Always Heartbroken .... shattered ...

You want to know why?

We all know about the asteroids in the Main belt orbiting between Mars and Jupiter .... let's look at the major of these asteriods.

They are Ceres, Juno, Vesta, Pallas & Hygiea .....

At one point in time, these asteriods, along with the rest, minor rocks that orbit ... were a planet that was torn apart.

This planet represented our deepest emotions, our feminine side ... we know we feel for another, and we want this love so bad to make us feel complete .. but, no matter how much we do love this person, no matter how deep it goes ...

It always feels like we've had to shatter ourselves inside to get it, we have to split ourselves in two, or three, or a million pieces to get a love from another that ultimately has to tear us apart .. fragmented, yet ... we know that the love exists.

... if only we could put the pieces together, we know that our love for this person would complete us.

... we cannot put these scattered pieces together, no matter how hard we try because the planet itself, that represents our deepest/loving emotions for partnership ... is in a million pieces .. like us.

It may be easier for a woman to understand her feminine side than it is a man, so for women, it may not be as devastating to be existing with this planet in distress.

Planets are alive .. the earth and all others are alive .. this planet is orbiting ... shattered, and is also likely crying out because it wants to feel a togetherness ... it is in emotional distress, as are we.

For men, though ... this planet is what teaches us how to get in touch with our feminine side, how to understand our deepest love, how to unify what we feel with our people. Without this planet whole, how is a man suppose to get in touch with his deepest loving feelings for his partner?

This is HIS planet also, which guides him to understand how and why he feels this way about his lover ... and his Guide is shattered.

We remain in emotional distress over love when in love.
Guys remain confused in understanding why he loves when in love.

Yes, I'm talking about planet Tiamat.

If one looks at the influential affects of the orbiting asteriods, we find that these rocks/remenants are emotionally bound, rooted to our deepest attractions in love/partnerships.

.. mutual passions, erotic connections, "us" dynamics ...

So, here we have a belt of asteroids all grouped together, and all of them astrologically influence our deepest love for partnering.


Jupiter influences nothing of the sort .... it's life-force takes a different path, as it influences us.

"I feel I have to unite myself for love, not vice versa"


That's what I'm talking about ^^^ not vice-versa.

We have to put for effort in unifying love, in which we can recognize is present in us, and we know love is suppose to be easy. But, we come across it, we find we have to attempt to unify ourselves for it.

Whereas, if the planet were whole ... we would love easy, deep, completely ... and we wouldn't have to struggle in molding it, manipulating it, trying to capture or secure in other-wordly ways, we wouldn't have to "use" sex to lure it ..

.. we would just Love, with no pain or distress.

Our greatest gift of all ... Love.

And our Guide in life (planet) .. is in pieces.



We are confused .. we know we want to love, and we try .. but, ultimately, this very love, in itself, for another person, is what destroys us in this very love because we feel rejected/neglected .. torn in a million pieces, pulling us in every direction.

DAngel, I say this because it does divide us, even if we think it's unifying us together.

When in love, we are possessive, jealous (some people) ... and outside interests makes us feel neglected, we want more more more no matter how much we're loved, we often have to forsake friends to be with this lover so s/he won't feel unwanted, sometimes just a look on a face will send their lover in tears because though we love this person .... to do so confuses us because we don't know what it means.

People will come in here, as evidence/example ... when our partner or potential does "anything", when we LOVE this person .. suddenly, we are confused, what does s/he mean, why did they do this, why won't s/he make me feel special ..

I'm talking about the actual trying, the huge amount of effort we have to put into this very trying to unify ... it tears us up inside because we cannot figure out what the other person means, the intentions.


Instead of love being easy ... it's hard as hell, and it's not suppose to be.

"It seems you expect your partner/potential to do something extraordinary for you just because you love him/her. I don't agree with this."


I don't think it should be this way either, as I've outlined in this thread, that love shouldn't be this way ... hence, the reason for this thread, to point this very thing out to people, and why they struggle with these relationship problems.

"Love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image" ... agreed.

However, without this planet whole, the understanding of love isn't present ... what we have is confusion.

"Just because somebody doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. People have only their kind of love to give."


Depressed, I think you slightly missed the message of this thread a tad. Of course, people can only love the way they are able. I wasn't trying to convey that they weren't, and that expectations were in place and this is the reason for it.

I'm saying that the kind of love people have to give isn't even complete within themselves, to be able to give to another as completely as was intended ... because Tiamat, our most emotional planet is fragmented, so our love we have to give to another is also in pieces.

"Always Heartbroken .... shattered ..."

this may be due to the lack of social and communication skills. bad people get this more often than not. dont blame the asteroids they are not at fault

I personally think this is bullshit.