How long does it take a Scorpio man to let go after being ignored

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PinkySagLove
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My husband has made the decision that we should be married.

After all these Fuckboy games

Like he came to this conclusion after he fucked up. Lmao. Not a joint effort. He did. Like he did when he decided our marriage wasnt great enough to fight for. Like when he cheated. It was all his bright idea.

The nerve of men.

He just left my place of work begging my manager to see me. 3rd day this week he's come here. Been here everyday since his new Leo lady friend text me a pic of her engagement ring.

Calling all night leaving voice messages asking to come home.

How long does it take a Scorpio man to let go after they've been ignored?

Im off the roller coaster. I just need it to stop spinning.
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Posted by mzmee
My husband has made the decision that we should be married.

After all these Fuckboy games

Like he came to this conclusion after he fucked up. Lmao. Not a joint effort. He did. Like he did when he decided our marriage wasnt great enough to fight for. Like when he cheated. It was all his bright idea.

The nerve of men.

He just left my place of work begging my manager to see me. 3rd day this week he's come here. Been here everyday since his new Leo lady friend text me a pic of her engagement ring.

Calling all night leaving voice messages asking to come home.

How long does it take a Scorpio man to let go after they've been ignored?

Im off the roller coaster. I just need it to stop spinning.
I don't know but that is way too much drama for me. You are better off to find someone you can truly trust and for your son's sake also. This guy is a total freaking mess! If I had a husband and he spent our money on another woman I would shove all that shit up his ass and then wait for the sun to come up! You go girl. Stay strong and may the force be with you!!!

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He says he's coming to see his son. I pass his son to him but I don't let him in the house. Now, before this pic, he didn't come here at all. The whole while visiting, he's on the outside begging me to talk. I don't wanna talk... Talk to her...

According to him, he didn't buy the ring. Ok. Whatever. The ring isn't really the issue but I thought it was funny how after she sent me the text, he's running over here now.

He already told me that I'll have to deal with her anyways when I asked him to tell her to stop texting me. He could've handled it like an adult but what did I expect from a coward.

I guess he thought I was going to act a fool? He was trying to get a reaction? Ok, I didn't give him one.

Now this. Fake ass tears.
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Posted by mzmee
My husband has made the decision that we should be married.

After all these Fuckboy games

Like he came to this conclusion after he fucked up. Lmao. Not a joint effort. He did. Like he did when he decided our marriage wasnt great enough to fight for. Like when he cheated. It was all his bright idea.

The nerve of men.

He just left my place of work begging my manager to see me. 3rd day this week he's come here. Been here everyday since his new Leo lady friend text me a pic of her engagement ring.

Calling all night leaving voice messages asking to come home.

How long does it take a Scorpio man to let go after they've been ignored?

Im off the roller coaster. I just need it to stop spinning.
I don't know but that is way too much drama for me. You are better off to find someone you can truly trust and for your son's sake also. This guy is a total freaking mess! If I had a husband and he spent our money on another woman I would shove all that shit up his ass and then wait for the sun to come up! You go girl. Stay strong and may the force be with you!!!

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It's more than enough drama. I mean.. I'm too old for this mess. I don't have time for this. I have my first child I know that 9 times out of 10 I'll be raising alone. He's playing these games and I don't need it.

No lie tho, at first, I was willing to work things out. I needed space and thought it was cool to give him space as well. I don't know, I guess this is telling me I was a fool for even considering working out my marriage. He showed me a whole new him. I've never seen this person, I don't care for this person either.

Whatever he has to offer, he can keep it. I don't need it.
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It's more than enough drama. I mean.. I'm too old for this mess. I don't have time for this. I have my first child I know that 9 times out of 10 I'll be raising alone. He's playing these games and I don't need it.

No lie tho, at first, I was willing to work things out. I needed space and thought it was cool to give him space as well. I don't know, I guess this is telling me I was a fool for even considering working out my marriage. He showed me a whole new him. I've never seen this person, I don't care for this person either.

Whatever he has to offer, he can keep it. I don't need it.



I hope he doesn't think he is trying to get away with something like on the legal side. I hope you got your own lawyer and wring his ass dry - that is most likely what his lawyer told him - that moving out and having an affair was not a smart move. Hello? The ball is in your court madame.

He doesn't know what he wants. So divorce his ass and be gone with it. All of a sudden he's back paying attention and cry baby bet wetting ... makes my head spin like that poor girl thing in the Exorcist !

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All this because he thought I was still in love with my deceased ex. An ex that he never knew. An ex that when he passed away, 3 years later we catch up again. He figured this because I didn't date anyone else after my ex passed. In his mind, he says he felt I settled for him. He feels I'm too good for him.

Either that's his manipulation again for he's extreeeeeemely insecure. I don't wanna put up with either. I hate being manipulated.

Why does it matter that I didn't date anyone after my ex passed? Is that supposed to say something?
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I hope he doesn't think he is trying to get away with something like on the legal side. I hope you got your own lawyer and wring his ass dry - that is most likely what his lawyer told him - that moving out and having an affair was not a smart move. Hello? The ball is in your court madame.

