is coming from my perspective. We have been married 11 years. First of all, all relationships can be good and bad at times. Having a good understanding of the others motivations and intentions can make a huge difference. What attracted me to my Leo husband was that he is your typical Leo, outspoken, strong, funny, and thoughtful. These are important qualities to me in a man. I as a Virgo need a strong man that I can respect. On the down side, sometimes he is too strong "willed" and too "outspoken." One of my challenges throughout the first part of our marriage was trying to exercise my will which he tried to control. So, I think it is important for a leo not to make the virgo feel controlled or dominated, even if the leo is well-intended. If you try to dominate, your virgo will react adversely. Now that I have "found my way" (so to speak) in our marriage, I wouldn't trade my Leo for any other sign! It's important that both people in any relationship learn each others motivations and understand their "perception of reality" otherwise they will cause unnecessary grief for each other. Understanding is the key. Try to visualize "their reality." Understand "their world." And love them for who they are!

Chatz,

My Leo Mom and Virgo Dad were a very happy couple. Their courtship was rocky, but their marriage was almost ideal. I think Virgo responds to Leo optimism, and Leo likes having a man she can depend on...

As for your VirGuy: he's had this secret crush on me for the past year or so...

Yeah, we're not obvious in our affections. But once things are settled, and he knows that you're as interested in him as he is in you, there won't be any doubt in your mind as to where he stands...

thank you, I will see where this takes us....he's stable and sincere and wow what a difference after the Libra 🙂

Chatz,

I was involved with a Leo gal for a short period. Our chemistry was very black and white. We we're either perfectly in sync or completely out of sorts. In the end we made much better friends than anything else. She's one of the few gals that I remained friends with after we parted and I value that greatly.

Interesting....well our friendship seems to be a good one so thats always awesome.

Guess time will tell - there are no expectations so there wont be any disappointments 🙂

Thanks for your comments....will kepe you posted if anything happens.

OK Update!! Nothing much has happened although we keep communications open and we've been out a few times with more to come but he's so slow...is this normal for Virgos? I mean this guy is ultra slow!!! He asks me almost daily:..."got any plans tonight" or "any plans for the weekend" and I'll be honest and if I have plans I have plans but if I say "No, nothing tonight" he doesnt take it any further.....Im a Leo so if I were interested in somebody, which he clearly is, I'd at least follow through....sheesh!!!!

Or am I meant to take the lead? after the last guy (Libra) I really dont want to....I did all the work and my self esteem took a huge blow with his ways so Im very cautious.....is there something Im missing? should I be doing more? The last time we went out it was my idea.....

Yes ok Im getting a little impatient here but Ive known the guy for 5 years and even though we've gotten closer over the last month or so, Im starting to wonder if he's only after a "companion" when he's lonely. He hasnt tried any moves although he talks about it....he keeps flirting and all that but he hasnt tried anything.....WTF?

Or is he trying to be a gentleman? He knows the last guy was an ass.....*shrugs*

How old is he?

Perhaps rather than worrying about taking charge, there's still a way to "lead a horse to water".

The next time he asks if you have plans, rather than just saying no, throw the ball in his court...

Dumb Virgo Guy: Got any plans tonight or for the weekend?
Chatz: No plans really but... what did you have in mind? *Silly inviting woman smile to the guy*

At that point its sink or swim for the dude! HOPEFULLY the response won't be something similar to this...

Dumb Virgo Guy: Ummm well....*starts staring at the ground*. You see...umm..well... *Quickly evacs out of the situation*

lol thank you all.....so basically its me doing the asking....Gawd I am a Leo, I guess I can do that...sheesh.

Update to follow 😛

Id Say "Not Many" Not a particularly good combination.

love the butter pit maybe? No I said that on the Libra board and there were some very questionable posts on there. What does it matter? Do you enjoy yourself chasing others around the boards about posts on other sections of this site? What I wrote on the Libra board does not apply to all the subjects on there and I am perplexed as to why you would question my presence—??

Please explain—

now u crack me up....why ask that stupid question? Whats it to you if Im on the board/s or not? Im here for genuine advice and up until recent weeks I also enjoyed coming back from time to time to the Libra board (my presence there was not so often). I see though, that you have not contributed to any advice and thats fine too because the other lovely people here have.

I dont understand your question in the first place?

For the others who have helped I do have a date with Mr Virgo this evening and although he asked one of his "so what you up to this weekend" I did as you all suggested, thank you 🙂

You are a joke!!!! you're the foul one as you are only here to SH!T STIR so go run along and find a new obsession. Must be fun to be so high and mighty...go back to pleasure palace and land of smooches...Im sure in your head its a great place.

Bah

ummmm excuse me but where has your advice or genuine comments been? what have you contributed to this thread apart from insults? what have you given the rest of the readers here except for more reasons to withdraw from giving others any suggestions and/or ideas? I have read and re-read your posts again yet I find NOTHING constructive whatsoever.

Ridiculous

Im not paranoid, I also dont insult other people online for no reason. You have nothing better to do - enjoy

ummmm in this post (I was looking for SOMETHING constructive from you) - are you really THAT thick??

told on myself? is this high school? I have better things to do than to look for any posts on any other threads that you may go to....to be honest, I came to this particular board within DXP, and opened up a NEW thread looking for suggestions/advice yet all I get from you is harassment....you must be proud. Why did you bother coming to this thread at all? you've given not one single reader ANYTHING worth reading

Grow up and find something better to do - how old are you? 12?

