Why did he do that

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geminiwoman
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He's a Leo and I'm a Gemini

So I ran into my ex and his new girlfriend at a local bar he brushes my hand says hey and I said excuse me I'm trying to get to the ATM machine... he rushes his gf to the back of the bar they sit I get my money and drinks and proceed to have a good time with my best friend. To give just a lil back story he cheated and left me for the woman he is with now she always acts like she wants to be my friend and she talks about me all the time but I don't give a f@& $ about her at all... anyway I'm having a good time enjoying myself because it was my bday after a hour or so I was standing up talking to a friend of mine I felt a tap which means someone was trying to get pass me which it was him I turned and looked and I said why didn't you get your child today he turns to face me and he leans in and caresses his hand around my lower back pulls me in and says because I didn't call him I say why do I have to call u for your child there was a 10 second pause while he's still holding me and says he would get her the next day while in this embrace his gf is standing directly behind us I touch his shoulder and say that's fine cause I'm going out of town do you mind keeping her till I get back he agreed he then proceeds to talk to by bestie because that's her uncle while his gf walks past me and then turns around to say hi Tracy how are you? I said I'm good how are you? She says fine as they both walk away my bestie turns to me with the big eyes I say what's wrong she said to him why haven't you told my friend happy birthday he says to her I loooove her, she said what he said again I loooove her right in front of his gf... what does all that mean?I'm so confused because this is from a man who said he was happy with the new chick so I just basically ignore him on a regular basis or gray rock him when it comes to dealing with our child....
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Posted by tiki33
It means your baby daddy ain't shit. He's playing head games with you both.
He's playing head games with her because I'm finally in a position where Idgaf... he just caught me off guard and I thought it was very disrespectful to her... we interact only for our child and really it's not much interaction... seriously!!! So like I said it just caught me off guard but oh no there is no coming back and I mean that shit
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Posted by Astrology101
This is just one incidence ... I'd not analyze it too much.

Do you have a kid with him?

In which case all that touching could be out of habit.

If you found it inappropriate.. tell him not to touch you. Or push him off if he tries to do so.
I thought it was very disrespectful but I was just caught off guard... trust it won't happen again I'll be ready next time
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Posted by Sagiluv27
Baby daddy cheated he's going home with this other chick he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too.

Don't fall for his bs!!!
I'm not it just caught me off guard I got that tingly sensation for a minute then I was like he ain't shit and kept on about my biz but it was that he surprised me because we haven't had any kind of interaction at all unless it's about our child and that interaction is very limited
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Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by tiki33
It means your baby daddy ain't shit. He's playing head games with you both.
He's playing head games with her because I'm finally in a position where Idgaf... he just caught me off guard and I thought it was very disrespectful to her... we interact only for our child and really it's not much interaction... seriously!!! So like I said it just caught me off guard but oh no there is no coming back and I mean that shit
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He is playing with you! He is living with her!
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geminiwoman
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Posted by Astrology101
This is just one incidence ... I'd not analyze it too much.

Do you have a kid with him?

In which case all that touching could be out of habit.

If you found it inappropriate.. tell him not to touch you. Or push him off if he tries to do so.
I thought it was very disrespectful but I was just caught off guard... trust it won't happen again I'll be ready next time
Why is it disrespectful?

The fact you called him for your birthday tells me you are in speaking terms...

Hence him acting or showing he cares for you.

If you think a hug on a birthday is too much... don't keep ties with him.
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I never said I called him re-read the post... we keep ties because we have a child together but the convo is limited
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Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by tiki33
It means your baby daddy ain't shit. He's playing head games with you both.
He's playing head games with her because I'm finally in a position where Idgaf... he just caught me off guard and I thought it was very disrespectful to her... we interact only for our child and really it's not much interaction... seriously!!! So like I said it just caught me off guard but oh no there is no coming back and I mean that shit
He is playing with you! He is living with her!
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Ok!
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In my experience with Leo's they are usually not very direct with what they want. And going against the grain and out on a limb Leo's are still kids at heart always! So I don't think he was kidding about loving you still I'm sure seeing you and his daughter often would resurface old feelings towards you. I bet it is too coincidental that the night you decide to go out and your going to be looking super fly that he doesn't get your kid. They're so indirect that he was hoping you would stay at home with her and he wouldn't have to worry about some guy hitting on you. Is the bar a spot you frequent that he would know about? And I bet he left you for the girl because based off of her trying to be your friend she is not independent and she's a bird brain probably! Your confidence and the fact that you can do things for yourself made him want to leave and it makes him want to come back to you at the same time.

