all is great but still something's wrong....

Have you ever feel like this with someone-who you really care,love...? When even just 0.1% you feel that there are something wrong,do you trust yourself?
I do...and that feeling is killing me....have you ever want to be with someone so much and in the same time,you just wish you never ever met them before?
I have both feeling in my mind right now...I mean I love someone too much to stop to seeing them,but deep inside my mind,I really wish I can get rid of their image out of my mind....
Awwww...this life is so weird..complicated...

You lost the poker game before you even walked through the door.

You're a failure because you glean yourself to be defeated .... you should probably check that if you expect to be taken seriously.

This is tricky one.

Why? Because sometimes that 'bad feeling' is really insecurity in disguise. Sometimes that person can be doing everything right, but b/c YOU don't trust yourself, or have issues from the past that keep creeping up, you might foolishly convince yourself that something must be off about them, when the truth is that something is really off about YOU.

So many folks have trouble distinguishing the difference b/w insecurity vs. a real instinct/warning bell that's there for the purpose of advising you to run far away. Knowing how to distinguish b/w the 2 is so important.

Many people have def. messed up by ignoring their intuition/instincts, and paying the price for it later. However, so many people have also messed up by confusing the voice of intuition with the voice of 'insecurity' and ended up losing out on a great person b/c of the mix up/confusion.

Also, if 90% of everything feels right, is that 10% that's left bothering you b/c your gut is telling you to run OR b/c you secretly won't feel confident or comfortable opening up again unless that person is damn near perfect? Again, sometimes YOU are what's off, not them.

Being able to tune into yourself and distinguishing the difference is vital. It can make or break the difference b/w a happy love life or a sad/lonely one.

People aren't perfect, therefore relationships aren't perfect. Extreme feelings like these aren't healthy and do not lead to healthy relationships. I want you too much is and feel unworthy is what this kind of unhinged thinking reflects. Feeling this way about another is a major red flag. You need to detach from the person whose causing this turmoil and realize that the turmoil itself is unhealthy to you and created by you. You gotta find out where that impulse is coming from in yourself before you will be ready for a relationship. Sounds like you've got some healing to do. Be very wary of EXTREME chemistry for it's inherently unhealthy.

You guys are completely right! And I just ruined my relatinship with that fucking insecure shit.....I will regret it for a while,no way I can take it back 😢