LOL@being ticked off.....not me sunshine but Im sure the rest of the community dont appreciate blatant harassment and that is EXACTLY what you are doing. I cant understand why you'd need a "challenge" on here anyway....most people come here to help others perhaps, make friends and seek/give advice where they can. You on the other hand have just been taunting me. Its not working and I dont understand for the life of me why you'd have that inclination towards a person you have never met nor will ever meet. I hope you have received your joy out of it and can move on now because I'd like to

thought you were going?? you said that before....I recall it was ummm "bye" maybe?

LMAO....you keep coming back...why?? you make me laugh....thought you had your "last words"? blah!!! "Oh puhleeze! U don't fool me for a hot second... if u weren't bothered in the least, you wouldn't have replied..
Those were my last words.." and then you say you tried to end this twice?? You came back to see my responses, you're still behaving like an immature little schoolgirl (which i do believe you might be seeing you like to "play" people). What does it matter what I responded if you didnt care? if you wanted to end it? You're pathetic and Im ending this now because you're not playing with me, you're annoying every other reader on this thread with your self-centredness....you're making this thread about you, you've taken it over with insults, immaturity and you're a distasteful person who obviously has nothing better to do with their time at the expense of others. You think you're clever but just FYI? you're not....you're pathetic. Good luck with your online games, you must be proud of yourself and get off on this sort of thing....personally, Im over these games, got my life to live and enjoy this amazing weather here...not hiding behind the internet nitpicking and chasing other posters around the boards....how ridiculous....get a life, IM about to live mine - bye sunshine....I pity you

For those of you who have given constructive advice? thank you and yes my date last night was amazing....and another date arranged for next week. Im very happy and cant get those yummy blue eyes out of my head. Its all looking very good and Im now confident he's not anything like the last mistake I made...we really do have a lot in common and although Ive known him for 5 years, I didnt REALLY know him but look forward to finding out more about him. Thanks again 🙂

I can only apologise for the rudest person on this site for making this about her...im sure she gets pleasure out of it but i dont like weak people who do these things...she reminds me of the kind of kid at school who would find another kid to pick on and make their life a living hell just coz they can....its called bullying and its the lowest form of scum there can be.

End of rant 🙂

coz its my fucking thread you loser!!!! I created it.......you're a moron

as I thought before....the mind of a 12y.o. and Im being generous there. Didnt you say ummmmmm let me see, oh that's right, SEVERAL TIMES that you were going? WTF do you still come back— YOU MUST FUCKING BE BORED!!!!!!!

She said she read it. Not that she cared. Same here.

Athena

OH the fun continues...VL Im over it, I cant be bothered and I do not wish to continue even acknowledging you.

Thank you prrigLeo that was helpful....Im finding him incredibly slow but he is genuine and I;ll just see where it takes us. No hurry and as we have other dates planned ahead, he's keen too....just slow LOL. I think he'll step up to the plate soon enough as our conversations were somewhat leaning towards being more than 'just friends' on numerous ocassions and he's say something like "I couldnt be that lucky"...argghhhh he is so nervous about making the first move.

We shall see but we're having fun, thats the main thing...him not leaving til 4.00am though speaks volumes...we talked and laughed for hours, just wish he didnt leave LOL.

ok update:....got the man - i had to make the first move but wow, it was worth all the effort...he's wonderful, so patient and wow!!!! I see him every 2nd or 3rd day....we catch up every day and its just so easy....Im totally in love with him....it feels good.

He's very unsure of himself but Im a pretty confident Leo who will help him there 🙂

Wow!!

Good for you Chatz.

Score another point for the V-guys though I'm quite sure he'll do something weird that will bring you back here lol.

No doubt LOL.....its human nature to do weird things....I will no doubt annoy the hell out of him from time to time but for now its the "honeymoon phase" and Im going to enjoy it after the last few years of misery from disasterous relationships....this one, so far, is easier than any Ive been in.

I am a Leo girl seeing a Virgo man and our relationship is up and down. When we met he would call and come by and then disappear for weeks at a time. Lately he has been calling and we talk on the phone for hours. He would spend some weekends with me and I would cook for him. He is devoted to the job. He work hours and hours at a time. He was recently separated from his wife on the verge of getting a divorce when we met. He once told me that "I was the only one he could depend on". I too was recently divorced at the time. He told me he was leaving because 'he made a mistake by marrying her'. He really did not get into details, this was all of last year. We continued to spend time together and not just sex only, quality time. Then, all of a sudden he told me bad things were happening to him because in God's eye he was not doing what a man or husband was suppose to do. He felt like bad things were happening to him because he was about to leave his wife. I thought maybe he had found someone else to spend time with, I asked him and he assured me that it was not true. He said he had to straighten his ways and do what was right. Just this past new years he told me that he was going back to her and had talked it over with his pastor and that he was going to work on his marriage. I told him I could respect that. Today, we hardly ever talk, the sex stopped completely. He calls from time to time to see how I am doing, but very short conversations and general questions. I feel as though I am talking to a stranger, he has changed. I thought maybe it was something I did or said. But I think he must have realized he really loved his wife. I also believe maybe the time spent apart from her made him realize how much he must have missed her. I do admit though, I fell in love with him, still is but there is nothing I can do at this point is to just leave him be.