Lost my Mojo and need help

Hey y'all,

I saw this guy on Friday that was frowning like he was upset, but he was still nice and let me bowl for free all night (he works there). I tried to ask him what was wrong and he said it wasn't something I wanted to hear. Random girl knew the dude and was even trying to introduce me to him because she said we are very similar. I didn't tell her I thought he was cute or anything. He is very shy like next level shy and that probably is another reason why I am attracted.

I could be tripping, but I think he might be a little interested. 1st time I went there I didn't even pay attention to him, but he was always there to help me when arcade games were missing up as if he was watching me. I guess it could be his job, but he would have to peek around the corner. Anyways, I wanted to give him my number and asked the random girl for her pen. I didn't know what to say on it so she wrote something for me to give it to him. I ended up giving it to one of his co-workers to give to him. He said he spoke to the guy and said he wanted to talk, but I was such a chicken and left.

How do I get my game/mojo back? Is it even worth trying to say something to him again? He is different and I don't approach men. I am a Sag I got to point my arrow to see if I can hit that target. Maybe, my feelings are just over-hyped and I just need a drink or vacation lol.

Help a sister out lol. These couple months got me in my feelings like Drake singing Keke, do you love me? Wishy washy energy for me lol.

Posted by MoneyTreats

Rainman thread

I never understood why people try to pass their negative energy to other people. Please keep it to yourself and this is far from a Rainman thread. Sometimes you can just keep things to yourself, but God bless whatever spirit you have.

Posted by LethalFantasia

Ohhhh and try to calmmm down. I feel like if he wanted to talk to you after he got the note, obvs it wasn't going to be a bad thing, or in my opinion it most likely wasn't going to be anyway.. He would have held off on trying to communicate with you because it's #awks to reject somebody. lolz.

Yes, I am a cornball who still does the middle school notes 😱. I can talk to men just fine when they approach me, but as a Sag I just overthink things. I try to take the most logical solution, but always end up making myself look corny lol.

I do need to relax because it's not the end of the world, but I lost my mojo and have 0 game.

Posted by Sonia1

He said he wanted to talk, so go back and tell him you were a bit embarrassed. Remember you said he was shy too, so I'm sure he'll understand.

I think you're adorable.

Thank you Sonia, I love your positive energy 🙂. I am going to give it another shot when it is not a busy night. Still probably going to be nervous, but I will try to woman up. I got to stop overthinking things huh? I don't mind reject if I get it, but isn't it nervous putting yourself out there?

Posted by alexscaries

He's interested 100% . If I'm interested in somebody I will try to get close to them so that they notice me, that includes things like you mention helping with arcade games to strike up conversation. Also if I got a phone number if there was no red flags I would text the next day.

Yes, Aries throws a lot of hints and attention when they like someone. I feel like Aries and Sags are like perfect matches, but it gets too hot in the kitchen. Can go from burning hot to forgiveness pretty quick lol. It's a random thought I had. Not sure what this guy is though.

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Ohhhh and try to calmmm down. I feel like if he wanted to talk to you after he got the note, obvs it wasn't going to be a bad thing, or in my opinion it most likely wasn't going to be anyway.. He would have held off on trying to communicate with you because it's #awks to reject somebody. lolz.

Yes, I am a cornball who still does the middle school notes 😱. I can talk to men just fine when they approach me, but as a Sag I just overthink things. I try to take the most logical solution, but always end up making myself look corny lol.

I do need to relax because it's not the end of the world, but I lost my mojo and have 0 game.

Omggggg you are soooo cute lol! Yeah, I know that feeling (I have a Sag Moon). But yah, I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of/worried about. It will be fine! I do think he is interested but even if he isn't, who cares? Atleast you put yourself out there and hopefully realized it's not so bad. 😛x

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Yes, that is the funny part about it. I get worked up about it, but if he isn't interested then I wouldn't even be in my feelings. I feel Sags move on when there's no real feelings involved like actual love. Maybe, I been hibernating in the house too long and need to get out more often lol.

I'm really wondering if i'm the only one that has been wishy washy these last two months? I mean my mind changes every week if not every other day.

Its hard to say if he was interested or not. He very well may have just been doing his job and being friendly. Its hard to tell with service orientated jobs if they are being friendly cause they are on the clock, or friendly cause they want your cookies.

You made a move, he has your digits. Next move is on him.

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Ohhhh and try to calmmm down. I feel like if he wanted to talk to you after he got the note, obvs it wasn't going to be a bad thing, or in my opinion it most likely wasn't going to be anyway.. He would have held off on trying to communicate with you because it's #awks to reject somebody. lolz.

Yes, I am a cornball who still does the middle school notes 😱. I can talk to men just fine when they approach me, but as a Sag I just overthink things. I try to take the most logical solution, but always end up making myself look corny lol.

