hot food & hot spring..1st date(?) idea??

so the leo I have talked of on the leo from about a week ago and I are going to meet just two of us sometime next month..after I come back home from my vacation trip to bali..

I'm a bit hesitant to call it a date..since I really don't know where I stand lol..he's a funny, good looking guy..a bit cheeky as I wrote before lol ..but mainly he's been my friend..so I don't know..
as I wrote in the other thread..I wouldn't want to risk this friendship over pushing things further than that..so I sort of chalked this hanging out thing as a semi(?)-date.. so if this semi thingy doesn't turn out well, then we still could pretend that we are friends..?! lol..

there's this really hot, spicy food I love and since the leo hasn't tried it, we're going to eat that together..(I told him he'd better prepare himself up for the hell trip to the bathroom the next morning lol .. I'm going to video him lol him breathing fire like smaug lol and probably put that on youtube.. lol maybe he will be in tears.. 😆)

and the leo told me about one hot spring around his neighbourhood..which I haven't heard of or gone to before..I have been wanting to go one (I've written about that somewhere on this site..about a month ago or so..was planning to visit a hot spring with my other friend this month..but it hasn't happened and is not going to happen till this month's end as I'm going to stay in bali through the first week of mar) .. so anyways, I'm all in for that hot spring..

so we have decided to call this thing as.. hot people doing hot stuff.. lol (actually the leo came up with that name.. calling himself hot.. such a leo behaviour 😆)

even things don't turn out well, I think, at least, he and I would have some good fun time for sure.. 🙂

what do you think of this?
if you were to meet someone and said someone suggested these things, would you be excited? ..or? 🙂

Spicy food and hot springs? Sounds like an ideal day to me 😄

ugh allergy on first dates lol. Twas time well spent together at the hospital.

Sounds like fun should have a chili eating contest as well, Loser gets to drink a hot tea afterwards.

awww I love it!

Posted by Theatrum
Spicy food and hot springs? Sounds like an ideal day to me 😄

yes..! eating hot food makes one sweat and of course a hot spring does that, too lol
and after eating, bathing, sweating(?)..then relax..just sleep nicely! 😆

Posted by andsssssss
I HAD A 1ST DATE GONE WRONG COZ SHE WAS ALLERGIC TO HOT SAUCE. 😄 I THOUGHT IT WAS CUTE THO.

lol the allergy.. haven't thought of it..
the guy has had lots of spicy food..he has lived in china before so he should be used to some spiciness.. 🙂
if he happens to be allergic to the spicy food I'm going to put on a table..then he goes to a hospital, and I will play his nurse lol

Posted by aquasnoz
ugh allergy on first dates lol. Twas time well spent together at the hospital.

Sounds like fun should have a chili eating contest as well, Loser gets to drink a hot tea afterwards.

lol hospital..

your suggestion sounds fun, too! 🙂 maybe I will suggest that, too, if the leo eats the hot food and comes out alright the next morning..

Suppose it's pointless to ask a Gem not to overthink things? 😛 Rather see it as two people who enjoy each others company having fun with no expectations and reservations.

I don't know where you live, but around here hot springs = nudity. Are you ok with that for a first date? If so, then it sounds like a fun time. If not, maybe find out if bathing suits are involved!

Posted by Whimsy
I don't know where you live, but around here hot springs = nudity. Are you ok with that for a first date? If so, then it sounds like a fun time. If not, maybe find out if bathing suits are involved!

ah no, no nude hot spring here! lol.. if there were any..then I'd go there with my s.o. (when I have & make one that is lol..)
it'd be more like a sort of water park lol..but with hot springs 🙂 so yes, bathing suits are in 🙂
should be fun..
ah, by the way, I'm a bit worried about my face sans makeup hehe..but then well, if the leo doesn't like it then he doesn't lol..

Posted by aquasnoz
Suppose it's pointless to ask a Gem not to overthink things? 😛 Rather see it as two people who enjoy each others company having fun with no expectations and reservations.

hehe..I guess you're right 🙂 I wish I could shut down all that overthinking thing.. but it's not happening..! 😭 it's in just my nature I think.. 😢 ??