Since Leo's are drawn to independence and resent it all at the same time I bet he is in love with you still, maybe even a little proud!

But don't let it fool you if he's cheated before he will do it again most likely because they are stuck in a kid State of mind so he would expect you to understand why he cheated and there is no rationalizing that. I hope this gives you some clarification. I'm not an expert on Leo's but I have a ton in my family!
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Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
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Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
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You don't know how to adjust dosage.

Overdoze happening you know.
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geminiwoman
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
You don't know how to adjust dosage.

Overdoze happening you know.

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I already told you I don't do drugs but I know you do cause you want to keep projecting that shit on me.. smh
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Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
You don't know how to adjust dosage.

Overdoze happening you know.


I already told you I don't do drugs but I know you do cause you want to keep projecting that shit on me.. smh
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No one says 'I do drugs' - so it's ok.

You don't lie professionally. Your stupid is showing.
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geminiwoman
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
You don't know how to adjust dosage.

Overdoze happening you know.


I already told you I don't do drugs but I know you do cause you want to keep projecting that shit on me.. smh
No one says 'I do drugs' - so it's ok.

You don't lie professionally. Your stupid is showing.
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Your need for whatever you're on is showing
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Gemitati
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Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
You don't know how to adjust dosage.

Overdoze happening you know.


I already told you I don't do drugs but I know you do cause you want to keep projecting that shit on me.. smh
No one says 'I do drugs' - so it's ok.

You don't lie professionally. Your stupid is showing.
Your need for whatever you're on is showing
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@-Flo-

You were right! Blocking the stupid.
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geminiwoman
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Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by geminiwoman
Posted by Gemitati
Are you going to post it in every forum?

Fk copy-paste! ?
Like I said if u don't want to read it move on to the ne t post and while you're at go get some dick cause you coming off like it's been awhile
I just told you - stick your advise not to post up your ass!!!

You had to think before you posted.

Too late!
Alllll when I figure out why you're BIG MAD I'm going to have a field day with you... it's ok boo your man will come back to you soon I gotta dick on loan if u want!?
You don't know how to adjust dosage.

Overdoze happening you know.


I already told you I don't do drugs but I know you do cause you want to keep projecting that shit on me.. smh
No one says 'I do drugs' - so it's ok.

You don't lie professionally. Your stupid is showing.
Your need for whatever you're on is showing
@-Flo-

You were right! Blocking the stupid.

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?
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geminiwoman
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Posted by CrabNextDoor
In my experience with Leo's they are usually not very direct with what they want. And going against the grain and out on a limb Leo's are still kids at heart always! So I don't think he was kidding about loving you still I'm sure seeing you and his daughter often would resurface old feelings towards you. I bet it is too coincidental that the night you decide to go out and your going to be looking super fly that he doesn't get your kid. They're so indirect that he was hoping you would stay at home with her and he wouldn't have to worry about some guy hitting on you. Is the bar a spot you frequent that he would know about? And I bet he left you for the girl because based off of her trying to be your friend she is not independent and she's a bird brain probably! Your confidence and the fact that you can do things for yourself made him want to leave and it makes him want to come back to you at the same time.

Since Leo's are drawn to independence and resent it all at the same time I bet he is in love with you still, maybe even a little proud!

But don't let it fool you if he's cheated before he will do it again most likely because they are stuck in a kid State of mind so he would expect you to understand why he cheated and there is no rationalizing that. I hope this gives you some clarification. I'm not an expert on Leo's but I have a ton in my family!


Thank you but he ain't shit and I'm over it now it just threw me for a loop for a minute now I'm back to being the ice queen and he can't come back anyway