Cancer woman in love with Pisces man. Does he know?

Hi there!

I'm a Cancer woman and I'm in love with a Pisces man more than 3 years now. The thing is - he probably doesn't know it.

We met at the uni, he began to talk to me during one seminar (just about school things). Since then, we had incredible good understanding, we were always excited to see each other and he helped me with a lot of things. I would say that the fact I am now studying for PhD. is also thanks to him.

I've never met someone with who I can talk so naturally and with who I can simply be who I am. I feel like there is some connection between us. Since I met him, I sometimes have prophetic dreams related to us - this have never happened to me before. Whenever I saw/see him, I feel like there is a light around me. It simply makes me happy.

We always kept the sort of friendship, nothing more and we actually saw each other just 12 times or so.

After three months of knowing him I found out that he is in relationship. It hurted me but also helped me realize that I felt in love with him. So I tried to avoid meeting him - it wasn't a big deal, because we both live in other city. In that time, I met a man who was my boyfriend for two years, but I couldn't forget this Pisces man. Just thinking about him helped me a lot to cope with depressions which I had.

Last year I met him at one school event. I was coming to the room and I felt someone is looking at me. I looked up and I my eyes met with his wide open eyes, he was staring at me, standing few meters away. I panicked and I looked down. Immediately I realized what I did and I looked at him again, trying to say him "hi", but he looked away and he seemed to be upset. The rest of the event was like - me looking at him, he looking away, he looking at me, me looking away. Plus he seemed to be really angry/upset.

This thing that happened bothered me for almost 9 months, until I found the courage to write him an email, thanking him for things he did for me in the past and apologizing that I hadn't courage to say him "hi" that day. He answered me: "thank you for the email, it made me happy" and wrote me that he will work in the city where I live and that we could meet for a coffee or so one day.

I want to see him so much but Im still thinking what he can think about me. Does he can know that I am into him?

I would like to keep a friendship between us and deeper our relationship in that way (I am able, even if I love him) but...I don't know.

Btw he broke up with his girlfriend and he has a new one, a Gemini girl. I highly respect his relationship as I always did but I won't try to avoid him anymore.

Posted by OceanBoy88
Awwwwwwww i felt so bubbly reading this. Ahem now that i got that out of my system, he probably doesn't know and is dying to have a chat with you again. He motivated you and after a long gap, still sees you as a friend like it was just yesterday you two last hung out since he got upset with you for not saying hi! And the awkward head shuffle lol

Ahh, Pisces man! thanks for your answer! Honestly I was so afraid that he hates me because I didnt say "hi"...it was such a relief for me that he answered me back.

Well, if he doesn't know, then it is good, I can still "play" that Im not into him 😄

btw. I see you have Gem Moon like him, so you can have pretty accurate insight into his behavior! 🙂

OceanBoy88:

Yep. But I don't know his rising sign. And I have Mercury and Venus in Gemini and he also has Gemini Mars, I guess that these Gemini connections are also the reasons of my crush...

Well, in this case it is good if he is clueless I think.

Why Poppyseeds? 🙂

Posted by OceanBoy88
I doubt he hates you btw. If anything, there might be that awkward first reconnection. Continue where you last left off with him 2 years ago like it was just yesterday, just don't step on his girl's toes

Ok, thank you for the advice! 🙂 I think it won't be a problem for me to continue like that, I'm soooo looking forward to see him again, just hope he won't be so shy or something 🙂

Posted by OceanBoy88
and i think she was a cancer... i forgot..

She was a Virgo. It's us with the unrequited love feelings 😛.

Posted by OceanBoy88

Posted by SilverMoonGirl
OceanBoy88:

Oh his moon and your gem placements are really shining with this guy if you two were that chatty! Poppyseeds, because i remember she had a piscea sun gem moon friend she was persuing and i think she was a cancer... i forgot..

But! If you want to keep him in the dark then by all means do what you do! Would be funny if he also had an unrequited love interest in you. $ 10 bucks it progresses romantically 🙂

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Hmm, I don't want to keep him in the dark, but he is in the relationship, so what can I do? 🙂 just respect it...

Btw, is there any way how to find out if he has some romantic interests in me?

Posted by SilverMoonGirl

I was so afraid that he hates me

dramatic

Posted by SilverMoonGirl

I can still "play" that Im not into him

chooses to operate under false pretenses

Posted by OceanBoy88
Not sure what happened to my post above but heres what i said :

Sorry didn't know you edited your post. Well its hard to find out by just talking to him since you known him for so long and are unsure yourself. Your just gonna have to be frank with him or consider previous scenarios of how he treated other women around you. Preferably scenarios that involved 3 or more women in conversation

Hmm, it somehow disappeared...strange...

well, I've known him three years and some months but saw him just 12 times during these "some months". We saw each other just one time during this three-years pause (and it was the awkward situation with not saying hi)

I can't recall well how he treated other women...I think it was normal, like with men. He is generally kind person. He is also shy, he blushed two or three times when I talked to him in front of other people.