@037
11 Years1,000+ Posts
The most important thing is to be sure that you can share everything with your partner.
Yea that would be nice.. but it's alot of pent up feelings so it's not that good...crying is weakness. Be strong for you, no one cares..
Showing your vulnerability from time to time is actually feminine and sexy.
Being a constant cry baby is not.
...Is that Jynja?
Argee star and undine.. there's a difference in the way crying is used as feelings or emotions, use crying wisely..lol....
i cry easily in front of my husband.
i've only cried two times in front of him. then he hugged me alot. i love that.
and these times were not when my aunt or family member died, or someone we knew close died. We hold eachother for those times too.
Blame the crying and sensitive feelings on Cancer rising. Shit man.. lol I'm a sensitive soul deep. And okay last time I got emotions I was watching Furious 7 damn in the theater. Haha.. damn cancer if I don't contain I might just let the pent up shit I've built over the decade.. gotta stay strong and tuned..
Fast and Furious. Omg. I started crying immediately Paul Walker came on the screen. Then, at the end when they drove out in different directions, I bawled like a baby.
But I was alone, so I could cry freely till I needed to bury my face in the freezer for a while.
Rip Paul Walker 😢
Now, what the hell is up with the Avengers.🙂
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yea that would be nice.. but it's alot of pent up feelings so it's not that good...crying is weakness. Be strong for you, no one cares..
I sort of think this way. I don't cry because no one cares and also crying gives me a super bad headache. I know that crying shouldn't be seen as weak, but it's a personal barrier that I haven't yet overcome. Hypocritically, I don't like when my partner refuses to cry. I also don't like when they cry too much. Crying won't solve any of my issues nor do I think it solves others' unless they've had pent up feelings.
037- I was not alone my Pisces brother came with me, Lol boy I think we both held it together.. I am pretty sure he formed a tear especially the end....And I know the end was the real tear jerker, the whole beach scene.. Lol
I've not always been the most emotionally expressive person (Female - Taurus sun/Gem moon) always been seen as kind of stoic, but there use to be a time when I could cry in front of people if it happened, I didn't try to stop it. But a looong time ago when my relationship was ending with my daughters father, I was really very devastated & crying pretty hard, I looked up & he was smiling.... I found that pretty sadistic. I think that kind of ruined me being even the slightest expressive with feelings of sadness in front of others. I don't cry much anymore.
Argee River- It does probably have to do with jerks on why I am unemotional detached,and my family background... I also have Aquarius moon so yeah either I will be very straight up and tell you how I feel and guage by reaction...However the moment I feel it is not going anywhere I withdraw as I have Cancer Rising the only water placement in my chart and it's sad really and I distance myself..
My VIT, Sun in Taurus, Mars in Taurus and maybe Pluto wants nothing but emotions from someone and I want to be open and be expressive cause I can be very caring, passionate and affectionate with my words...So to someone who isn't all that expressive it can be overwhelming or excitable to some people..
I am a Taurus, a rock... a Bull will take hard core devoted and determined individuals anyday. He or she who has just enough emotions will make it open up easier. Now if I happen to meet someone I am attracted to all bets are off and I am doing whatever I feel like doing.
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