Letter of apology .

Hi all _??_

I just wrote a genuine honest letter of apology to someone I've hurt pretty bad.

I didn't make excuses for my behaviour , I took responsibility for my wrong doing and made it clear I'm not seeking forgiveness or acceptance back into this persons life.

I had said hurtful things that would make anyone feel crap and I tried to show how much they ARE a great person and what I said was disgrace ful and that I'm ashamed at my behaviour.

Does this seem appropriate to you guys ?

I don't want this person to feel crap because I preyed on their weaknesses like a dumb bitcih that I am. Lol

Thanks _—

What did you say exactly?

I really want to know what you said?

Posted by Tinxy

Hi all _??_

I just wrote a genuine honest letter of apology to someone I've hurt pretty bad.

I didn't make excuses for my behaviour , I took responsibility for my wrong doing and made it clear I'm not seeking forgiveness or acceptance back into this persons life.

I had said hurtful things that would make anyone feel crap and I tried to show how much they ARE a great person and what I said was disgrace ful and that I'm ashamed at my behaviour.

Does this seem appropriate to you guys ?

I don't want this person to feel crap because I preyed on their weaknesses like a dumb bitcih that I am. Lol

Thanks _—

Well, yeah... it's the right thing to do.

It shows effort and consideration-- that you

actually give a Damn .

It also takes courage... very old school stuff.

Love it. 🙂

First deacan Taurus

You mean in the letter or what I said to the person to destroy my friendship lol

Posted by Gemi9
I had wrote so many apology letters for last 2 weeks - I had not written as much of anything in my entire life! It worked to the point when it didn't anymore.

And yes, I think if you sincerely feeling that you have to - you should.
And if you did - hopefully this person will understand you did it for both of you and will return.

Thank you
I honestly haven't done it for them to come back , it the only decent thing I could do after the way I treated them
I love them so much that even if he did let me back in I'd not allow myself back as I'm toxic and love them enough to not want to ever hurt them again I want to protect them form me _??_

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Tinxy

Hi all _??_

I just wrote a genuine honest letter of apology to someone I've hurt pretty bad.

I didn't make excuses for my behaviour , I took responsibility for my wrong doing and made it clear I'm not seeking forgiveness or acceptance back into this persons life.

I had said hurtful things that would make anyone feel crap and I tried to show how much they ARE a great person and what I said was disgrace ful and that I'm ashamed at my behaviour.

Does this seem appropriate to you guys ?

I don't want this person to feel crap because I preyed on their weaknesses like a dumb bitcih that I am. Lol

Thanks _—

Well, yeah... it's the right thing to do.

It shows effort and consideration-- that you

actually give a Damn .

It also takes courage... very old school stuff.

Love it. 🙂

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I thought he might actually realise I am sorry for what I did no one writes letters anymore and all my nonsense crap I've caused him is usually venom that I type through text messages and another text might not seem genuine so I wrote the letter in my scruffy writing lol

Thanks for the reply

Both?

What's your sign?

First decan

I'm scorpio with libra moon lol

I said
Hey (name)
I owe you an honest apology please allow me that.
There is no excuse for the way I treated you , you took me into your home and I insulted you in the worst possible way , I know what I said was very hurtful and would hurt anyone.
I don't want back in and not trying to make it right.
I have disgraced my self beyond repair and I'm very ashamed of myself I don't want forgiveness as I will never forgive myself for treating you that way.
I have a gift for messing everything up even with people I care very much about.
I'm toxic when angry but had no right to be as you are who you are and you were right for cutting me off.
You are a fantastic person and anyone eould be proud to know a human like you, I know I was.
I know you will active great things in life I believe in you and everything you are
Thank you for reading my words.

This is to an aqua make

In anger I spat venom about him being a useless nobody _??_
I said I feel sorry for his parents having a useless idiot son like him
And that I pity him for being a full grown 30 something make living at home mooching of his parents.
I said I wanted nothing from him becuase he had nothing

I know I know that was horrific what I said and deserve to die or something equally as bad

Oh that's like double red flags. Haha. Damn girl..

Ok good nice apology letter.

But those signs about him are standards that I would have to evaluate before even being with that guy..