I do need to relax because it's not the end of the world, but I lost my mojo and have 0 game.

Omggggg you are soooo cute lol! Yeah, I know that feeling (I have a Sag Moon). But yah, I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of/worried about. It will be fine! I do think he is interested but even if he isn't, who cares? Atleast you put yourself out there and hopefully realized it's not so bad. 😛x

Yes, that is the funny part about it. I get worked up about it, but if he isn't interested then I wouldn't even be in my feelings. I feel Sags move on when there's no real feelings involved like actual love. Maybe, I been hibernating in the house too long and need to get out more often lol.

I'm really wondering if i'm the only one that has been wishy washy these last two months? I mean my mind changes every week if not every other day.

Hmm, I definitely relate to that, that's why I've been trying so hard to "balance" myself! Maybe you should do things that make you happy/comfortable? And don't beat yourself up about this silly situation (in the grand scheme of life lolz). And give yourself credit for being open like that, even if it was a note and you left 😆! I know how nerves can be so that tooks balls. It was clearly a really nerve-wracking thing for you but you did it and you're here and fine and breathing sooo000ooo consider it #lessonlearned 😛x

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Haha yes, Henny to the face for me. Let me chill out it isn't even Friday yet. Now I am in a party mood, but got 1 more hour of work. Hopefully I did the Gif thing right.

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He's interested 100% . If I'm interested in somebody I will try to get close to them so that they notice me, that includes things like you mention helping with arcade games to strike up conversation. Also if I got a phone number if there was no red flags I would text the next day.

Yes, Aries throws a lot of hints and attention when they like someone. I feel like Aries and Sags are like perfect matches, but it gets too hot in the kitchen. Can go from burning hot to forgiveness pretty quick lol. It's a random thought I had. Not sure what this guy is though.

They say Sag and Gemini is a good match as well. I think ultimately when I've argued with Sags we don't argue for long as they often make silly jokes and don't take it seriously - how can I stay angry with that?

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Funny thing is the closest people to me are usually Geminis, but never dated one. My Mom is a Gemini and most of my old best friends are Geminis. Yes, I feel the same way about Aries lol. I love the forgiveness because nothing in life is that serious.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its hard to say if he was interested or not. He very well may have just been doing his job and being friendly. Its hard to tell with service orientated jobs if they are being friendly cause they are on the clock, or friendly cause they want your cookies.

You made a move, he has your digits. Next move is on him.

You are right about that one. I'm just going to have some fun this weekend and get out a mingle lol. Thank you for knocking some sense into me.

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Posted by Sonia1

He said he wanted to talk, so go back and tell him you were a bit embarrassed. Remember you said he was shy too, so I'm sure he'll understand.

I think you're adorable.

Thank you Sonia, I love your positive energy 🙂. I am going to give it another shot when it is not a busy night. Still probably going to be nervous, but I will try to woman up. I got to stop overthinking things huh? I don't mind reject if I get it, but isn't it nervous putting yourself out there?

You're welcome 🙂. It's ok to be nervous, we all are when we have a crush. I would be too, but I'd still want to go back to hear what he had to say. haha You initially thought he was interested so how are you going to find out unless you go back? Be like Nike and just do it!

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Haha I like that slogan "Just do it". Right, I appreciate everyone's feedback because it makes me want to more courageous. I am more adventurous when I travel, but when I live in the city I stay at home. I'm going to try to step outside the box for a couple weeks and see how I like things.

Once again thank you very much

Try to focus on why things will go well, and visualise it going well in your own head. It’s just all about practise too, the more you get used to talking to guys the easier it will be, so even though you might be a little out of practise now, the only way to improve is to keep practising and keep talking to guys. Your mind will start learning and you’ll get better and less nervous. The only way is to practise, and even if you crash and burn a little, that is still a good learning experience for next time.

Posted by AriesJo

Try to focus on why things will go well, and visualise it going well in your own head. It’s just all about practise too, the more you get used to talking to guys the easier it will be, so even though you might be a little out of practise now, the only way to improve is to keep practising and keep talking to guys. Your mind will start learning and you’ll get better and less nervous. The only way is to practise, and even if you crash and burn a little, that is still a good learning experience for next time.

That's funny because I speak very well with men and have more male friends around me. I get nervous when I have to approach a male since it isn't something that I do. I have no problems when guys approach me. At this point, I am just going to go out and have some fun. I tend to overthink things, but it passes out of my brain. Maybe it was the weed that helped idk lol.

He texted me y'all, but I will be mindful about how long it took. I figured it would be a long time, but sometimes men have girlfriends on the low. I didn't expect him to contact me lol. I have no clue what to say and I will probably sleep on it.