He doesn't know what he wants. So divorce his ass and be gone with it. All of a sudden he's back paying attention and cry baby bet wetting ... makes my head spin like that poor girl thing in the Exorcist !
Oh yeah, I lawyered the hell up and we went thru all of our accounts "thanks to the wonderful advice here" and I'm leaving his ass in the dust.

In my state, after 6 months of living apart, the proceedings can go forth. In the event we reconcile or he moves back in, the clock starts all over. He made this move, I'm gonna finish the game. I don't appreciate him toying with me like I'm some kid.
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All this because he thought I was still in love with my deceased ex. An ex that he never knew. An ex that when he passed away, 3 years later we catch up again. He figured this because I didn't date anyone else after my ex passed. In his mind, he says he felt I settled for him. He feels I'm too good for him.

Either that's his manipulation again for he's extreeeeeemely insecure. I don't wanna put up with either. I hate being manipulated.

Why does it matter that I didn't date anyone after my ex passed? Is that supposed to say something?
no it isn't saying anything - besides, one would think he should have felt special to be the first one after all that time had passed ... dumb ass just can't stop the merry-go-round in his head ...
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All this because he thought I was still in love with my deceased ex. An ex that he never knew. An ex that when he passed away, 3 years later we catch up again. He figured this because I didn't date anyone else after my ex passed. In his mind, he says he felt I settled for him. He feels I'm too good for him.

Either that's his manipulation again for he's extreeeeeemely insecure. I don't wanna put up with either. I hate being manipulated.

Why does it matter that I didn't date anyone after my ex passed? Is that supposed to say something?
no it isn't saying anything - besides, one would think he should have felt special to be the first one after all that time had passed ... dumb ass just can't stop the merry-go-round in his head ...
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This is one reason why I was kind of hesitant about speaking about past relationships with him. We always talked freely and he would always talk about his previous flings. It was nothing to me because Idgaf about them lol. That was then and this is now. Now I noticed how he acted when I told him about my ex. The questions he asked, slick things he would say on the sly but I just thought it was jealous him, I reassured him and showed him better. He just kept holding on to it, saying stuff like he finds it funny how I don't have anything bad to say about him or if he was still living, he wouldn't be here with me right now.

He would let this pull him into a hole. Why are we talking about "if's" and "what would've happens". That happened, you're here now, let's live in the moment. I would literally be there kissing ass because HE can't get over my ex, not me.


Enough of that.

How long does it take a Scorpio man to let go after they've been ignored?
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All this because he thought I was still in love with my deceased ex. An ex that he never knew. An ex that when he passed away, 3 years later we catch up again. He figured this because I didn't date anyone else after my ex passed. In his mind, he says he felt I settled for him. He feels I'm too good for him.

Either that's his manipulation again for he's extreeeeeemely insecure. I don't wanna put up with either. I hate being manipulated.

Why does it matter that I didn't date anyone after my ex passed? Is that supposed to say something?
tbh, that may do it for me to not wipe him out. no that's not an excuse to mess everything up like a heartless lowlife especially when you just had a baby. he needs to go but i guess i empathize with ppl's emotional weakness.
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What the fucj?

Rainbow Leo haired freak texts you a pic if ring?!

How does she have your number?

Can u use her harassment against him in court?

Also screen shot her shit on FB. Like her bragging and shit cuz it shows her character.

To keep her away from ur kid.

Also why the fuck he crawling back?

He's weird.
She got my number from him. He says, she got it from his call logs.

From what im told, yes I can use this against him.

Why he's crawling back? Great question.
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She's so tacky. Scorpio men don't get off on the bragging.

What he say when u told him she's being spiteful to the mother of his child and you don't need this?

She's fucked up.
Honestly, I just asked him to let her know she has no reason to contact me. That's it that's all. I didnt go any further.

I try my best to minimize contact as much as possible.
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I'm guessing so. She found her catch. He has his dream girl.

That legendary Leo/Scorpio connection, right?
Trust me - that relationship won't last.

Not only is Scorpio-Leo a terrible match, the whole relationship is also founded on lies.
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Well they think they got something.

He asked me on voicemail why would I think he wanted to stay with someone that doesnt have their own place—

Oh reeeeeaaallllyyy now?

He's found himself in quite a pickle. Lmao.

She likes the lies because he lied to me to get to her.

I know women who get off on this type of stuff. All she carss about is the fact that he left his wife. Her ego boost. She'll take it anyway she can get it.
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See my thing is this...

He can come get his baby. I dont care. He betta come back with not a hair out of place and he can guarantee he'll be in a healthy environment. I told him this. I'll never stop him from getting his son. Wont ask him for shit either. As long as he leaves me the hell alone. Its about my baby boy now. If he camt get on board with raising our son in the best possible way, he can scoot the fuck on.

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Ya that's what it looks like.

It's just a game.

She seems to have other kids so she must need an ego boost.

Maybe her ex did this to her so she'll do it to someone else.
Probably so. I can tell she's weak from flaunting that rusty ass ring. I could've stunted on her ass but she's not worth it. Plus, my gripe aint with her, its with his dirty dick ass.