Did you say an Aquarius mate you said this to? Lol.. that's rare, good luck with the friendship if there's one. Haha

Loool but I'm from a wealthy family and have an amazing job own my own home an amazing home and he isn't where he wants to be in life
I knew his weaknesses and I used them against him in order to hurt him

That like ego/emotinal breaking what I said but I never looked down on him for that I loved him for the person he is I found him so interesting and unique I fell and I have never loved anyone
I talked abt how much I respected him and cared for him and I'd never hurt him
And with some nasty words I broke all of that
I am ashamed of myself and forever will be

Aqua male

Known him for many many years we were close friends

See the difference between you is that you are independent and he's not.. that's the red flag.. someone has to be compatible if you're independent as well.

And a momma's boy is worse. Trust I've met two. Lord. Always taking the mom side over mine.

Oh yeah Aquarius are fixed... Just would ignore you forever. And be hurt. But since he's an air sign. Would be detached for along time.

Firstdecan

I honestly know very little about astro things only that I'm scorp and live upto it very well _??_

So what do you think he as an aqua guy will make of my letter , I'm scared to death of what he will think but I hope he can see past his anger and hurt to see and feel my written words

I don't know shit about astrology either. It's the experience that makes it true.

When did you guys talk? Or have you not.. hmm that's depends on how long ago you did all that, then apologize, then just wait for the response I suppose. But just don't get all emotional if you don't work it out. Aquarius aren't that emotional..

It happened last week

It's taken 2 months for him to talk to me b4 when I've roughed him up emotionally lol
This is a person I've known for many many years
He gets emotional but it lasts for 5 mins with him.
He told me b4 there is no one else he has ever talked to after crazy arguments except me so I must be some kind of special freak to him on some level lol

So what if he comes back into your life? Then what happens? Just continue right where you left off. Or start anew.

You're an asshole, and you're not fooling me. You don't care that you hurt him. If you cared about hurting him the way you did ... then you wouldn't have done it.

You're only here looking for validation.


And you know damn well that you're expecting a certain reaction/response from him.


typical Scorpio ... manipulative as fuck

Posted by P-Angel

You're an asshole, and you're not fooling me. You don't care that you hurt him. If you cared about hurting him the way you did ... then you wouldn't have done it.

You're only here looking for validation.


And you know damn well that you're expecting a certain reaction/response from him.


typical Scorpio ... manipulative as fuck

Honestly I wish it were that.
It would make this do much easier.

I don't blame you for that response lol I'd think the same thing, what's a marker ?

I have pain for the first time in my life regarding a male, one thing I'm happy for is that I know I can love but I don't deserve it.
I want me in his life but I see things he's doing now and it's because of what I said has gotton to him.
Thanks for the input.

I meant to say I DONT want me in his life in that way anymore not for me but for him

Yeah I do want to know what triggered that reaction too?

Well do you think you are better than him? that you have way too high of standards & expectations about your love interests..

And he's opposite of what you expect out of someone. So why even progress in a relationship. Just be friends. And he probably moved on..because no one would want that kind of friendship.

Scorpio and Taurus females get along but that shit would make me re evaluate our friendship. Should not judge or treat anyone bad at all. Karma does exist. A perfect friendship just turned to hatred.. love or hate.. even Aquarius people can be vengeful.

Why did you even say this to him in the first place and were you guys dating?

I know first decan
I know exactally what you mean
No I don't think I'm better than him in anyway maybe deep down I always thought he was better than me.
Throughout our friendship I've helped him with many many things.
Back a quite a few years ago I spent 2 months helping him fill out and send of higher education (uni) applications I filled them for him sorted it all out , when the time came he didn't have the funds , I'm talking thousands of pounds here and I offered to lend the funds without no expectations I wanted him to do well we were just friends at that point.
Anyways uni didn't accept him so I didn't need to lend him the funds in the end.

You see that's just the tip of it , I've given him so much time and help and care.
But on the other side SOMETIMES he treats me like a stranger he just met on the corner. I don't like that.
I've been there for him when his own flesh and blood wasn't.

I never asked him for nothing ever I mean nothing.
All I ever wanted to know was that he wasn't using me.
Our culture is different you don't mess with people in that way it's about respect

But look who showed to be the most desresoectful person ... Me bc my anger took over and it wanted to consume everything.
I feel depressed
I don't want a relationship /marriage /sex
I just want my friend but I know we will never be friends again. I just tried to do one decent thing out if the bad I did

I swear in my heart and soul I'm not expecting anything not being manipulative or any such scorp shit

Posted by Gemi9
Don't min ol itch, she is jut an OLD BITCH!

Who me _— Loool
I swear I didn't understand why every one was using these words
Butter
Tree trunk
Cookie Monster

lol until I typed the word bit@h and it came out as Cookie Monster
I thought it was some new kind of lingo haha

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Why did you even say this to him in the first place and were you guys dating?

