He is killing me :/

Virgo man is killing me

Please help me with this guy he is working with me and I like him alot sometimes I can see from his actions that he likes me too even he asked me for my number and he was calling me everyday scary hour and asking about he told me I don't like to talk on phone alot but when I met you it's different with you he was telling me I miss you when i traveled at first he just told me that he want be friends only and I accepted although I wanted to be more but his actions is like he is my lover even when he traveled he gave me his watch and asked me to keep with me and look at it whenever I miss him I know it seems normal to you guys but am really attracted to him and I know Virgo man is hard when it comes to emotions, yesterday he told me that I care alot for him and that this not friendship and that am crossing my limits and I should less care for him and he was but rude and I told home I care about you because you do the same and my voice change because I was going to cry then he said if you don't love me and am your friend why your voice is changed I couldn't hold my self he told me we are crossing the limit and it's more than friendship now I just want from you to less care , I started not to go to places in the work just to avoid him telling me that I just came to see him he used to see my everyday but yesterday when he didn't see me he came to the other building were I work and he called me he said that he brought something for me and even again the next day he came sending me snaps that he is in my building I did my self busy and got in to my care before he comes to my office if he is telling to maintain gap why does come and make excuses to see why does testing me or maybe analysing me what shall I do now 2 days he didn't call me just texting asking about me sometimes he keeps calm and I call him and he knows that I worry alot so how can treat this guy and what does he want does like me and what should I do should I stop caring please HELP

Please help me with this guy he is working with me and I like him alot sometimes I can see from his actions that he likes me too even he asked me for my number and he was calling me everyday scary hour and asking about he told me I don't like to talk on phone alot but when I met you it's different with you he was telling me I miss you when i traveled at first he just told me that he want be friends only and I accepted although I wanted to be more but his actions is like he is my lover even when he traveled he gave me his watch and asked me to keep with me and look at it whenever I miss him I know it seems normal to you guys but am really attracted to him and I know Virgo man is hard when it comes to emotions, yesterday he told me that I care alot for him and that this not friendship and that am crossing my limits and I should less care for him and he was but rude and I told home I care about you because you do the same and my voice change because I was going to cry then he said if you don't love me and am your friend why your voice is changed I couldn't hold my self he told me we are crossing the limit and it's more than friendship now I just want from you to less care , I started not to go to places in the work just to avoid him telling me that I just came to see him he used to see my everyday but yesterday when he didn't see me he came to the other building were I work and he called me he said that he brought something for me and even again the next day he came sending me snaps that he is in my building I did my self busy and got in to my care before he comes to my office if he is telling to maintain gap why does come and make excuses to see why does testing me or maybe analysing me what shall I do now 2 days he didn't call me just texting asking about me sometimes he keeps calm and I call him and he knows that I worry alot so how can treat this guy and what does he want does like me and what should I do should I stop caring please HELP

Sounds like he is intrigued, but doesn't know what he wants. Agreeing to be someone's "friend" when you definitely want more is never a good plan. It'll just lead to confusion and hurt feelings later. At this point the whole things seems to be causing you problems, so you'll just need to be direct with him. Let him know that you like him more than just a "friend". If that's not what he wants, it's fine, but let him know that you can't pal around with him either.

Also know that since you two are both in the same workplace, he may have some reservations about going further with you. There are some people here who will tell you to just stay friends with him and wait it out, but it sounds like you're beyond the point now.

Posted by Chuckcem
Sounds like he is intrigued, but doesn't know what he wants. Agreeing to be someone's "friend" when you definitely want more is never a good plan. It'll just lead to confusion and hurt feelings later. At this point the whole things seems to be causing you problems, so you'll just need to be direct with him. Let him know that you like him more than just a "friend". If that's not what he wants, it's fine, but let him know that you can't pal around with him either.

Also know that since you two are both in the same workplace, he may have some reservations about going further with you. There are some people here who will tell you to just stay friends with him and wait it out, but it sounds like you're beyond the point now.

Hi dear

All what you said is true and I just don't want to tell him that because he feels that I really like him am scared of rejection I was happy and I agreed to be friends with him because I wanted to take it slowly at least I'll be talking to him than nothing but he is just confusing me with the way he acts I do t know what he really what's and Virgos ideas t express their feelings easily.

Posted by Womii
First of all you have to take it slow.

Act like you don't care else he may take advantage of the fact that you care too much and when he withdraws you'll be hurt and he'll say "we are just friends nothing more"use your head this time else you're gonna get really hurt

Let him define the relationship don't get carried away. I know it can be difficult at times for us (women )to hide our emotions

Try dear just try.it'll come together ok take care.

Hi dear

Thanks for contributing your such a lovely women

Yes true he is doing like that if I do care alot or even if he ignore my text or doesn't pick the phone he will just say we are friends why do you worry even though I know he has feeling for me but he just don't wanna commit am I told yesterday that I do have feeling for him too and he said I know do you thing I didn't notice he just makes me crazy the easy his cold

Posted by MiZLeo
Does he have a Scorpio moon?

He is born 12 September do you think he has and what is the difference?

Posted by MiZLeo

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Posted by MiZLeo
Does he have a Scorpio moon?

He is born 12 September do you think he has and what is the difference?

You have to have his birth year to determine that

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