Capricorns

this may sound really sad or probably insecure or desparate..tell me what on earth do these cap men want??
can someone tell me if this man really likes me or should l just let what ever we have go??
meet this cap man, and we chatted for 3 weeks before he can ask me out on a date, as he always blames his work that his busy, when he did i thought he was joking, we meet and he was smitten by me he told me straight that he liked me and l said i liked him too, that was on tuesday we meet, he called me each day then came weekend he wanted to see me he took me for dinner we wanted to go clubbing but it was late, so i said come to my house for a glass or two since we are not going clubbing and just relax, we relaxed ok, he ended up sleeping over but we did not have sex cause i made it clear, he left midday which l thought was good considering that most guys would want to get up early and go home, so he never called until tuesday he emailed me to say he is just finding out if am ok..which i thought was strange, then wednesday i text him he replied ok asked what i was doing wkend, cause i wanted to see him i said nothing he come over with a bottle of wine he asked me to cook which i did and he made dessert and washed the dishes which i thought was really good he slept over this time we had sex and he went to his place on sunday evening which again l thought it was good..since sunday havent had anything from him..what do think this is serious guys l really like this guy, dont know what to do—

this may sound really sad or probably insecure or desparate..tell me what on earth do these cap men want??
can someone tell me if this man really likes me or should l just let what ever we have go??
meet this cap man, and we chatted for 3 weeks before he can ask me out on a date, as he always blames his work that his busy, when he did i thought he was joking, we meet and he was smitten by me he told me straight that he liked me and l said i liked him too, that was on tuesday we meet, he called me each day then came weekend he wanted to see me he took me for dinner we wanted to go clubbing but it was late, so i said come to my house for a glass or two since we are not going clubbing and just relax, we relaxed ok, he ended up sleeping over but we did not have sex cause i made it clear, he left midday which l thought was good considering that most guys would want to get up early and go home, so he never called until tuesday he emailed me to say he is just finding out if am ok..which i thought was strange, then wednesday i text him he replied ok asked what i was doing wkend, cause i wanted to see him i said nothing he come over with a bottle of wine he asked me to cook which i did and he made dessert and washed the dishes which i thought was really good he slept over this time we had sex and he went to his place on sunday evening which again l thought it was good..since sunday havent had anything from him..what do think this is serious guys l really like this guy, dont know what to do— am a Leo by the way

We want nothing from anyone, we need nothing from anyone, Hook up with a woman now and again for a bit of sex thats it move on its very simple even the simple women get it.

Hi Nia,

Capricorn and Leo combos can be excellent as long as both signs are on the same bag as far as life goes. I read your story and if you haven't heard from him since Sunday, its probaby because he's busy. Once we caps get busy with something, we forget about everything personal and focus intently on what we have to do.

I'm not sure about your guy but maybe because to the hoildays, he's been trying to get things done and hasn't gotten around to contacting you -- it happens to me all the time. I have this aries friend I was suppose to call in November 2008 ... she just reminded me last week that I never got back with her lol! It was nothing personal, I just got side track.

With some caps, if its not right in our face, then we can't focus on it. Plus, you guys haven't been knowing each other that well yet, so just wait and see 🙂

umm...my cappy guy approached me on a dating website. we've discussed relationships and decided to get to knw each other. we 've been exchanging text msgs on n off for a month now. i've repeatedly told him we need to chat n get to knw each other better. n he keeps promising. but i dnt see him putting in much effort. ast the same time he always tells me, he is interested in me. does compliment often too. i've been initiating texts msgs so far. for the past 2 days he has not responded to my msgs. is it quiet normal for cappy guys to do this and space out. earlier too he did space out but eventually wld reply. i havent heard from him yet. ......i thought cappy's n scorpio woman make the best pair. dunno wats going wrong. m now kida loosing my patience. i need assurance in a relationship for sure. u think i shld keep texting or just stop now and wait for him to get back. is he kinda testing me—?

Hi Guys, hope you enjoyed your christmas, thank you for all your responses, l followed your advise Scopio-Chic, but guess what, l still havent heard from him not to even send me a christmas text to say "merry christmas" l didnt send it either as it would have been nice to get one from him without me starting it, l think am just wasting my time here really, but the thing is l really like this guy do you think he might be testing me??

I'm trying to get a Capricorn man to forgive me rigth now. These men are the most difficult men to deal with. They will be busy alot and they take a long time to show you how they feel about you. You need to be really patience because they have a lot of issues with trusting. They can be very coldhearted people and never show emotions. There are sexy, passionate, and freaky and like to please you in bed.
They are serious indivuals and work comes1st with them. They won't get involve in a serious relationship because they take their time and don't rush. They are reliable but tricky and you won't beable to figure them out well. They are head strong but extremely sensitive and it's hard for them to forgive. They have a big heart but you may never see it. Make sure you take your time and hold on to your emotions. They will distance theirself if they feel you are jealous or clingly. They like to play head games with woman but don't try to play with them because they have more controll them any other sign.