On page 1 of this topic you will see what I said _??_

I guess we were dating yeah , and it was all him that pursed me as a person to date I only ever wanted friendship that was enough for me I was happy to have him as a friend
He was the one that pushed and pushed till we kissed etc no sex though lol
( just to be clear on that )
Lol

Yeah don't have sex now. Haha..
Ok thanks for clearing that up... Oh you sure did help him out..after so much give to receive little back. Some people just take and take and are selfish...

I'll never forget when I did all his application I traveled into town to personally hand them in for him

He says to me that evening if I get a place I'm going out to get drunk and celebrate
I said am I invited ? To celebrate with you?
Point blank he said ... NO !

I felt like I had been slapped lol so he wanted celebrate with his fake ass friends who don't give a shit if he lives or dies but the one who had helped him is cast aside like a nobody Loool
This is why I get angry , in person I'm quiet and reserved it actually takes a lot to get that level of anger
But I'm accepting the blame bc I kno no one is perfect we can all be selfish

Thank you for talking with me first decan

Now I have relived these past events I don't actually want him back even as a friend it's all one sided he wants a puppy he can use and abuse.

lol they say the truth will set you free I guess the truth is clear to see
I've sent my apology I'm accepting blame I'm done with it.

Yeah it looks one sided and I've been in it. So I get you. I would and do get angry when good people get taken advantage of or is just being friendly for you while you're not doing well..


Hey people snap, it happens..


Actually you're too nice to actually lend out money in return if you give it out. And expect no payment. Wow. Good thing you didn't would never get it back..

Hm the word NO haha would have pissed me off too..I think I would just drop him.. seriously I do this for you but then again did he ask for your help, no..but we are caring people..

He did always seek me out and ask me for the help for everything I asked him why me ? Since he knows so many hundreds of people he said I know you understand and you care !

Idk

Live and learn I don't regret it the help I gave that would make me a monster

I liked your apology. Lots of people don't know how to apologize properly. They tend to say they're sorry but there's usually a "but you did xyz" on the end which completely negates the apology. Apologies are for accepting your responsibility & part you played without making justifications/excuses. You didn't do that, so it was a good apology. I've been in a similar situation, where I have snapped & said terrible things which I feel bad for pretty quickly because words hurt & stick, & I have no right to make someone feel bad about themselves, even if they did something that hurt me. So I do get where you are coming from.

The thing with this guy though is, I think, he's stuck in the mind of a child. He's grown & lives with his parents so he doesn't have much, if any, responsibility. On top of that you filled out all of his applications, delivered them for him & even offered to pay. All he had to do is show up & I bet if he struggled with the work someone, maybe you?, would have offered to help or even do it for him. You were also "parenting" him. I see this quite often & this is the worst thing that anyone can do for a man. It absolves him of any responsibility to grow up & he stays a child. So I'm not surprised that after all you did for him he acted unappreciative. It's nice to do nice things for people occasionally but it's actually hurtful to do too much for people when they're capable on their own. I don't think that you feel this way, but the message it conveys is: You don't have the ability, as a grown man, to do simple things, like fill out your own application. Think of it that way & maybe do things different in the future.

Posted by RiverLee
I liked your apology. Lots of people don't know how to apologize properly. They tend to say they're sorry but there's usually a "but you did xyz" on the end which completely negates the apology. Apologies are for accepting your responsibility & part you played without making justifications/excuses. You didn't do that, so it was a good apology. I've been in a similar situation, where I have snapped & said terrible things which I feel bad for pretty quickly because words hurt & stick, & I have no right to make someone feel bad about themselves, even if they did something that hurt me. So I do get where you are coming from.

The thing with this guy though is, I think, he's stuck in the mind of a child. He's grown & lives with his parents so he doesn't have much, if any, responsibility. On top of that you filled out all of his applications, delivered them for him & even offered to pay. All he had to do is show up & I bet if he struggled with the work someone, maybe you?, would have offered to help or even do it for him. You were also "parenting" him. I see this quite often & this is the worst thing that anyone can do for a man. It absolves him of any responsibility to grow up & he stays a child. So I'm not surprised that after all you did for him he acted unappreciative. It's nice to do nice things for people occasionally but it's actually hurtful to do too much for people when they're capable on their own. I don't think that you feel this way, but the message it conveys is: You don't have the ability, as a grown man, to do simple things, like fill out your own application. Think of it that way & maybe do things different in the future.

