Learn how to own your emotions around men

I knew i kept this for a reason

i hope this helps some poeple who like me let their emotions own them

Your friends, your parents and your
girlfriends might give you "unconditional love"
and understanding in this way, but men won't
start to feel love, passion and connection with
you if you're playing out ALL the things you feel
with him.

So I have TWO good reasons why you need to
learn how to own your emotions around men:

1) If your emotions "own you" early on, you probably
won't even be able to talk to him or date in a fun
and spontaneous way that men crave. You'll just be
too FREAKED OUT to even get to the good stuff with
him - and God forbid, help him see his way through
all his potential hang-ups.

(Not that you want to...lol)

2) Men aren't ATTRACTED to women who let their
emotions control them all the time and drive
their interactions. This is ESPECIALLY true when
women act needy or overly-sensitive to anything
the guy does or says. Overly needy women will never
figure out how to get to that fun, playful, risky,
passionate state with a man that brings him close
and spells "long-term girlfriend material" in his
mind.


Why don't men like women who are overly-emotional?

Because men NEVER feel ATTRACTION for women
that they can CONTROL.

The more control a man has over you, the less
ATTRACTION he feels for you.

The less of a CHALLENGE you are, and the more
PREDICTABLE you become, the less ATTRACTION he
feels. It's very simple.

To put it another way; if you're the type of
woman who lets her emotions TAKE OVER, then you need
to learn how to "own" them.

If you don't, you're going to have a VERY hard
time succeeding with men after a date or two.

i totally agree 🙂

Simpler: When you REALLY feel it, SHOW IT!

This old Virg has no problem with the expression of genuine feeling. Leave the drama to the Soaps...

WELL HOW DO YOU OWN THEM? AND WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU FEEL DISRESPECTED?

feeling disrespected is the worse thing for me, i will drive you crazy just so you understand that i am hurt and you need to do something to fix it, i will do anything i can to make you feel guilty, i will even affend you if you will not try to fix it, then i just wait, i just sit and wait.....till i catch you vulnerable and then i just let it all out 10 times worse than it already had been..........interesting to see how other guys feel/do/react in this situation!

I feel ya scorpio978 , but we can get away with doing that type of shinizt to people. I don't let down either if someone hurts me. I mean ,you will know. Rather it takes me a week or years , you will know how I feel~ Now see, I see what thhe forum is about, yeah but if you f*** me over, that's your azz. If you respect me, there won't be a problem. But what i won't do is act like noting is happening if someone is harming me... damn that, that's the only thing I 'll own up to.

Why don't men like women who are overly-emotional?

Transpose men and women in that sentence, does any woman like a man who is overly emotional? No, you hate it. You hate it when a man gives too much too soon. Face it, everyone prefers those who play it cool. And why not? What's the rush? Take your time, feel eachother out and really discover what if anything you have.

*mental note, never date a scorpio. * Whew!!!!

Aqua_dick , what do you mean never date a SCORPIO!! You to say that and your name is Aqua_dick? lol I say never date an Aqua but whose calling u out... Scorpios are passionate.. Aquarius on tHe other hand try to hard to be different, when in fact they are bossy, emotionless and sensitive as all hell.. Please take your own advice.. Everyone loves a Scorp!!! weak wack AQUA..

"Everyone loves a Scorp!!!"

Huh?? There are almost as many Scorp Haters as their are Virg Haters (and that's a lot!).

"Aqua's are scary. The coldness and detachment yuck!"

I've only been out with one - that I know of - and she was interesting to talk to, but pretty empty otherwise...

Great thread

"Everyone loves a Scorp!!!"

They are creepy stalkers! I don't like stalkers....

It is always healthy to release feelings. Clears the air and makes people know where they stand with you. People do evolve as they go through life and learn emotional management. If a woman bursts out too often to a man it is because she feels close to him. This is upto a man to understand this and appreciate the woman rahter than devaluing her.