Twin Flame experience: Advice PLEASE

hmmmmmm.....

it seems that the timing is wrong and you possibly are together in another lifetime just not this one. Don't go on and gamble your marriage away either because your twin flame is not perfect just like your husband.

you may get burned playing with fire.

what's meant to be will be when the timing is right it will happen. That means don't force something if the universe want you to be together it will be when the time Is right.

if you end up divorcing it will because of other reasons other than your twin flame.

let it be and keep communication with this guy to a minimum.

practice self control you are going to need it.

good luck 🙂

I agree with Octoberbaby91. Don't gamble away your marriage and family life on your TF. There seems to be continued instability on his part, so he hasn't evolved enough emotionally yet for things to work out long term.

Also, check out the metaphysical board for more threads on TF connections.

what do you mean hard? You have been moving on with life 5 years prior because you obviously got married and have children.

it comes down to doing the right thing. If you feel that he is the one and you are my in love with your husband then get a divorce.

once you make a decision just make sure you don't regret it because the grass is not greener on the other side.

Brace yourself 😄

Sun signs?

Or should we guess?

LOL APC. Good question!

Tulip, no one ever said TF connections are blissful. They're only blissful for a short time at the very beginning. After that the pain, agony, and learning process begins.

Do you REALLY relate more to your Sag side than to your Cap side? Because the Cap/Leo thing is pretty classic. You guys probably have some pretty heavy Pluto aspects going on.

From what I have read, neither will end a marriage or serious commitment for a Twin Flame. The two may meet but if these external barriers exist the relationship should not/can not begin in this physical plane. It is not time yet, or they are not true Twins.

Tulip, if you go on a website that does synastry, you can find out what your aspects are. It's always interesting and enlightening.

Personally, I like this site: http://grupovenus.com/main.htm

You can do a "compatibility for lovers" report.

... excuse me, physical plane insinuates that its not in this lifetime. That's not quite what I mean to say. What I meant to say is this: As I understand it this connection is the highest spiritual connection there is. Two halves of one being finding each other so they can re-unite for eternity. It can not be born from broken families.

You seem to be very naive. What you describe is normal infatuation, inflated by unrealistic expectations. It's like having been put on hold from opening a wonderfully wrapped, promising Christmas present. However, once you open it, the magic will be gone.

We can have burning chemistry with more than one person......I felt what you described several times. The problem is, the more chemistry you have, the quicker the candle will burn at both ends. What starts on a high, can only end up on a low. The keyword is DECLINE.

I recommend attraction that requires time to flourish and grows with the knowledge you gain about the other person. The keyword here is GROWTH.

Posted by Undine
You seem to be very naive. What you describe is normal infatuation, inflated by unrealistic expectations. It's like having been put on hold from opening a wonderfully wrapped, promising Christmas present. However, once you open it, the magic will be gone.

We can have burning chemistry with more than one person......I felt what you described several times. The problem is, the more chemistry you have, the quicker the candle will burn at both ends. What starts on a high, can only end up on a low. The keyword is DECLINE.

I recommend attraction that requires time to flourish and grows with the knowledge you gain about the other person. The keyword here is GROWTH.

Hmm... I agree with Undine.

+1

And all that time and energy invested in this 'twin flame'

could be put toward the important relationship you already have.

my first thoughts: why did you even decide to have kids with someone you were lukewarm about in the beginning? why did you even marry someone you felt not right about from the beginning?! maybe i'm being idealistic here but just imagine how your kids would feel if they knew their mother was gallivanting around with another man, justifying this "twin flame" concept for emotional infidelity, pending physical intimacy by your own admission. so many people are jaded because they have parents like this. you're a mentor to your kids whether you want to be or not so please stop acting selfish.

if there's anything to be believed, it's not this twin flame bullcrap. but read more on your own sign as insight to why you feel the way you feel or do the things you do. be more self-aware of YOURSELF. you're a sag cusp and i know one thing i definitely always feel as a sag influenced person myself is that i am unappreciative at times.. always looking for what's on the other side.. eternally restless. you realize at least that you are "very lucky" and have a good thing going on.. so like what others have said.. why don't you work on that? i'm sure you'd be infatuated with any guy that could carry on a conversation with you about deep, intimate things.. in a sense you could replace this leo guy for a compatible gemini for instance and you'd still think he is your "twin flame"... because you're bored/restless/unappreciative/selfish/etc. etc

so please. stop trying to find weird, metaphysical concepts for your own shortcomings. work on your marriage and on yourself.

i don't mean to be harsh but it pisses me off knowing that kids have no choice in being born into broken families or to selfish parents.

Emotionally cheating—??

Posted by Undine
I recommend attraction that requires time to flourish and grows with the knowledge you gain about the other person. The keyword here is GROWTH.

Well said.
+1