Lets Talk about Romance

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krysrenee7
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I think the quote describes intimacy more than romance. Kind of. I feel like romance is something you do, whereas intimacy is something that you share spiritually, mentally & obviously sometimes physically.

When my man stares into my eyes, holds my hand & says sweet nothings to me, I think more of intimacy b/c that represents more of a bond.

Now if he buys me flowers, stares into my eyes, holds my hand & says sweet nothings to me, then I'd be ready to grab his cheeks & call him romantic =)

I understand & agree with the concept though. Romance & intimacy are very similar. I think 1 of the main differences is that every kind of person can be romantic with you b/c it's easier to acheive. But everybody can't have that deeper connection (intimacy) with you.
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I found this on Facebook and thought it speaks truth. I agree with it.

So, what are YOUR thoughts on romance.





Totally agree. Before acquaintance with my husband, I also imagined romance differently, with flowers and candy. But when you really have feelings, it becomes another romance. At the same time I want to note that we met on a dating site http://kovla.com/datings/us/new-york-city/</a>. But many people think that there is no normal guys ...
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I love intimacy (all the things mentioned on that FB cut) but am a bit suspicious about "romance". My exes were giving me roses or sunflowers, when I like spring and wild flowers. Chocolates, when I was trying to lose weight. Love declarations, when I wanted to talk about the shit that happened at work. Surprise dates, when I was looking forward to an evening at home with my fav serial.

Intimacy is doing/saying the right thing when you are in tune with your lover. Romance could be a hit or miss...or maybe I'm just not romantic enough.