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Fact or not?
Posted by LonerLoop
Yes. That's how it seems to be these days. I should just be a spirit to make things easier for men.
But, this is in my opinion. So it's just me, me, ME. 😄
Well if it's true, then men are sooo complicated!!!
I've read this as well but I don't know. I can see the missing her might make him realize his love but I just don't see how, he falls in love without her. Where are the guys, tell us your secrets! 😄
Posted by TaurusinTexasExactly...
Where are the guys, tell us your secrets! 😄
Posted by AriesLove
Also women fall in love with the absence of a man more so than men do with women. Some women fall mad in love with a man that hasn't called, texted or even acknowledged her being in weeks. Explain that.
Its my situation...but i can't explain coz i don't know why...maybe when they disappear, we start analysing wayyy too much...maybe that's not even love...they stay in our minds and we mistake it with mad love 😐
Posted by tiziani
The absence thing is called "the drip" where I'm from. I suppose, in either case, egos have to be massaged to fall in love.
More confused 😐
Posted by newloveI think you have it backwards. Absence only makes the heart grow fonder if there's an existing bond, or if love has already been established. If not, then "out of sight, out of mind" applies. This goes for both men and women.
So i have this confusion...
A man falls in love with a woman in her absence...
While a woman falls in love with a man in his presence...
Is it true?
So if I don't like a man, him constantly flitting about in my peripheral vision is not going to change that. Likewise, if a man weren't interested in me, I doubt my disappearance would magically make him fall in love with me. But he might miss the attention temporarily, and mistaken that need for emotional validation as "love".
Posted by FleshpotperfectPosted by newloveI think you have it backwards. Absence only makes the heart grow fonder if there's an existing bond, or if love has already been established. If not, then "out of sight, out of mind" applies. This goes for both men and women.
So i have this confusion...
A man falls in love with a woman in her absence...
While a woman falls in love with a man in his presence...
Is it true?
So if I don't like a man, him constantly flitting about in my peripheral vision is not going to change that. Likewise, if a man weren't interested in me, I doubt my disappearance would magically make him fall in love with me. But he might miss the attention temporarily, and mistaken that need for emotional validation as "love".
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A man falls in love with a woman in her absence...
While a woman falls in love with a man in his presence...
Is it true?