Thank you for the response a great insight indeed , yes yes and yes.

But honestly he asked me to do those things , applications etc he even got me to phone doctors and make appointments for him lol I guess it was like a parent child thing at one point I got bored of it for that reason but never said that, you're right he's like a child in a mans body and I guess when I said those horrible things it's like a teacher or parent telling their child off calling him useless lol

Thanks v.much _??_

Posted by Tinxy
I'll never forget when I did all his application I traveled into town to personally hand them in for him

He says to me that evening if I get a place I'm going out to get drunk and celebrate
I said am I invited ? To celebrate with you?
Point blank he said ... NO !

Really. 😐


This ^^ is not right.

I would have been furious.


You apologized for being ugly, but tbh... I wouldn't

want to continue a 'relationship' with someone like

this, either.


Wtf :/

Posted by Tinxy
I'll never forget when I did all his application I traveled into town to personally hand them in for him

He says to me that evening if I get a place I'm going out to get drunk and celebrate
I said am I invited ? To celebrate with you?
Point blank he said ... NO !

I felt like I had been slapped lol so he wanted celebrate with his fake ass friends who don't give a shit if he lives or dies but the one who had helped him is cast aside like a nobody

That^^^^ sounds like a dry Aquarius joke... that happened YEARS ago. There was no celebration because he didn't get in so wtf are you still holding a grudge over, hypotheticals? Oh that's right, you're a bitch.

You already had an expectation of how your friend should treat you after doing him a kindness. That's not freely giving to a friend... that's a "look what I've done for you" attitude.

just like your fake apology thread has turned into

Posted by Tinxy

Now I have relived these past events I don't actually want him back even as a friend it's all one sided he wants a puppy he can use and abuse.

lol they say the truth will set you free I guess the truth is clear to see
I've sent my apology I'm accepting blame I'm done with it.

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And this ^^^^ shows your insincerity, you just going through the motions because you're tearing him down AGAIN to justify being such a complete bitch.

All this poor me, I'm so horrible.. followed by revelling in what a special kind of cunt you are... back to he doesn't deserve you or your friendship

whatever lets you sleep at night I guess

Posted by shellshocker

Posted by Tinxy
I'll never forget when I did all his application I traveled into town to personally hand them in for him

He says to me that evening if I get a place I'm going out to get drunk and celebrate
I said am I invited ? To celebrate with you?
Point blank he said ... NO !

I felt like I had been slapped lol so he wanted celebrate with his fake ass friends who don't give a shit if he lives or dies but the one who had helped him is cast aside like a nobody

That^^^^ sounds like a dry Aquarius joke... that happened YEARS ago. There was no celebration because he didn't get in so wtf are you still holding a grudge over, hypotheticals? Oh that's right, you're a bitch.

You already had an expectation of how your friend should treat you after doing him a kindness. That's not freely giving to a friend... that's a "look what I've done for you" attitude.

just like your fake apology thread has turned into

Posted by Tinxy

Now I have relived these past events I don't actually want him back even as a friend it's all one sided he wants a puppy he can use and abuse.

lol they say the truth will set you free I guess the truth is clear to see
I've sent my apology I'm accepting blame I'm done with it.

And this ^^^^ shows your insincerity, you just going through the motions because you're tearing him down AGAIN to justify being such a complete bitch.

All this poor me, I'm so horrible.. followed by revelling in what a special kind of cunt you are... back to he doesn't deserve you or your friendship

whatever lets you sleep at night I guess

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I don't sleep at night though.

Thanks for the opinion

_??

Shellshocker

No one cares they're just pretending

lol

I read somewhere that you hurt a Pisces and then I saw this post so I am guessing it's for the Pisces, I find it very beautiful you would do that. I'm a Pisces myself and it's not often you get people these days writing apology letters, everyone is too stubborn.

Also I find it so strange, is there something going on between Pisces and geminis this year because I fell out with my Gemini bestfriend and even though I apologised she didn't want to listen she just said she was over it basically lol but still remains bitter

Posted by estellajones
I read somewhere that you hurt a Pisces and then I saw this post so I am guessing it's for the Pisces, I find it very beautiful you would do that. I'm a Pisces myself and it's not often you get people these days writing apology letters, everyone is too stubborn.

Also I find it so strange, is there something going on between Pisces and geminis this year because I fell out with my Gemini bestfriend and even though I apologised she didn't want to listen she just said she was over it basically lol but still remains bitter

Thanks _??_

But no it was an aqua I wronged