One one hand, I agree that this guy might actually be really busy. The good thing is, he's told you about how "busy" he can be upfront vs. you just having to find out later on due to that reality hitting you square in your face. Caps don't need anyone & aren't usually dependent on anyone. They can like you a whole lot BUT make no mistake about it, they don't devote all of their time initially to the person they like. They are very focused & they're not ones to to give up everything they've worked for OR change their busy routine all in the name of dating or love. They stay who they are the entire time. What you see is what you get. Capricorn men aren't the types that will be all over you, be clingy & show any dependance for the women they're dating. If anything, they have so much more to lose by being this way, thus that's why they make it clear up front that their world will NOT revolve around you.
However, I agree that you shouldn't have had sex with him yet. Not b/c it's wrong to have sex, BUT b/c you had sex with him at a time when you were not sure of where this thing with you & him were going. And we all know that sex does not add strength to a foundation that was never there. You should've waited until you two were more official OR atleast until you were 100% clear about where this was going. Understand that he's a MAN before he's anything else (Capricorn) so of course the rules of sex before a relationship will come in handy. It's never a good thing to give up the goods (sex) before atleast having some sort of idea of where the friendship/relationship will go. Sex should be the icing, not the whole cake. You have to take into consideration that Capricorn or not, he may do what alot of men do & bounce the minute he gets what he wants. Alot of men who just want sex don't mind wining & dining & sweet talking the women in order to get into their panties; that's just the game. Now that you've given him your body, this is the time that you should be having this conversation with HIM. Ask him where this is going. Ask him how he feels about you. He can tell you better than we can

thanks for your response Krysrenee, l know l shouldnt have had sex with this guy (am already feeling down about it), but you know l thought the same wanting to find out whats going on so l sent him a text just finding out how he is, he replied by saying merry xmas l know it was yesterday so please dont kill me as his trying to reach some of his family members with no avail!! and he also asked how l have been, (thats when l realised his really not interested) so l just didnt reply him, and l just discovered he has a girlfriend so he got on with me because they were not getting on with his girl, so am even more disappointed now that his cheated on his girl so he can do the same to me, do caps cheat?? guess have to try and move on....

Posted by nia121
thanks for your response Krysrenee, l know l shouldnt have had sex with this guy (am already feeling down about it), but you know l thought the same wanting to find out whats going on so l sent him a text just finding out how he is, he replied by saying merry xmas l know it was yesterday so please dont kill me as his trying to reach some of his family members with no avail!! and he also asked how l have been, (thats when l realised his really not interested) so l just didnt reply him, and l just discovered he has a girlfriend so he got on with me because they were not getting on with his girl, so am even more disappointed now that his cheated on his girl so he can do the same to me, do caps cheat?? guess have to try and move on....

... yeah, having sex too can have both good effects and bad effects -- doesn't matter which sign really, just depends on who you are dealing with.

Well, if the cap has a girlfriend ... then you have no choice but to move on. Either that, or get stuck in a messy situation. If I were you, I'd take this as a lesson learned and don't let the fact this is guy being a giant douche bag get you down about others.

I remember going out with a capricorn guy and he had a girlfriend at the time. Yes, I was pissed with him and I made sure that the girlfriend knew about me. lol, so he got in trouble with both of us. I'm glad she didn't blame me for it, I think after explaining to her how he tricked me, she was able to put things together about how he would disappear for periods of time without explanation.

Anyway, yes move on and forget about him.

I have been out of the Burg is 42 mature or manure? also I am for real most of the time if you want a clingy love dove type get a fuckin dog

well a fucking dog is almost as good as a cap lover

OMG that is a hell of a note poor chap must reaily lov you if he has a bit of a allergic reaction when with you and the dog

I am in an unusual situation and I have not a clue what to do.

I am in LOVE with a capricorn and his ways are very strange at times. I know that he loves me too but... We went to school together 20 years ago, which was puppy love but I have never stopped thinking about him and vice versa for him. He is the LOVE of my LIFE and I so regret not having the opportunity of creating a LIFE with him. I discovered that he did try seeking me in high school and on numerous occasions. We both have moved on with life by marrying other ppl but I do not want to live without him. After 20 years, we have feelings for each other that are so real. This is LOVE at it's rarest!! and I don't wanna let go. I've revealed my exact feelings to him and I continue to do so because I don't want him to get away from me again without knowing how I feel. I feel terrible because of our situations but I love him. I'm in love with him after 20 years. He is so amazing and he thinks the same of me. However, I have noticed that when his feelings for me get the best of him, he shys away from me. The thought of him not being in my life breaks my heart. Do I walk away? HELP!!! I DESIRE him and I know he DESIRES me. I've been married for 15 years to a wonderful guy but I've never felt such a strong connnection to my husband. It could be the fact that I married at the age of 19. What do you think? Can this type of love really exist.

I forgot to mention something I believe is very important. I have never had sexual relations with this cap. We've only shared a kiss. It's everything else I love about him. And he has told me things he adores about me, wome things are from our past and I would have never expected him to remember. So you know I can't wait to sleep with him one day. I have yet to feel this way about any guy.

@Nia...well the truth finally came out & even though it sucks, this guy did you a favor! Yes, it's possible that men in every sign in the zodiac will cheat. Are Capricorns likely to cheat? Not necessarily but then again men will be men first before they're anything else. I think this Cap picked you as his rebound & yes, it is very common for men IN GENERAL to stray from their real partners the minute things in their relationships go south. Is it fair? No. BUT that's why they tells us as women not to give our bodies up just b/c we "feel good" about someone. B/c now looking back, you've given your time, energy & body to someone that wasn't gonna give you a fair chance from the beginning. Next time, don't let your emotions make the decision for you as to whether or not you're going to give up to the goods to someone.

Posted by scorpio_chic
Occupy your time with something else.. match his actions. If he is only being part-time, you be part-time. Never do more or give more of yourself than he is willing to give you. That goes for any man, of any sign.

Your sooo right 🙂

I do know alot of Caps who have cheated, my Dad being one. However, it's not a sign thing. It's a male thing. Women are just smarter about it and don't get caught as much. Plus I heard the Sag in his chart...Moon is the reason but not sure.

A man that has millions/billion has all the opportunity any male would love to have. Thats the real reason for cheating; it's there.

I haven't met a capricorn that I didn't like..........I adore them.

never met a cap she did not like OMG what a sheltered life you must lead to bad a day with me and you will give up on caps forever.