First Fight

I'm wondering when your first fight with your SO was? I've been in a relationship for 4 months, we are in our 30s, both divorced with kids, and see each other 1 to 2x a week and talk/text everyday. We have yet to fight or argue. Yes, we are in the early stages, very much in love, haven't merged our lives, just spend one on one time together when we can. But I have a feeling we are both scared too and are both very accomodating/trying our hardest to make the other happy. Not that I'm waiting for a fight but I'm used to drama. Knowing myself, I could be the one to start a fight lol

on the first mothafuckin date

I never really fought with my exes before. Usually I let things calm down first before saying things out

I've been married to my husband for over 29 years ... and I could count the number of times we've argued using just my hands.


However, you rest assured that you will fight with him alot ... because your thoughts are bent on it.

I've been with my taurus for almost eight months, both in our twenties as well. We've only had one disagreement; I got upset with him late at night, but instead of just spazzing out, I decided to sleep on it to calm myself down, then I explained to him that he upset me early the next day. He immediately apologized, fixed the problem, and we moved on. Sometimes there are little things that get to me, and I'm sure there are little things that get to him, but honestly, when I think about it, there is nothing so major that I feel the need to argue about.

Posted by westside
on the first mothafuckin date

lmao me too😛 I have no qualms about confrontation as it in no way influences the way I feel about someone. My parents fight all the time but they love each other. Arguments don't frighten me thanks to them =/

Arguments happen and life goes on. Personal issues that each of you harbor will need to pop up at some point to be dealt with.

My only arguments with my Scorpio husband started after we were married (that means we never argued for 1 1/2 years) and are all about his jealous insecurities. They just get to be a bit much sometimes. I can ususally respond lovingly or with humor, but sometimes my patience wears thin and I get snappish.

I think my first serious fight with the ex occurred when I was expecting the 3rd child. The children came quite close together, 13 months apart. He walked up to me in the kitchen and said "If you get pregnant again you'll have to get an abortion because I can't afford any more." Outside the fire blazed in my eyes, inside I was crumbling. That sentence could not slide by.

Me and my Libra have been together 5 month now and we get on so well its stupid haha. Not even a raised voice or mean look has passed between us! We have discussions and sometimes our opinions differ but thats always on things that dont matter (like who should win x-factor lol) not relationship stuff

However other people are beginning to notice I seem more argumentative, maybe its me over compensating for the lack of confrontation in my relationship. We are both venus in scorp though so if we do fall out it will be huge! Plates smashed, knives thrown, followed by some crazy passionate make-up sex. I would be lying if I said I wasnt kind of looking forward to it 😉

And just to add we spend about 5 days a week together.

arguing alot means somethings a bit offkey to me. both my long term relationships, i either didn't give a shit enough to argue, or every little thing we'd buck heads over. i don't like either option.

my sag and i don't argue. not because we're afraid to speak our minds, but because compromise is a better option. that confirms to me we're in the right place together and we might have good long term potential. i think arguing weakens the structure of a relationship to the point where you've both said some disgusting things then just sit and look at each other like, 'remind me why i like you again?'.

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Posted by dietdrpepper
I'm wondering when your first fight with your SO was? I've been in a relationship for 4 months, we are in our 30s, both divorced with kids, and see each other 1 to 2x a week and talk/text everyday. We have yet to fight or argue. Yes, we are in the early stages, very much in love, haven't merged our lives, just spend one on one time together when we can. But I have a feeling we are both scared too and are both very accomodating/trying our hardest to make the other happy. Not that I'm waiting for a fight but I'm used to drama. Knowing myself, I could be the one to start a fight lol

Depends on how much fire you/him have in your chart 😉

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HIM
Sun Capricorn 9??11'03 in house 7
Moon Virgo 9??34'06 in house 4
Mercury Sagittarius 21??12'34 in house 6
Venus Capricorn 3??51'38 in house 7
Mars Leo 9??18'27 in house 3
Jupiter Cancer 0??00'01 in house 1
Saturn Virgo 0??11'57 end of house 3
Uranus Scorpio 15??16'01 in house 5
Neptune Sagittarius 16??42'23 in house 6
Pluto Libra 16??35'16 in house 5
True Node Libra 10??23'13 in house 5

ME
Sun Scorpio 24??59'57 in house 6
Moon Taurus 14??10'27 in house 11
Mercury Scorpio 18??42'34 end of house 5
Venus Libra 8??48'08 in house 5
Mars Cancer 1??42'43 in house 1
Jupiter Aries 15??37'02 in house 11
Saturn Leo 2??57'59 in house 2
Uranus Scorpio 4??11'23 in house 5
Neptune Sagittarius 10??54'13 in house 6
Pluto Libra 10??47'05 in house 5
True Node Scorpio 21??48'28 in house 6

We are both Ascendent Gemini.