whats your sign and..?

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The reason i ask this is because i feel everyone and all rel can get along. Its our ego that hurts rel. Practicing spiritual growth helps tame negative flaws while increasing the positive ones. For example why nag, be mean, be frusted, upset angry lazy etc stubborn. These r things part of our ego that can be tweaked to make you a better person. Also some ppl say i would never date xyz sign...why? I think all rel work its just you. Work on you.
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Posted by blackphase
Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Asc, Cancer Mars, Cancer Venus. I felt I should include the other placements as my answer likely won't seem fitting for a Gemini Sun.

I am a highly insecure person which causes me to be.. jealous, overbearing, extremely sensitive, lack of trust in others, controlling, and I often make assumptions if someone isn't able to be open and communicate with me properly.
Ok what can one give you to be secure and stable? I ask yhis because we all have flaws and one should help someone through it and love them. Not everyone stays for the storm etc
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Aries/Taurus:


I'm hard-headed/stubborn at times. I am very short tempered. I'm not big on affection (PDA, holding hands, and all that other mushy shit).


That's basically it. Although I will say that over the years these flaws of mine have improved greatly. I'm still a work in progress though.
What do u need to be comfortable in love. Someone love and accepr ur flaws and all.
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Posted by blackphase
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Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Asc, Cancer Mars, Cancer Venus. I felt I should include the other placements as my answer likely won't seem fitting for a Gemini Sun.

I am a highly insecure person which causes me to be.. jealous, overbearing, extremely sensitive, lack of trust in others, controlling, and I often make assumptions if someone isn't able to be open and communicate with me properly.
Ok what can one give you to be secure and stable? I ask yhis because we all have flaws and one should help someone through it and love them. Not everyone stays for the storm etc
Really all I need is someone who is able to openly communicate with me. Someone who isn't afraid to voice their feelings and share their emotions, whether they be good or bad. I like to confront issues when they arise, not sweep them under the rug to dwell on them in silence. If someone can be open with me, I don't make assumptions and I am able to trust them much quicker.. I am not jealous becasue they are able to tell me how they feel without reserve. Having an open person solves all of my insecure issues.. as they aren't really issues when I am able to trust and talk to someone.
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I totally agree. And i bet someone may assume your being jealoud etc when really if u just talk to me im more able to relax rather than to think or assume something. Communciating is key. I agree
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Leo sun, sag moon & asc, venus in virgo
Can be stubborn sometimes. I am getting better! I don't like feeling obligated by any other person to do anything lol even if I really like you. I want to do what I want to do when I want to do it. But I do love to help, if that makes any lick of sense. I like my personal freedom so much so some may think I'm selfish. Short tempered, but at the same time I can be MAD as hell about something and literally blink and be like... really who cares. Maybe it's the Sag in me. Can shut down very easily, or blow up in your face just as easily (not so much anymore now that I have children because I don't want them to see that), I have expectations but I try not to hold people to them because I don't like people putting expectations on me. I escape when things are weird, stressful, etc.
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Aries/Taurus:


I'm hard-headed/stubborn at times. I am very short tempered. I'm not big on affection (PDA, holding hands, and all that other mushy shit).


That's basically it. Although I will say that over the years these flaws of mine have improved greatly. I'm still a work in progress though.
What do u need to be comfortable in love. Someone love and accepr ur flaws and all.
No. I'm not one of those "you better take me as I am with all of my flaws" types of people because to me, that's a selfish and self absorbed mind state to have. If your personality or behavior is toxic to your relationship, YOU need to change that. Your partner shouldn't have to sit back and deal with you if you're a liar or way too short tempered or whatever the flaw is that's affecting your union. However, there's a difference between flaws and inconveniences. I'd say that the last thing that I named (not being big on touchy/feely affection) is not a flaw, but more of an inconvenience. I DO show affection. I just don't show it by calling my partner corny little pet names, holding hands, or anything that's just too...."mushy". I show my love by the things that I do for my partner. For example, if I'm out somewhere and I see something that my partner would enjoy I get it for him. I give my partner back rubs without him even needing to ask. I ask my partner what his favorite meal is and I make it for him exactly how he likes it. My actions are how I express my love.

In order for me to be comfortable in love I would need a partner who could prove to me with his ACTIONS, not his words, that he was indeed 100% faithful and committed to myself and our relationship.
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Right on. True...i agree eith working on major factors within urself to make thebrel better. No one should deal with nad behavior if u love them thats something u would wont to change within urself. I know alot of ppl who lose rel due to temper etc bad behaviors
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Leo ... that Mars in Scorpio is fcking up everything *sigh
Why wats wrong?
I easily get bored, I intimidate and have unreasonable high expectations ..oh and a sex deviant apparently 😉
I'm mostly kidding. But im just very guarded I don't open up enough..I want too it just takes me a lot to do so.
Sex is so much easier than feelings, feelings are scary.
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Understable, how can one get to know u if u dont 100 open up. Or u do it just takes time? Do u show it in actions